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Forum: The Haven Topic: And down go the pieces, all over again |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2008, 9:32 am
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Replies: 7
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I get it. I have it. A eureka moment all of my own.
I understand everything. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: And down go the pieces, all over again |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2008, 6:56 am
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| Thank you. Very, very much. He came back. Crying, thin, and appearing to have nightmares all night while I lie beside him, but he's back. So there's one huge, massive stress on my shoulders. But wow! The Pandora's Box that was opened that I didn't even realize I was hiding..! It does very much feel ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: And down go the pieces, all over again |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2008, 12:46 am
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| Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Why hasn't it occurred to me before? Certainly not validated empirically, but it's still worth considering as considering nothing now that I've opened Pandora's box and can't seem to wrestle it closed. (f**k f**k f**k.) I want to sleep but I can't. So I'm going to... to ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: anyone else feel isolated and lonely? |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2008, 12:15 am
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Replies: 18
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| I feel very, very alone most of the time. I do not generally get satisfaction out of social situations even though I do sometimes feel myself seeking it. It's just as if everyone's programmed differently than I am, and our understandings of what an ideal interaction consists of is so fundamentally d... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: anxiety attack? |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 14 Oct 2008, 12:05 am
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| I have suffered similar episodes before and am even mildly suffering one now. I don't know if I can recommend the ways I know of dealing with them in good conscience, as obviously they are not working so well if these episodes are persisting. But I want to help you. I do. So just in case it helps in... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: And down go the pieces, all over again |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 11:18 pm
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| Thank you. You don't know how much it means to me. I'm just so, so, so afraid of letting go of this strategy that has help me come so far. I was the MAID OF HONOR in a wedding, for christ's sake! Do you know the pile of nerves I would have been only a year ago? If I'd never learned how I could just.... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: And down go the pieces, all over again |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 13 Oct 2008, 10:48 pm
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| I haven't been here in a long while. I feel sort of guilty for that - for the reasoning behind it and the reason I'm returning. I wasn't here because.. things were going pretty well. Because I use this as a support forum more than anything else, and when I don't need it, it feels like... obsessing o... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: question for heterosexual males |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 1:05 pm
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Replies: 27
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| What about bi/lesbian females? If our opinions are of interest too, then yes -- it's for the exact same reason that lingerie can occasionally be sexier than nudity. There's an implication, a want to see more. It piques your interest a little more than seeing it all at once. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Loud Noises |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 8:43 am
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| Fire alarms usually make me cry. :[ |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What was the very first thing you masturbated to? |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 8:40 am
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| I'm not sure really. Making a humping motion just felt nice, particularly up against the arm of the couch or a teddy bear. It was a long time before I was every actually able to bring myself to orgasm though. Somewhere around 13, I think, when I got a handheld shower head. Yes, I started very, very ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What is your favorite type of porn? |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 8:34 am
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Replies: 56
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| The sort of porn produced by companies like BrokeStraightGuys. Basically, they pay young men who identify as straight increasing amounts of money for each sex act they're willing to perform with another bloke. It's just something about the hesitance there. The breakdown of machismo as they slowly, h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you wince while reading stuff that you've written? |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 8:22 am
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| Heh, yes. When I go off on a tangent and don't read it to myself before posting, it's generally pretty obvious that I got distracted somewhere in the middle. >_< |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: A Vagina Question for the Ladys |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 8:19 am
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Replies: 56
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Haha, sorry dear. Allll the way down in Georgia.  |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What's better: sex, or ACQUIRING sex? |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 8:00 am
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Replies: 16
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The pursuit of sex is really rather obnoxious to me. I don't particularly enjoy jumping through hoops I don't understand. 
Sex itself is pleasurable and something I am good at. I do so love being better than others at things. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do having animals around help you with your aspergers? |
| Roddanagh |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 7:56 am
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| Er, guys? Hairless breeds still produce dander. And considering they're somewhat prone to skin issues, some of them produce more of it. And in cats, it's not even just dander that's the main allergen. Though I haven't a reference handy, I've seen it suggested that proteins in the oils of their skin ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: This is gonna sound stupid, but... |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2008, 5:42 pm
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Replies: 30
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| It annoys me terribly most of the time. For the most part though, I'm passive aggressive - I blatantly ignore even the most obvious of overtures, continuing to act as if they're just making small talk. If they're direct, I usually smile tightly and say something ridiculously rude and patronizing. Ye... |
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