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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women and smell |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2010, 6:10 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 4,903
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| Hygiene is extremely important to me when I'm considering anyone for a relationship. Hell, it probably tops my list of important physical traits. Nevertheless, there's another smell -- as has already been mentioned here -- below the surface that is really important. I've been around very attractive ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Omg WOW, really, what were the odds of that?! |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2010, 7:47 pm
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Replies: 205
Views: 23,831
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| just a little general FYI - i have a medical related associates degree - and one thing i have learned is that one of the best times to make love to a woman is right on and during her period - it may be a little messy and bloody - but that is also when she is the HORNIEST - and the orgasms she has d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bi-polar lover (Not what you think) |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2010, 4:25 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,451
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| If you think that would help -- and it may, honestly -- I say you should give it a shot. Maybe approach honestly, realizing the woman you're talking to on the dating site is a real person, not an entity who is somehow lowered by posting on a dating site. The more you talk to honestly, the better you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bi-polar lover (Not what you think) |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2010, 11:00 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,451
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| That doesn't sound what I'd describe as bi-polarity (and yes, I realize you aren't referencing manic-depression). It sounds like the splitting of sex from love, which most people tend to do, it seems. What's worrisome is how you portray this as really compulsive behaviour, as if you don't have the d... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it a good idea to go back with your ex? |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2010, 10:44 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 9,470
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| Getting back with your ex is great if you aren't doing it at all out of desperation, know what went wrong the first time, and know what you're getting into. Really, it is that simple. The taboo against reconnecting with once-lovers with the intent of being together again is one borne or fear, howeve... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting involved with a great girl but... |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2010, 9:52 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,677
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| Think of it this way: she's in a relationship currently with another person, a girl who has expressed that she'd be hurt if this girl dated now. This girl you're acquainted with is obviously planning something behind her back, according to what you've said. She is going out with you with the intenti... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Getting involved with a great girl but... |
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Posted: 08 Jan 2010, 5:14 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,677
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| If you're not afraid of your heart being broken, I'd say just got for it. I don't know what you're looking for. Even without being directly involved at all, I get 'bad vibes' from what you've said here. I safely assume anyone with Asperger's has at least some trouble reading intentions, non-verbal g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need Help....Pretty Please? |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2010, 2:23 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,877
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| There isn't any mention of direct rejection in your post. Have you told him very firmly something along the lines of, "I'm not interested in you, and I'm not going to be. This isn't your fault, so don't take it hard, I'm just focusing on my school, my life, and have no interest in pursuing anything ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: THIS can't be normal, even for an Aspie |
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Posted: 05 Jan 2010, 2:07 am
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Replies: 45
Views: 6,538
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| Are you kidding? This is crazy normal. Just look at the mass media. Crazy sociopathic women are very popular, at least. This reminds me of that Fluke song, Atom Bomb . Baby got a poison gas Baby got a heart attacks Baby got a pain on tap Baby gimme some of that I used to be one of those women. I've ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I need to possibly break up w someone I care about |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2010, 2:14 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,359
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| for christmas, I got him a coyote brown army backpack that did not arrive till New Years eve... he went ballistic because it was not what he wanted. I felt bad because it was not the one I thought I ordered...I didn't like it either...but he completely went off on me.... He totally was mean to me a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Apparently You Can't Be Friends With Your Ex's |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2010, 1:59 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 7,310
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...I was just starting to forget about it, too.
No. No, I'm going to be a good girl tonight and be productive. I will not tempt my ADHD into further acts of procrastination and mental fornication! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Apparently You Can't Be Friends With Your Ex's |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2010, 12:56 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 7,310
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| Oh, no, I wasn't going by your title at all. I was going by the verbatim messages and such. The annoyance is understandable. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Apparently You Can't Be Friends With Your Ex's |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2010, 12:34 am
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Replies: 15
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| My thoughts are that it's possible to be friends with someone you've attempted a 'romantic relationship' with, provided it was not abusive, had been a friendship beforehand, and had not ended on a destructive note. Given what you said, though, move on. She's more than 'a bit' negative and she sounds... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For what it's worth, I'm here to say that it IS possible. |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2010, 12:24 am
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Replies: 46
Views: 5,228
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| ...boyshape? I must be behind the times in colloquial relationship terminology. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: She Loves! But Does She "LOVE" Me? |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2010, 7:45 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,078
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| Sounds like friendship and nothing more. Putting myself in her place, it really feels like I wouldn't be able to tell you're interested "like that". And saying "I love you" these days, especially for the younger people out there, generally doesn't have a lot of strength behind it. If you feel that w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: For what it's worth, I'm here to say that it IS possible. |
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Posted: 03 Jan 2010, 6:37 pm
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Replies: 46
Views: 5,228
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TheMinnesotaIceman wrote: I doubt there are any single, female, Minnesota-based aspies on this site.
Hey, two out of four ain't bad. Maybe it's three out of five, if being on this site is one of the other requirements. Even though I'm not in Minnesota currently, I'm a native. |
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