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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie Friend Confusing me.... |
| Jogi |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2009, 9:34 pm
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| Yeah. Definitely be patient. Don't let yourself be hurt by him, but don't hide it. From my experience, it's best for you to share how you feel with him in as patient of a way as you can - including when he's hurting you. That's a very important dynamic, you both have to make sacrifices and work arou... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| Jogi |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2009, 3:28 pm
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Replies: 2,709
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I already miss my girlfriend who's going back home tomorrow morning.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Always doing the wrong thing? |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2009, 4:12 pm
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Replies: 11
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| I don't know, I've never experienced sleep disturbances like that. I wake up really rapidly and sometimes have the remnants of dreams floating around, but it's never mixed into my reality. Full blown confusion like that, as often as that, is not something I've seen with friends or family. I'm sure ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Always doing the wrong thing? |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2009, 7:52 pm
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| Thanks whitetiger and mitharatowen. I'll try to get an evaluation, yeah, if I can. I should mention that most of the time, while I never experience outright delusions, things do feel unreal to me. I seem to have disconnect between the concept of myself, the concept of others, and the concept of real... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Always doing the wrong thing? |
| Jogi |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2009, 7:46 pm
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| No, I haven't. I don't actually ever experience visual hallucinations, or any kind of hallucination, for that matter. The morning delusions have only really occurred in the last week, and never during the day. They have happened on occasion before that, but only rare times when I was awoken in the m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Always doing the wrong thing? |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2009, 7:29 pm
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| I appreciate the advice. That's definitely something I am interested in, and I've floated between a few therapists, told my doctor my symptoms, etc. My therapists didn't help and my doctor prescribed me SSRIs, which I took for about two months. I was having severe anxiety before them and it helped m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Always doing the wrong thing? |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2009, 5:50 pm
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Replies: 11
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| (Already posted this in the general forum, decided it would be better here. The other one can be deleted) I'm really scared of this situation, I don't know how to cope with it. I'm an 18 year old man with possible Asperger's traits. I'm still trying to figure out if I have it or not, so if anything ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Insanity & Always doing the wrong thing? |
| Jogi |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2009, 3:56 pm
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| I'm really scared of this situation, I don't know how to cope with it. I'm an 18 year old man with possible Asperger's traits. I'm still trying to figure out if I have it or not, so if anything in this points one way or the other I'd love to know. I'm in a 2 year relationship with a woman I love ver... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sport Masturbation :P |
| Jogi |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2009, 8:43 pm
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Replies: 38
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| That's the kind of behavior that makes it disturbing to have people over. Especially masturbating into panties and into a child's bunk bed. That feels to me like a break in trust and just underhanded and gross all around. It borders on exhibitionism pretty strongly. I agree that it's not brave or fu... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Phone sex |
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Posted: 07 Oct 2008, 10:39 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Oh. My god. Let's make a club. Seriously, I've been all those places a million times. I almost laughed at loud at the bit about being insecure when not doing anything because you're insecure about doing nothing, just out of the sheer empathy. It really takes away from the experience when you can't s... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexually Open Women |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2008, 9:22 pm
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Replies: 69
Views: 1,520
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Help this guy out! |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2008, 9:18 pm
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Replies: 8
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Um. If I were so crushed about being cheated on, somehow I don't see making a bargain like that a logical train of thought. 
"I feel devastated by the loss of my wife, therefore I'm going to f**k this hot girl I know if I can spam my site enough that a bunch of people visit it!" |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sexually Open Women |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2008, 9:52 pm
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Replies: 69
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| Orbyss is lying, I can tell you that much. I'm constantly pummeled by her fists for doing anything from 'kissing' over the phone to trying to suck in a blob of drool. It's like living under an iron fist, literally, and I can say absolutely honestly that there are a few times I've barely escaped with... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: this is abit kinky |
| Jogi |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2008, 9:19 pm
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Replies: 36
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| Seriously, Neolmas puts it really well. Basically by accepting the desire for someone to be dominated at face value, you are excusing yourself to partake in an indulgent fetish. Oh, she wants it, so that makes it fine. BS. I realize that she has her own issues and if she's going to go around asking... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What is it with men... |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2008, 9:14 pm
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Replies: 56
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| I can't question the circumstance, but I still boggle at how distance kills people's relationships. I'm not sure what issues would rip it apart, if there's are deeper feelings there. Seeing each other three times in the space of 15 months, with few to no prospects of seeing each other again any tim... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: this is abit kinky |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2008, 5:23 pm
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Replies: 36
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| Seriously, Neolmas puts it really well. Basically by accepting the desire for someone to be dominated at face value, you are excusing yourself to partake in an indulgent fetish. Oh, she wants it, so that makes it fine. BS. I realize that she has her own issues and if she's going to go around asking ... |
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