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Forum: The Haven Topic: I messed up |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 10:04 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 547
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| We talked. She told me that she’d forgive me as long as I promise to never do it again, this is my final warning. And she said she wants to go to couples therapy before we get married |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I messed up |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 4:06 pm
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Replies: 12
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| I'm glad for that, at least. Better than her breaking up with you. I hope you are more careful next time. I agree. I still feel terrible and I feel like our relationship immediately took a turn for the worse, but it’s only been not even a full day since it’s happened. I feel so awful, and I think m... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I messed up |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 3:25 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 547
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| She has to trust you again. Not something you can just push a button and it happens. It might take time. Put yourself in her shoes. Six years isn't something she will simply walk away from but it hurt her more psychologically than physically. I wish you strength in your quest to regain her trust. T... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hi. I’m new. |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 2:31 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 960
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| Some mistakes are fatal. I’ve messaged her and told her I am going to stop drinking. That wasn’t me. I would never physically hurt her, and I lightly slapped her on the face I didn’t do it to hurt her.. I don’t know why I did it.. I grew up my parents hitting eachother and me, and getting in physic... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I messed up |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 2:27 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 547
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| A heart to heart talk, possibly with a third person present that you both trust, such as a mutual friend or churchman, might also be advisable. Thank you. I asked her if she’d like to talk later. I told her I’d give up alcohol completely. I was planning on proposing and now I don’t know what to do.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hi. I’m new. |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 1:41 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 960
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Mountain Goat wrote: Buy her flowers?
Ok |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I messed up |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 1:39 pm
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Replies: 12
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| Hi. I am new to Wrong Planet posting but I have been scrolling on this site for a while. I need advice. Last night I got angry at the way my gf was treating me (She was angry that my phone light was too bright, but she came about it aggressively) and I hit the bed next to her and ended up hitting he... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hi. I’m new. |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 1:25 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 960
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| Some mistakes are fatal. I’ve messaged her and told her I am going to stop drinking. That wasn’t me. I would never physically hurt her, and I lightly slapped her on the face I didn’t do it to hurt her.. I don’t know why I did it.. I grew up my parents hitting eachother and me, and getting in physic... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post something that made you UNHAPPY today. |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 1:22 pm
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Replies: 33,514
Views: 1,270,808
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| I was aggressive towards my girlfriend while drunk and now she doesn’t want to get married. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hi. I’m new. |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 1:21 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 960
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| I don’t know what to do. I can’t stop thinking about this. I can’t believe I did this. I want to marry her and now she doesn’t want to because of one stupid mistake. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hi. I’m new. |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 5:50 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 960
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| Thank you for the welcome and the advice. I’m upset that she said she no longer wants to get married, and I’m upset by my actions. I don’t know why I did it. I think I ruined our relationship |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hi. I’m new. |
| Houseboatz |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2021, 5:18 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 960
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| Hi. I am new to Wrong Planet posting but I have been scrolling on this site for a while. I need advice. Last night I got angry at the way my gf was treating me (She was angry that my phone light was too bright, but she came about it aggressively) and I hit the bed next to her and ended up hitting he... |
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