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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Anonymous support group for autistic persons |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2024, 11:55 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 2,445
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yes, I support it, I think it's very important and me myself have created a group in whatssap focused on autism vivencies, but unfortunately, I don't know nobody that I could invite to it Lololol it's hard  |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Most of social skills comes down to just practice |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2024, 10:09 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 33,814
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| I've been studying this so called "social skills", and it got close to nothing as a result, I can just interact with good people and it's mostly just 30% of people around me and mostly 1 or 2% are woman and the rest is men, mostly are old or too young like kids, as a young woman, let's jus... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Autistic-friendly social skills vs. blending in with NT's |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2023, 10:51 am
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Replies: 65
Views: 14,286
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| I agree with this type of space in the future because I know I'm not the only one that don't have progress or results even studying social interactions and social skills by many ways: reading, listening, watching videos, movies made for neurotypicals identify themselves and so on. I didn't get the r... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What kinds of groups does the autistic community need? |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2023, 10:36 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 4,747
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| totally agree, we should get more proactive, finding ones that are truly interested in it first than organizing all things after. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: My friend was rejected from every social group in college! |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2023, 10:27 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 2,945
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| your question it's valid, but when you neglect the situation like, to not ask how this guy is, if it's everything alright, etc... at least for me it's kind of sadistict y'know, but I'll tell that yes, unfortunately autism disturbs to make up social interactions, that is the most dificulty that autis... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: You don't need to make much effort when making friends |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2023, 10:21 am
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Replies: 60
Views: 18,956
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| I can relate to that so much, it's easier to accept things how it are rather then fight against it, since we think differently to the neurotypicals most of the times, we have to take up position to show that we exist, that we can change things yes. We can influentiate with books and articles, in pod... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you think this is true (not for everyone)? |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2023, 4:23 pm
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Replies: 72
Views: 14,050
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| Nope, since I'm from the country on the bios, you can imagine my struggle to have a boyfriend, this country isn't made for non social people even a little lolol. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friends |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2023, 7:10 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 2,862
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| Today I don't care anymore, but rejecting me for being autistic and tomboy, yeah this will repeat very much times in here. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Are most of your friends opposite sex? |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2023, 6:58 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 4,428
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| Just men and only men, when I was younger, I had a few friend girls, but then It all changed because I dunno, jealousy? The boys like me more or something? Maybe. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friends and family |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2023, 6:48 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 2,609
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| Well, me bring autistic, tomboy, and all things that come from that. Summary, my position to not agreed with everything they do and talk, very far away from their so called "common sense". Neurotypicals have more stress on their life's because of these dramas and after brag about them so &... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What are the reasons that I have few friends ? |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2023, 6:32 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 4,487
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I rather not know about it my whole life than to become one of these nasty hypocrite neurotypicals, screw them. They are the ones who make up all these problems it seems today, so they can make it out whenever they want to  |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Discrimination |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 22 Nov 2023, 2:58 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,493
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| I was discriminated for being tomboy, autistic, honest, in many different's contexts I suffered from "mysandry" from women because their crushes liked me, I not, and they tried everything to ruin my reputation, call me all the ugliest names and repudiate me as much as they could. So today,... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Narcisist Moms |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2023, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 4,142
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| [quote="kirakirakira"]Hey, I'm in an exactly same situation now :) Hi, thank you so much, now I know I'm not alone, I just know this website for autistic people, I fell so alone in most of the times, because there's no other place for me to talk, unless 7 cups but the listeners just don't ... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Narcisist Moms |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2023, 12:58 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 4,142
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| Wishing you cleverness and luck to find benevolent resources. Muito triste pela horribilidade. (online translate) Thank you, nobody from here support me truly and I'm really alone in this situation, like I always knew, the clever will live life easier, the ingenous have it harder. I'm trying to get... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Narcisist Moms |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2023, 10:48 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 4,142
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| Now it's serious, I'm almost sure my mom is going to take me out of the house, she's pratically searching for any dumb reasons, even the stupidest to argue with me, but I'm used to it, don't care at this point, so now, she's going to use her final movement, expulse me, this ain't so rare and is even... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Social body hair norms? |
| jillsurf12 |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2023, 10:48 am
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Replies: 47
Views: 1,336
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| I'm a woman and where I'm from, having body hair is considered lack of hygiene and disgusting, so I was forced and humiliated to shave almost all body hairs, but I have more testosterone than the average woman, so that increases the growth of hair in my body specially the armpit, legs and pubis. Whe... |
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