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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Lower Functioning Woes! |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2011, 1:37 am
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Replies: 4
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| Oh, I'm not saing that it does , except I suppose the "Even Nerds Have Standards" sort of thing applies here. You see, we're not the best sociable people here, but we do have a code of conduct. And I don't take it the wrong way at all, against my better judgement, I sort of enjoy the weird looks I g... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Lower Functioning Woes! |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2011, 12:10 am
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Replies: 4
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| A bit of background, if I might: I am an eighteen year old Aspie female. Now, most of my friends are on the spectrum. (Well, most of my guy-friends anyway, I don't know that many female Aspies.) The thing that concerns me? I'm likely the highest-functioning out of all of us. We're all bright academi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The autism social rule book. |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2011, 12:01 am
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Replies: 877
Views: 305,862
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| -Your NT friends are not the enemy. Ask them for social advice, they CAN and WILL help you when need be. -Conversely, your lower-functioning AS friends are also not the enemy. Be patient with them. -The internet is your friend, and so is Facebook, there are a myriad of people with your special inter... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Question for female aspies in relationships |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2011, 10:25 pm
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Replies: 56
Views: 12,138
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| Sex? What's that? (Kidding, kidding.) Honestly, we really don't. He refuses to be with a girl who gets around too much (... which means he completely ignores my offering to let him screw any girl he wants as long as there's no feelings or attachment for her) But otherwise? Two years and counting, bu... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Ask a question (adult version) |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2011, 10:19 pm
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Replies: 5,873
Views: 77,031
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Erisad wrote: Same
Nope, but mainly because I'm engaged, and flirting doesn't appeal to me.
Let me see, a question for all?
Oh, I've got nothing. Same question. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie Girls and Lolita |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2011, 10:11 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 11,859
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| Stop! Please get the image of a sexually promiscuous young girl out of your head please! That is not what we're talking about. *Ahem* Now that that is out of the way, for those who are not in the know, Lolita is a Japanese street fashion, popularized by the singer Mana of Malice Mizier, there are m... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Theatre asks autistic boy to leave |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2011, 10:04 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 4,766
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| I read the article. The theater was within it's rights to ask them to leave since the kid was being disruptive. The theater has an obligation to look after the benefit of ALL of the patrons and that means providing a non-disruptive viewing experience, even if it means culling a few of them out. Hea... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I think NT women hate me |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2011, 9:56 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 8,757
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| Ahh, welcome to the world of "Female cattiness" or "Female bitchiness" or whatever you wanna call it. It's rumoured to have started because, well, women in general are percieved to be the fairer sex, and from that comes things that are valued to females: A nurturing personality, passiveness, and nev... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Do u care about fashion (Girls only) |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2010, 4:45 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 6,683
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| When I was a kid? Not at all, I could hardly care less, clothes were to protect my body from nudity and the elements, nothing more. Nowadays? I have an unhealthy delight for high-quality clothing, and outlandish things. I also have a huge interest in alternative fashion (Victorian Gothic, Steampunk,... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: A horrible routine breaking |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2008, 9:06 pm
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Replies: 1
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| Just tell her you cannot go. Or, plan your evenings around the baseball games. Heck, my problem wouldn't be the routine, but all the bloody noise of the stadium! But all the same, just tell her that you cannot go because it's a problem with your schedule and that there's really little impact on your... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Another child diagnosed |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2008, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,163
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| I think you need to spend a little bit more time with your NT child. If he's talking like this, that's probably a sign that he feels left out, considering that Aspie kids feel left out in everyday life, I suppose it's ironic for an NT child to feel left out in an Aspie family, but all the same, take... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is Your Autism Consistant? |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2008, 3:35 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,333
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| Days? What days? I can go from high to low functioning in minutes . It normally depends on what class I'm in, for example, in Math, I'm fine, but rather bored, so I tend to delve into my obsessions. In Bible, I have to draw to keep concentration ((if we're not singing in that class.)) In Gym I have ... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Typical Teenage Harrassment |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2008, 10:49 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,433
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| "Are you quite done yet?" Oh, that is brilliant, I've seen that look, now to master it, oh, thank you! <3 |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: What is the truth about Autism Speaks?? |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2008, 7:54 pm
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Replies: 122
Views: 21,602
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| That video doesn't seem too bad actually. If you want to see the outrageous side in a video, watch Autism Every Day All of those mothers complaining... is almost pathetic.... My Mother as to put up with me every day of my life ((and things were far worse in school than they were before.)) And not o... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: are only people who are higher functioning |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2008, 7:31 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 5,460
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| Hey, if you don't care what they're up to, good for you, that's one less thing you need to worry about. And as for what I know, I don't know if it's just a higher functioning thing, but all Autistics and HFAs and Aspies should be proud of themselves and their ASDs, if or if not you're worried about ... |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Cure Neurotypicals? |
| HarraArial |
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Posted: 11 Mar 2008, 6:51 pm
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Replies: 59
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| Hmmmm now how could I be cured :? I love being a neurotypical :lol: It is not the NT person that needs to be cured, just their attitudes :) Gah! The attitudes are by far what makes the rest of you seem so disgraceful.... I agree, there's nothing wrong with NTs like there's nothing wrong with AS, th... |
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