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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What makes women want sex with a man? |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2021, 5:16 pm
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Replies: 280
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| Okay, so can I get straight down to it: what makes a woman want to have sex with a man? At times I've heard women talk about sex. Talk about sexual experiences. Talk about liking sex. Talk about getting disappointed and frustrated with a partner. Etc... I know that heterosexual women are attracted ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Visiting Sex Workers |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2015, 8:14 pm
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Replies: 22
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| I would particularly like to thank the lady who was brave enough to share her own SW experience. It was interesting to hear that many of your clients were likely aspies who don't want / can't cope with relationships. It's something I've found as well from talking to my SW friends. They find many of... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Visiting Sex Workers |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2015, 7:52 pm
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| I've just returned to this thread after a month and I'd like to thank everyone who has posted here. With only one or two exceptions, the comments have been positive and I know from experience that most people who are negative on the subject of sex work have little or no actual knowledge or experienc... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Visiting Sex Workers |
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Posted: 01 Feb 2015, 7:41 pm
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| It's terrific that visiting sex workers seems to be working for you... but, well, have you considered the downside? That a woman you wanna have a relationship with for FREE might possibly be so horrified that you've paid for sex that she leaves you if you tell her you've frequented hookers? Or a ho... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Visiting Sex Workers |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2014, 8:40 pm
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| I don't visit the site much so I hope this topic is in the correct section and is OK for discussion. As a middle-aged aspie male, I started visiting female escorts just over a year ago, having had a couple of relationships which ended badly, largely due to my social cluelessness and my need to spend... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationships with women |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2014, 11:08 am
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| I'm a bisexual woman with AS, and I can't even make friends with most women, so I would consider you somewhat lucky in that regard. I have never dated or slept with a woman because I can't read their cues. Men are so easy to interpret in comparison -- they're more accepting of behavioral deviation ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationships with women |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2014, 10:23 am
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| As a middle-aged man who only realised I had Aspergers about 8 years ago, I have learnt a lot about myself from the diagnosis. However I continue to struggle with exactly the same 'women' problems I had as a teenager. Basically I'm a big hit with women -- in the friend zone. My life has been a long ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergers relationship breakup |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2014, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 37
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| Yeah. He needs to come to you. That much is for sure. I'm afraid that if you message him, he might not reply in a kind or loving manner. Im hoping that you aren't dwelling on this too much and are getting out and doing something that makes you happy at least I want to make it clear to him that I'm ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are asperger men what woman secretly want? |
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Posted: 28 Jan 2014, 6:51 pm
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| As a middle-aged Aspie (late 40s) and speaking purely from my own experience, I think many women genuinely love Aspie men, though often in a similar way to how they love gay men. I've lost count of how many females have described me as 'sweet, funny and easy to talk to.' Which is nice, but not so gr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergers relationship breakup |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2013, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 37
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| [/quote) Surprise! You are getting a reply. Remember the old saying "If you love someone, let her go. If she returns, she is yours, if she doesn't, she never was. BTW I thought that I was the only one who used the term NT. My GF returned when I had least expected it and had already moved on emotiona... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspergers relationship breakup |
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Posted: 11 Nov 2013, 6:56 am
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| Very late to this thread so not really expecting a reply. I'm an aspie needless to say. I met a lovely NT lady online last year. She has her own anxiety issues but we overcame most of those together. We dated for three months -- a very intense loving relationship. Then we moved in together and every... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Fairly certain I have Aspergers. What do you think? |
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Posted: 24 May 2008, 6:56 pm
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| Your score of 40 is indicative of AS -- I scored 42, whilst none of my family scored above 27. Taking this quiz and reading up on AS gave me a startling realisation, at the age of 44, that I actually do have a recognised psychological condition, rather than just being an anti-social automaton. Most ... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Favorite Band(s) and Song(s)? |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2007, 6:05 pm
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| Gary Numan (apparently a self-diagnosed Aspie): Are 'Friends' Electric?, Cars, We Are Glass, I Die You Die, Love Needs No Disguise, We Take Mystery, My Dying Machine, Warriors, I Can't Stop, Pure. Tears For Fears (angst city) particularly first album 'The Hurting'. Also check out vocalist Roland Orz... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Single via fatigue? |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2007, 7:11 pm
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| Hi Tech (er sorry that sounds silly) I totally empathise with your post. I had many years in my youth when I forced myself to go out with 'friends' -- to the pub, clubbing, house parties whatever. 9 times out of 10 I just wanted to go home. The whole thing just bored me to tears, small talk was so d... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspergers and Prince Charles? |
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Posted: 20 Oct 2007, 6:41 pm
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Replies: 19
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| It's a possibility, but although Charles often appears awkward (notice the constant hand in the jacket pocket mannerism) and eccentric, I can't imagine he could be a true Aspie. Speaking personally, the mere thought of having to meet and greet huge amounts of people on a regular basis would make me ... |
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