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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2008, 4:10 am
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Replies: 2,709
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| My ex. I have not seen him sense October. Still. I don't even know if I can call him that. He once told me that we were just friends. I guess it was my foolishness to think that a person is more than just a friend if they share that kind of passion and do not state up front that it is only casual. I... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are You A Paranoid Aspie? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2008, 3:48 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 2,824
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| yeah. I get that way too. It's like every little thing bad that has happened to me affects my ability to get close to people. I have lost countless relationships over it. Thinking that they are cheating when really it is me who is doing it. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: will I be a child forever? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2007, 7:03 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,109
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| The words of Frank Sinatra "You have a head start if you are amongst the very young at heart." |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: And now...Deep Thoughts...By Jack Handey |
| Memi |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2007, 9:35 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,745
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Most people would be repulsed by a pile of s**t just sitting on their door step.
But did they ever stop to think that pile of s**t might repulse others? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is Force the Only Way? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2007, 8:16 am
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Replies: 28
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| At first I thought you meant THE FORCE. LOL. That might work. My suggestion. Act aloof. The less available you are the more desired you will be. It might drive you crazy along with the girls, but eventually with patience...god knows that's a tuffy...but less is more and it never hurts to make them t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2007, 7:58 am
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Replies: 2,709
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| I got that bad habit of not pushing people away without knowing it. I miss my old lover, for lack of better terminology I will call him that. No one was ever good enough who accepted me too. He helped me realize that I had a problem. I will always be greatful for knowing him, but I feel like a part ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone find Christmas shopping difficult? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 8:36 am
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Replies: 39
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| That is why adopted the Mormon policy of no holidays. It just makes life easier. Now on the other hand if I see something that I know for a fact a friend will love....then I get it for them and say merry xmas or happy bday which ever one is chonologically (damn I can t spell) closer. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Selective Memory |
| Memi |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 8:25 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,823
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| It seems stress cause the memories to go bye bye. That and karma. Suffering the make ups. I cant remember being that happy either. Me...I do a review either in a note book... I try to write everything down if I can. It really helps... or mentally when I am in the shower I review. I generally just tr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Cleanliness (or lack thereof) |
| Memi |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 8:17 am
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Replies: 45
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| When I first started to realized I was a social "strange" I was a messy person. I kept my person clean but not my space. Now...well...I shower at least 2 a day... I have to have everything in it's place and YES MY skin feels gross if and my mind can not function in the mess. I think that it has some... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: As. and driving |
| Memi |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 8:12 am
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Replies: 78
Views: 7,663
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| I can drive as long as there are no other cars on the road...the road is a four lane freeway and I am use to the car. LOL. Hand eye What? I live in San Francisco. You do not need a car here. Public transit is the best in this city and if you cant handle the crowded buses during the rush hour...walk.... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Problems getting what you want to say across...? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 8:07 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 3,300
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| my problem...well the problem others have with me is that I talk too much about nothing. My stragegy now.... is to try to not talk at all, so I got rid of my cell phone and leave the land line unplugged. I got a sole no human interaction job. All new people in my life don't know the difference, but ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What are your favorite sensations? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 7:45 am
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Replies: 885
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| Hugs and soft fuzzy things. this form makes me feel like I am home. They use to call my grams huggie gramma. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: At what age did you give up trying to attract men/women? |
| Memi |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2007, 7:43 am
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Replies: 77
Views: 8,615
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| I love sex. Well when I got a good partner. I had this stratagy that to have two or three men as boyfriends (not generally together...although i would not put that past me) at the same time that I would not obsess over one or the other. They would have "help" taking care of the needy Alexithymia par... |
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