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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Polyamory? |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2015, 5:41 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,554
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| I hate to sound like some ancient snob, but I think polyamorous relationships are...unreal in a sort of fantasy way. As much as I'd love to be in an active relationship with more than one person, it would be incredibly difficult to do so whilst working full-time, actively studying, or anything else ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Public transporation to work, etc |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2015, 12:22 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 1,852
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| Admittedly, I've been commuting on public transportation since high school, so I really have no qualms with it. Just...be engrossed in your own thoughts/activities and nothing else will matter. Personally, though, I've always loved to look at people (and other animals) milling about and doing stuff.... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Computer programming |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 15 Mar 2015, 12:07 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,406
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| Um, well, it helps to know what kind of programming you'd LIKE to do in the first place. For example, would you prefer to do back-endy sort of stuff, make iOS/Android apps, be a web dev, or something completely different? From there, pick a language or two and work on learning them. There are oodles... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I decided to try Salvia for a second time today. |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 30 May 2012, 5:56 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 405
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| Atomsk, try tripping on it without resorting to music. I play music, too. I've a keyboard and ~3+ stringed instruments at my disposal nearly all the time. I've found that playing music tends to have a grounding effect on salvia. As in, I'll be playing whatever tracks I am and I won't really stumble ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I decided to try Salvia for a second time today. |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 27 May 2012, 10:19 pm
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Replies: 20
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| Personally, me and my friends feel that doing salvia is essentially equivalent to doing some other incredibly stupid thing in order to show off one's manliness. Out of the many people I've known who used salvia, only me and one more friend have had resoundingly positive experiences. Among many negat... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Blade Runner |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2012, 2:01 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,641
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| I was gifted the following book of poems that is obviously very related to the film: http://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Life-Replicants-Murat-Nemet-Nejat/dp/1584980818 Lots of the poems require quite a bit of thought and an immense love for the film, but I recommend it for anyone who is into poetry and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Terrified of intimacy |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2012, 6:38 am
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Replies: 69
Views: 8,373
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| The way I got over sensitivity was forcing myself to become exposed to lots of people...and some who touch a lot. Or in weird ways/places. There was anxiety and bad things did happen, but I'm happy that they happened with people I'd rather not know very well rather than the ones I do want to be with... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How many of you are on OKcupid? |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2012, 6:33 am
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Replies: 603
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| In my experience, I meet two types of people online: either those who are geniuses compared to me (like the guy who finished 2 bachelors and one masters degree in four years...while still being a great pianist/organist and doing loads of performances)...or those who are so intellectually vacuous tha... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Trans-aspies, do you bind/tuck/other? |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2012, 5:47 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 17,515
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| I've tucked before. In fact, the funny thing is that I've been tucking often as a kid...and then stopped when my hormones finally kicked in (at the ripe age of 18, that is). It's not scary. Especially if you feel that that thing between your legs wasn't made to be on your body, which...personally, I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When is it okay to hug a person? |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2012, 5:30 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 750
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| When in doubt, ask. Usually, one can tell who wants to be hugged and who doesn't. One of my close friends allows me to, once in a while. I ask him. Another...well, he thinks it's too gay, so we don't. Unless he asks, which is rare. As for dates, it's my opinion that a parting hug is always allowed, ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Breaking the dating/relationship barrier (like sound...) |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2012, 4:28 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,143
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| There could be a number of possibilities as to why, from one perspective, I think you should back off and let him pursue you, if he likes you enough, he will pursue you and if he doesn't, you know he doesn't like you. If you insist, you could run the risk of being second best or being dumped for so... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What about changing sex |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2012, 4:11 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,676
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| I don't think changing sex is (or should be) about attracting the mate that you want. I'm a gay FTM; that means I severely narrowed my dating field by changing sex. Trying to date men in a phallocentric community when you have no phallus is far trickier than trying to attract men as a woman. You'd ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Breaking the dating/relationship barrier (like sound...) |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2012, 3:23 am
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Replies: 6
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Erm, great. Thanks. I thought as much. Just being careful. I highly doubt he was offended.
Any opinions on the main questions at hand? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Breaking the dating/relationship barrier (like sound...) |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2012, 3:14 am
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Replies: 6
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| So, I met this absolutely wonderful guy online and we sent each other something on the order of 15 1K-word messages before we finally met. When we met, I went to his campus and we spent all night together (doing active things with his friends and talking alone). We had some more phone calls and mess... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: I really hate Gay stereotypes |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2011, 11:58 pm
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Replies: 54
Views: 17,159
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| How am I contradicting myself? yes a homosexual is one who is inlove with the same sex, what I am saying is if you are a homosexual (a true one :wink: ) you wouldnt be attracted to a boy who acts like a girl, and vice versa. According to the dictionary definition (the one I gave is equivalent to ne... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Gloomy 60s music |
| Aerith |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2011, 10:59 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,316
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| One of my friends showed me this a few months ago: Brothers Four - Greenfields [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46o1joHp7t0[/youtube]Interestingly enough, there was also a famous Russian song built off the same melody in the 80s (I think). Unfortunately, most of the people here won't be able ... |
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