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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: She refers to me as darling...

Rubygold
Posted: 09 Apr 2008, 4:16 pm 

Replies: 20
Views: 2,723
Well, it seems to me that she's sending you signals that she's interested. However, you're in the UK and I'm in California, so these signals do differ by region. It's my understanding, though, that people in the UK don't tend to be as outwardly physically affectionate as do many in the U.S. - Yes th...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do Aspie men tend to like strong women I know I do?

Rubygold
 Post subject: one NT perspective
Posted: 09 Apr 2008, 3:58 pm 

Replies: 57
Views: 6,385
I know in our relationship (I'm NT and he's AS), I'm often dominant in that I generally make the decisions and handle any crisis issues that arise. He has told me this is a relief to him. However, I don't see this has his being weak. In fact, he doesn't tend to stress out about stuff like I do, and ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: i dated an aspie guy, 6 months l8r im an aspie do i tel?

Rubygold
Posted: 09 Apr 2008, 3:26 pm 

Replies: 19
Views: 2,351
Just from how you describe it, this sounds like a very unhealthy relationship. It seems as if you want to tell him about the diagnosis to get him to come back to you. This is just my own interpretation from some of my own past experiences with guys that broke up with me.

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: meow?

Rubygold
 Post subject: Re: meow?
Posted: 09 Apr 2008, 12:43 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,077
and the sad part is, we don't even KNOW it is not possible, we think we are reciprocating correctly and all the NT knows is they aren't seeing the social cues and facial and body language that invoke a bonding response in them, and so on some level, think them either not responding or simply being ...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: meow?

Rubygold
 Post subject: Re: meow?
Posted: 09 Apr 2008, 12:08 pm 

Replies: 11
Views: 1,077
sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find someone who can, will? do the same for me--I wonder if I'll ever find someone who understands what I've been through. . . and my history is somewhat exotic and extreme, so even without the actual emotional understanding component, it's a little bit of a limited ...

 Forum: General Autism Discussion   Topic: HELP! New to Asperger's and marriage is failing

Rubygold
 Post subject: Your story
Posted: 24 Mar 2008, 2:24 pm 

Replies: 13
Views: 3,159
I know I'm coming into this conversation late, but I found your story very heart breaking. I'm currently engaged to a man with asperger's. About a year into our dating relationship, I started thinking he may be Aspie. I'm an NT. Honestly, there are times I've thought he is an "as*hole", "insensitive...

 Forum: Getting to know each other   Topic: An introduction

Rubygold
 Post subject: Thanks
Posted: 18 Mar 2008, 10:38 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 808
Thanks to everyone for their warm welcomes! I'm excited to be here. I'm not really used to forums and proper etiquette on them so I apologize in advance if I offend anyone! :wink:

 Forum: Getting to know each other   Topic: An introduction

Rubygold
 Post subject: An introduction
Posted: 18 Mar 2008, 5:54 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 808
What is your first name? Kim Age: 35 Location: San Diego, CA Hobbies and Interests: I enjoy dancing, singing, reading & writing Why are you here? I'm an NT engaged to a man recently diagnosed w/ asperger's When were you diagnosed? --- Favorite subjects: Anthropology, Classics, Comparative Litera...
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