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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got a girl's phone number, now I need some advice... |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2010, 2:08 am
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| Thanks for the advice so far guys. When I call, should I just say "Hi, I'm (my name), the guy you met in the coffee shop the other day." [She says hi] "Would you like to meet me for coffee or a light lunch sometime?" Or should I wait a little longer into the conversation, eg, make some small talk fo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got a girl's phone number, now I need some advice... |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2010, 8:27 pm
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| Do not plan on renting a car; the T is fine for the Boston area, and renting a car for date is overkill. She can offer to drive if she really wants to drive, but often parking is a bigger hassle than taking the T. Ok, Thats good. Should I take the T (public transit) to her apartment, meet her there... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got a girl's phone number, now I need some advice... |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2010, 8:17 pm
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| Would you be able to hang out with her friends if that's what she wants? If she says, "me and 3 other friends are going to see a movie, want to come?" would you be able to say yes? Yeah, that would be fine. It would not be optimal, but I could handle it. Whats worse is if she asks me to bring some ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got a girl's phone number, now I need some advice... |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2010, 6:31 pm
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| It would be better if you pick a day. If she can't make it that day, she should suggest an alternative, but if she doesn't, then you should. Give her the option, but you lead the way. As far as the time of day, I would say mid-to-late afternoon. The later in the day (and into the evening), the more... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got a girl's phone number, now I need some advice... |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2010, 5:21 am
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| I'd say wait at least 2 days until after you first met her before you call her. Its already been 3 days (met her Saturday) so I had better call her tomorrow. For the first date, I would do something casual, like a light lunch or coffee Ah, interesting. That changes things. I guess I have always tho... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got a girl's phone number, now I need some advice... |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2010, 4:04 am
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| asking a random girl you just met if she wants to hang out is a pretty clear indication that you don't mean "just as friends." That's awesome! I was hoping I somehow hinted at this. I hope it was within societal norms for me to ask her 15 minutes after meeting her, without getting to know her bette... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got a girl's phone number, now I need some advice... |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2010, 12:59 am
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| The other day I was in a coffee shop, and I saw a girl sitting by herself, reading a book I had read. I read these forums and other online advice enough to recognize that this was a textbook situation in which to start a conversation with a girl. And she was cute. So somehow, I finally managed to ov... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Need some advice... |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2008, 9:57 pm
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| So Ive been reading the forums on this site for awhile now, but have never had a reason to post until now. When I was a little kid, I was diagnosed with autism spectrum not otherwise specified, or something like that. Now that Im older (college student) I think I probably have AS. In short, I am sma... |
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