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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "But a woman's number of options doesn't matter!" |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 13 May 2022, 12:23 am
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Replies: 134
Views: 7,304
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| ^ No, not only bumble, I am talking about the okcupid, last time I checked it is a tinder clone now. There’s the matching mechanism (you like her and she also has to like you), if you are not matched then she can never see your message. Therefore no flooding in their side (unless they marked liking... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "But a woman's number of options doesn't matter!" |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 11:29 pm
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Replies: 134
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| Anyway even okcupid became a clone of tinder now, so the photo is the main thing by design. And that’s not by coincidence, these multi-billions companies do extensive data analysis and studies to find out what works better, so they surely know more than you and me. The tinder-like design is perfect... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you most regret? |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 10:31 pm
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Replies: 53
Views: 3,046
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| Eating too much Getting made redundant from too many slave plantations Not transitioning earlier Hanging out with homophobic precious lil "people" Structural engineering, wrong school, wrong major Destroying work history, unemployable Jesus, I'm sorry. I have a trans son. I was never a bi... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate being white!! |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 10:30 pm
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Replies: 118
Views: 3,821
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kraftiekortie wrote: I’m against political correctness. I’m not a conservative at all. I’m a white man married to a black woman.
What do you think political correctness is, and why are you against it? Why do people like you need to advertise your credentials? Who you married isn't proof of anything. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How is your relationship with your father? |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,422
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| One of the most noticable things my brother does is admit when he's wrong (and so do I, towards the boys). My father was always right, even when he was not, if you know what I mean. When the sun was shining and my eyes hurt, he would say that it wasn't that bright and I should stop complaining, tha... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you most regret? |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 53
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| I regret not befriending nice girls at school who showed interest in becoming friends with me, instead of sticking to the girls who didn't want me around. If I had made friends with the right girls I might have lived a normal teenage life without all the horrible social isolation. But each time a n... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you most regret? |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 53
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| No real personal regrets. I did my best on the assumption that people would decide not to destroy the climate. My life is wasted so far, but I'm glad I tried to use my talents for good. I wish I'd learned about the difference between IQ and EQ much earlier, and that the Dunning-Kruger theory had co... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How is your relationship with your father? |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 8:22 pm
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Replies: 39
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| Distant. I'm not entirely sure which side of the family I have my autism traits from, there were ww2 rocket scientists (first Nazi, later Nasa) and tinkerers on my mother's side, and engineers on my father's, but both my parents seemed well adjusted, liberal in comparison to their conservative back... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I want to be like Albert Einstein |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 8:10 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,418
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| She really is physically attractive. She is a good shape because she plays football and does other sports too, and when she's not playing sports she's dyeing her hair and covering her face with make-up so that it looks perfect. I should wear more make-up, not to attract men, because I already have ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How is your relationship with your father? |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 7:49 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,422
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| <snip> He was being a provider because he was told that was his job Maybe also to keep his family from homelessness and hunger. The world needs adults. My family was always well provided for, lots of overseas holidays, certainly food. I played with my kids and showed them my love CONSTANTLY |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do you most regret? |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 7:32 pm
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Replies: 53
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| My wedding. I didn't know I was Autistic, so didn't know to manage my sensory and anxiety issues. It went well enough, but I have huge regrets about how I **didn't** manage some obstacles. Of course my family didn't know either, so personally faulted me for my difficulties rather than helping. They... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate being white!! |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 7:31 pm
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Replies: 118
Views: 3,821
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cyberdad wrote: Ah don't sweat it. I come across like a raving "Commie" and the worst that happens is I'm politely ignored 
Me too comrade!! !! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I want to be like Albert Einstein |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 7:24 pm
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Replies: 26
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| I am sorry that in history not kind to myself. I have very low-self esteem, suicidal thoughts, envy myself and get frustrated at myself and sometimes call myself "ret*d" for having profound learning disorder, and sometimes give up on learning, as it is so frustrating. I used the phrase &q... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How is your relationship with your father? |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 7:03 pm
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Replies: 39
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| My relationship with my dad is ok. He had several jobs, he was a business man, he owned a supermarket, he owned a diner in the 80s, he sold tacos, it gone now, he owned a restaurant too. He was working more than he spent with his family, he work came first before his family, he spent time with us, ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate being white!! |
| ChrisInAustralia |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 7:01 pm
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Replies: 118
Views: 3,821
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| Don't let wokes and color activists and their allies make you feel bad. You didn't ask to be white. You didn't aks to be born in Canada. This. This is utter nonsense. People who are asleep like to lie about white guilt. So called 'wokes' (people with morals) are not suggesting all white people are ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate being white!! |
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Posted: 12 May 2022, 6:55 pm
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Replies: 118
Views: 3,821
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| Don't let wokes and color activists and their allies make you feel bad. You didn't ask to be white. You didn't aks to be born in Canada. This. This is utter nonsense. People who are asleep like to lie about white guilt. So called 'wokes' (people with morals) are not suggesting all white people are ... |
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