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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 13 Sep 2019, 6:49 am 

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Thanks @teach51 but sadly that's not an option for me. He works with me every day and there's nothing I can do about that. :-(

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 12 Sep 2019, 4:04 pm 

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Hi all, Just an update and a heartfelt thank you for all your insight. After much further exploration and soul-searching, I did indeed conclude that those of you who suggested he was actually a narcissist masquerading as having autism were right. I read a lot about this and others experiences etc an...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 11 Jul 2019, 7:07 am 

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Thanks @Magna. In response to your question, I'm not sure really. I totally understand his behaviour in this regard is not anything to do with autism, but I guess I was questioning whether his seeming inability to see or hold onto quite how unfair/hurtful he is being to me, might be related to it. H...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 11 Jul 2019, 4:11 am 

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Thanks @Teach51 Yes I have lots of support, from an amazing group of friends, who have essentially being saying much the same as all of you. As said earlier in these posts, I guess I have just been seeing only what I wanted to and trying to find an excuse for his treatment of me. It's been a crazy f...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 11 Jul 2019, 3:18 am 

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Ok, thanks all. Your advice heard loud and clear and actually very helpful. I have been trying for weeks to be strong enough to tell him it’s enough so I shall channel these responses and do that. Thanks for all your concern. And no I did not have abusive parents but yes it is clearly a problematica...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 10 Jul 2019, 11:15 pm 

Replies: 31
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Thanks everyone again. Apologies for not using ‘suspected Asperger’s’ without a formal diagnosis. I do understand why the psychopath suggestion is being made (I also explored this along with narcissism long before any consideration of autism but neither really work as explanations). I do also unders...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 10 Jul 2019, 10:22 am 

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Thanks everyone for your comments. He is not diagnosed properly no, but I think there is no doubt really. I have done the things suggested, explained carefully and calmly. He broke it off not me - I tried exceptionally hard to save us - albeit before we recognised the Asperger’s so not always in the...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Help understanding my Aspie ex's behaviour

MabelineGP
Posted: 10 Jul 2019, 4:08 am 

Replies: 31
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Hi, I am hoping someone can offer me some advice about my situation as I am very confused and not sure what to do and don't want to get it wrong. My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. We have since been through a process of revelation that he has Asperger's. It makes sense of everything. I ...
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