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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sweet and Innocent syndrome? |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 23 Aug 2024, 4:17 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,208
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| Mostly for straight guys. So have you ever known a young woman who seemed sweet and innocent, prim and proper, or shy and mousy, a "nice girl" about whom you later learned was really a freak in her private life, willingly lost her virginity in her early teens, or has a high body count? Ho... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do we live in a better world now than in days gone by ? |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2024, 2:03 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 428
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| No, I don't think so. Recently I've started to notice, and maybe this is just my area in the U.S so take this with a grain of salt, that though the expiration dates are still well into the future, many things seem to be spoiling much faster. Eerily so. There is also a hush-hush issue with the water... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do we live in a better world now than in days gone by ? |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2024, 1:52 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 428
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| In general there is more people, fewer wars, fewer deaths by war, fewer famine, etc, so things are objectively better. The news focus on problems and upsetting content because they get more views. Even then there are big gaps, like reporting extensively on gaza but not wars in Africa. If you watch ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do we live in a better world now than in days gone by ? |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2024, 1:48 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 428
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| What a interesting question.. I would say.. yes and no. Yes: Technology and modern inventions and medicines have improved our everyday lives and increased our life's span. We also improved treating other people that's different from you with more respect. It's not perfect, but better than it was. No... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it "your fault" if you're 30+ and haven't found the One? |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2024, 12:36 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 3,227
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| I seem to be waiting for the chance of seeing someone who attracts me and then make the move to initiate a conversation with that person and go from there. That's how I met someone before when I visited a charity shop she was working in and one of the occasions I approached her and we started talki... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Self Improvement |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2024, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 792
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| I'm not doing any more 'self improvement'. It's time for other people to improve their acceptance skills. I think it would depend on what should or shouldn't being accepted. An example would be is it acceptable for someone to game all day and not do anything to improve their life? (Negative accepta... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Change |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2024, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 0
Views: 107
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| Another topic discussion that came up to me is the concept of change. To talk about myself for a moment, I don't like a whole lot of change; no matter how inevitable it is. I prefer the same routines at the same time what some changes but not ridiculously drastic. "If it ain't broke, don't fix... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2024, 2:04 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 3,687
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| Online dating in general was something that was supposed to make dating easier. But it made it far more complicated. All the messages above explaining the fallbacks of it is the reason I don't use them frequently anymore. On the guys end of online dating, there's little to no matches. So when guys d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2024, 2:55 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 3,687
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| Yes your explanation makes sense Rhapsody, but do subscribers now what they are signing up for? or is it buyer beware? I personally would not have the patience to read the terms and conditions and how do users (particularly female) get protected from violent individuals who from what I read able to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2024, 2:52 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 3,687
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| Yes your explanation makes sense Rhapsody, but do subscribers now what they are signing up for? or is it buyer beware? I personally would not have the patience to read the terms and conditions and how do users (particularly female) get protected from violent individuals who from what I read able to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2024, 11:32 pm
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Replies: 67
Views: 3,687
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| ... I wonder why that's not the solution in general... For some people, it takes too much effort and time to "organically grow" a friendship into a committed, loving relationship. For others, the lack of immediate success is very discouraging. Mutually-occurring and lasting "Love at ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do YOU find attractive? Non physical only |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2024, 3:59 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 5,256
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UncannyDanny wrote: Fun, quirky, understanding, and doesn't normally use profanity (at least the strong ones, like the S and F words. Mild terms like "hell", "damn", and "crap" is fine).
Anyone using too much profanity is never attractive in my opinion. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do YOU find attractive? Non physical only |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2024, 3:58 am
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Replies: 69
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| I love this thread idea! Especially since I'm on the ace spectrum and don't experience physical attraction like a normal person. I'm most attracted to people that make me feel safe and wanted. It's nice to feel safe to express my feelings, or needs, or even just drop the mask for a little bit. It's... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2024, 1:46 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 3,687
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| If women are having so much trouble with being the selectors, why can't they be the chasers? Sometimes women do approach men they’re interested in. Do you think the likelihood of approaching a guy you find interesting would increase your chances of success or not? Meh. I’m not into approaching or b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps |
| Graves Knight |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2024, 1:43 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 3,687
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| That's a good statement. I have something for any women reading this to think about: I'm aware you've heard of Bubble. If anyone is not aware, in this app the women have to make the first move. Once matched, the women has to start the conversation within 24 hours. What I've heard is Bubble is not d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps |
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Posted: 03 Aug 2024, 12:45 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 3,687
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| Women also have a difficult time looking for a partner. There are a lot of creeps out there and women get a lot of unwanted advances. Yes and that's considered a different type of difficult. Weeding out the a lot of bad men for the good ones. Sometimes women struggle to find any partner at all or s... |
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