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Forum: The Haven Topic: My problem |
| threetoed snail |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 11:44 am
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| Got my blood test results today. Slightly elevated thyroid hormone levels again (causes hypomania symptoms, like restlessness, irritability, obsessive thinking and disregard for proper sleep). This explains a lot. The last time this happened, it was also during a "foruming phase", and I wa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: My problem |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 3:55 am
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I was going to start a thread named "reminder to myself", but it seemed like overkill, and appropriate enough to post here instead, I hope you don't mind.
Reminder to myself: Too many dead-end rabbit holes. May is no-forum month.
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 3:11 am
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Replies: 111
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| Honestly, I shiver every time someone uses the phrase "to get women". Like we were some stock on a restricted market. It does seem to me that, more often than not, that's exactly what people mean. I can understand the idea from a rationalized point of view, I can understand it in some typ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 1:34 am
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Replies: 111
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| I think that's one of those things that, if it doesn't go without saying, then saying it probably won't make a difference. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
| threetoed snail |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 1:07 am
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Replies: 67,799
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Diurnal mosquitoes, and other more generic things like dust and probably other things that I'm not aware of. No food allergies though, thankfully.
same question |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 1:01 am
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Replies: 111
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| If that alpha theta lambda thing is true, then I must be a Cyrillic letter or a hiragana syllable or something. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
| threetoed snail |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 12:23 am
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Replies: 67,799
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Sometimes I'm not even sure if I'm looking at a star or if it's actually Venus...
(Oh and I hate CRT screens too btw... haha. Don't miss them at all.)
Have you ever seen a total solar eclipse? |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 12:18 am
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Never done it, can't think of any place I'd feel comfortable doing it.
Can you point at any star/constellation in the sky and name it? |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
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Posted: 29 Apr 2021, 12:12 am
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I'm not even sure what it is.
Do you miss CRT screens/TVs? |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 10:57 pm
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| ^^^by any chance can you sing " Manhã de Carnaval? " that is my fave song in Portuguese. :dj: I'll have to admit that I'm not familiar with that song, or any other in the genre, probably. I don't really listen to Brazilian music these days, and when I did it was usually some type of rock.... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 10:32 pm
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| Catalan (I already speak the other one :)). I did buy a teach-yourself book once, when it seemed like I would be getting an internship in Catalonia. Didn't go far though, as usual, and the internship didn't happen anyway. Jo no puc quedar-me... That's all I remember. It was interesting to learn that... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 9:32 pm
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I'm a terrible liar. I keep tossing and turning. 
Seriously though, my only effective way of "lying" is by changing the subject. The neon billboard on my forehead won't let me do it any other way.
How do you like your eggs? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Most men here cant get women because they lack confidence |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 8:21 pm
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| Narcissistic people are among the least self-confident, and they dominate much of the social media landscape. No coincidence there. Or maybe the more precise word would be "secure/insecure". And maybe that's the source of much of the confusion, because "self-confidence" is often ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Popping the question |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:59 pm
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Nope, sorry. 
Unless you have real and tangible reasons to believe it's going to help you amend your relationship, there's just too much potential for second-hand psychochondria, with not much to be gained. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Deciding to leave for good |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:10 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,322
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| Then talk to your therapist about what to occupy your mind and your time with if you can't decide for yourself right now. Talk to them about techniques to help you to decide for yourself once you've managed to at least distract yourself a bit. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Deciding to leave for good |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2021, 7:03 pm
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Replies: 28
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| Your level of dependence on outside validation is deeply unhealthy. You don't have to live like that forever, and you can take the first step to change it. Go seek professional help if you haven't yet. |
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