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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 24 May 2020, 2:13 am
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| but I really don’t think there’s such a huge disparity between men and women who aren’t attractive trying to get a deeper relationship as seems to be implied (or in some places, outright stated) by this thread. There are some disparities that are worth mentioning. The first is that societal expecta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 20 May 2020, 1:51 pm
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| So much this! I don’t get why. I don’t get why other nt women date aspie me but never me. They come here crushing on apsie men who don’t want to date them, but never me. I’m just not good enough. If only I was born non defective and could work a real job. Can you at least admit that there's people o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 19 May 2020, 4:08 pm
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| Desperation is easy to sense to a lot of intuitive/non intuitive people alike. You can pick up on the tension coming off of the person, their over exuberance seems unnatural and stifling, and their persistence tends to overshadow them just being themselves. It is the same as with negativity in a way... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 18 May 2020, 1:17 pm
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| Yes, you are correct. I was referring to attitude. Assessing the situation can be valid, but judging a situation never is. No one except the parties in participation know a situations it's and outs, nor does any one know the progress that can be made or the growth that can come with a particular sit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 18 May 2020, 7:34 am
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| He is a floor person, experiences anxiety and issues going to college (so may/may not finish), does not have a driver's license or car yet (says he has anxiety over the notion of driving)... i think his biggest obstacle will be being addicted to porn/using self satisfaction as a coping mechanism. Th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 17 May 2020, 8:58 pm
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| Assessing the situation can be valid, but judging a situation never is. No one except the parties in participation know a situations it's and outs, nor does any one know the progress that can be made or the growth that can come with a particular situation. I’m just a clerk, just like you’re a clerk.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 17 May 2020, 6:06 pm
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This. I work retail as an assistant manager as well... never judge some one.
kraftiekortie wrote: I’m just a clerk, just like you’re a clerk.
I think I have a “real job.”
Most people are smart enough to know that any job is a “real job.”
Especially in this era of COVID. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 17 May 2020, 6:05 pm
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| I said yes to being his girlfriend before he had his first job. He works retail now. He started his first job during the holiday season last year. November/December-ish. Ghosting could not be that, though... as he still shows pretty active in apps like Instagram. He just doesn't talk to me anymore ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 17 May 2020, 4:23 pm
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| I said yes to being his girlfriend before he had his first job. He works retail now. He started his first job during the holiday season last year. November/December-ish. Ghosting could not be that, though... as he still shows pretty active in apps like Instagram. He just doesn't talk to me anymore a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 17 May 2020, 3:21 pm
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| He started his first job during the holiday season last year. November/December-ish. Ghosting could not be that, though... as he still shows pretty active in apps like Instagram. He just doesn't talk to me anymore after he said he felt like he made a huge mistake. To my NT mind, that means he must h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do women simply just dislike Aspie men? |
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Posted: 17 May 2020, 1:42 pm
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| NT female here. I adored my ASD (20) boyfriend. I wish he would come back. He kept getting overwhelmed any time remotely I tried to talk about if there was a disagreement or he would disappear and not communicate he was disappearing... or if I felt hurt. The one time he did something inappropriate (... |
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