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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: People of the 40-ish age.........

TommusCattius
Posted: 18 Feb 2008, 5:16 pm 

Replies: 60
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I'm about to turn 50, she just turned 37. Age difference is one thing that never came up as a problem. There were problems but the age difference never was an issue. Was she looking for a father figure? Maybe, but I think men closer to her age just weren't able to deal with her issues. (She has just...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Can it work?

TommusCattius
Posted: 18 Feb 2008, 1:02 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,118
ToadofSteel I probably sounds a bit selfish but right now it's me that's holding back. I care for the girl but when she left it was a bit of a relief because I didn't think my own sanity could handle any more. Now that there is some hope I still want to see her be well and I'm willing to help her wh...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Can it work?

TommusCattius
Posted: 18 Feb 2008, 12:05 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,118
Toad of Steel Thanks for the positive outlook. I'm hoping I can at least be a friend to her, she sure needs one. I don't think anyone in her past has ever stuck by her, including her family. I'm sure that has probably made things worse for her and I want to stop that cycle now that she finally has a...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Can it work?

TommusCattius
Posted: 18 Feb 2008, 9:56 am 

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Views: 1,118
pakled I only have the diagnosis second hand from her right now. I would have to say it is a preliminary diagnosis but after reading here and doing other research it does seem likely. I am hoping to speak with her doctor this week and find out more. She does display a lot of the symptoms and has alw...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Can it work?

TommusCattius
Posted: 17 Feb 2008, 6:21 pm 

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Views: 1,118
sarahstillettos: That sounds a lot like what she has gone through. I hope her after Diagnosis experience is similar too. AnderstheAspie: I know exactly what you are referring to. We even had a bit of a system so I could tell when to leave her alone and when to be there. Unfortunately we did not know...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Can it work?

TommusCattius
 Post subject: Can it work?
Posted: 17 Feb 2008, 4:10 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 1,118
Hi all, This is my first time here, just registered, and the first place I go is "relationships". *l* I am not an aspie as far as I know but my 37 yo girlfriend has just been told that she may be. I say girlfriend but right now it is really ex-girlfriend. We dated for a year, lived together for 8 mo...
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