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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Definition of Friend |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 27 Nov 2010, 8:15 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 4,397
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| Ok I've come back to this thread a year later. I dont feel like I want to be so concerned about the definition of what a friend is. Because I used to overthink this way to much which would restict my interactions with people because their not friends. I tried so hard to catagorize everyone. Its not ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need Advice about Aspie Guy |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2010, 11:09 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,670
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| Christ, get rid of him, he's not worth getting all pent up over, just another insecure a***hole who cant get women. yes I will probably get rid of him, I just hate doing that to people, Im still thinking. Thanks to the responces guys :) cause I really wasnt sure what to do. His immature behaviour i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need Advice about Aspie Guy |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2010, 2:54 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,670
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hale_bopp wrote: Christ, get rid of him, he's not worth getting all pent up over, just another insecure a***hole who cant get women.
yes I will probably get rid of him, I just hate doing that to people, Im still thinking. Thanks to the responces guys  cause I really wasnt sure what to do. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Whats the difference between social anxiety and aspergers? |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2010, 5:15 am
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Replies: 53
Views: 21,495
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| In general: the difference is people with social anxiety can communicate and read social cues completely fine but they are just constantly terrified and self-conscience of themselves that they might do something wrong. Verses people with aspergers arent aware of themselves and cant read social cues ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need Advice about Aspie Guy |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2010, 11:56 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,670
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| Ok this is seriously a waste of time and immature of me to do but i wanna vent and I got no one to friggin vent to. And no its not cause I dont have friends, its cause im not close enough to anyone and I dont wanna take advantage of anyone k. Heres one of his messages and heres my response. "But wha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need Advice about Aspie Guy |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2010, 3:03 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,670
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| Anyways I dont really need advice anymore because I've officially deemed this guy as a jerk. This is what he put on his fb status: "Never date an aspie girl ever....good grief". Its like no friggin girl would want u after u friggin pushed and pushed so hard cause u cant stand rejection. He tried too... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone have any other disablities than aspergers/Austim? |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2010, 2:41 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 3,791
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| I have some learning disability, a reading disability i think but its unclear specifically what it is. I woulda had to get further testing to get the specifics which costs tons of money. I just got tested enough to get the needed accommodation. Otherwise I have a social anxiety which is not so much ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone else has "oh s**t" moments years later? |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2010, 2:35 am
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Replies: 43
Views: 4,957
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| yeah theres a lotta moments from highschool that I realized what I did wrong later. Up to 2 years into college I used to get really ashamed of those moments but I had to remember that it doesnt matter now and Im probably the only 1 that still remembers it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need Advice about Aspie Guy |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2010, 6:18 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 3,670
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| Ok so I met this aspie guy off the internet and the interesting thing is I didnt even know he was aspie at the time, Aspergers only came up later surprisingly. We got to know each other online for a bit and one our first date, he asked me if I wanted to try a relationship and I said no, wayyy too so... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Which symptoms do you have and not have? |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2010, 2:14 pm
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Replies: 72
Views: 9,634
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| Speech and language peculiarities: used to but not anymore Overformal speech: No Taking everything literally: Used to not anymore Word repetition (echolalia): sometimes Long monologues: Sometimes Inappropriate remarks: sometimes Inability to take turns talking: used to but not anymore Inability to l... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How did you learn Social Skills? |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2010, 4:58 pm
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Replies: 73
Views: 7,572
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| From making lots and lots of mistakes. Making a fool of myself constantly and just doing things wrong. It takes lots of practice in just everyday life. You can memorize as much social skills as you want but you have no clue what everything means until you actually apply it. But it does help to get a... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: How high-functioning do you consider your Asperger Syndrome? |
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Posted: 11 Nov 2010, 5:57 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 5,850
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| I think this question is highly subjective. Id assume most people would rate their AS functioning as pretty high. I personally pick 9 because I go to college out of state. Im very responsible and I take care of myself. In the functioning areas, Im pretty much comparable to an NT. In the social aspec... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspie Girls Awkwardness |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 10 Nov 2010, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 92
Views: 18,056
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| Ok so we all know that aspie girls mask and camoflauge their difficulties and often come across as normal. Because of this: do a lot of aspie girls just not have that outward awkwardness about them? Im speaking strictly from a outside perspective. I was wondering. How exactly do you aspie girls mask... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How come some aspies have friends and others can't make any |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2010, 2:36 pm
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Replies: 81
Views: 17,508
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| Ok I didnt really read much through this post but for me I have several not too close friends. Say around 7 friends(in person). I have more on the internet. Ive only had 1 close friend in my entire life that was in person. I have really strict definitions when it comes to considering a person a clos... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Ann on America's Next Top Model |
| princesseli |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2010, 8:00 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,960
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| I dont think so. I didnt watch that season of ANTM but in I watched an interview with her and her eye contact just seemed very NT. The way she spoke was pretty NT. She maybe a bit of a geeky but i dont think so. She made really good eye contact. She seemed very engaging. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Maternal Instincts in an Aspie Female |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2010, 11:50 pm
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Replies: 75
Views: 23,615
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| So I was really curious about the concept of having maternal instincts. I mean: I dont get it. I know some people are just good with children and some arent. I am horrible with kids: I cant take care of a kid to save my life. Of course I dont have any. And I thought may lack of being able to take ca... |
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