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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: How Do You Get Your Account Deleted? |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2012, 5:44 am
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TallyMan wrote: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp4783996.html#4783996
Thank you TallyMan much appreciated could not find that post.
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: How Do You Get Your Account Deleted? |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 6:43 am
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| As there was no sensible or official answer in other posts, I would like to ask, is there anyway to delete your Wrong Planet account and never come back here or not be allowed to log in and post? Disclaimer: this site is wonderful but I need to ask. Just feel we should have the right to delete witho... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you straighten your desk? |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2012, 6:33 am
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Replies: 9
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| Not sure if this is an autistic behaiour but everything on my desk at work has to go into a pattern on an angle or square with everything else. If the slightest movement is made from bumping something I will immediately straighten it back out again. My kitchen table on the other hand is a zone of p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2012, 3:21 am
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Replies: 2,709
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| Yes, not in a good way though. Long story cut short, I posted a trend about that girl long ago. how did I lost my best friend/ dream girl Half a year have passed. Now I viewed her as a slut, a parasite for using me as an emotional dump site while sleeping with other guys. I deleted her number and u... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Complaining and negativity as small talk??? |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:26 pm
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Replies: 16
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| That is true BUT if it is super negative I do tune out, go away or do the magic thing to shut them up - say well what are you going to do about the situation. They often run when they hear that LOL. Ha ha, wow. I'm going to put that to the test, I think. :D Do it is fun. Quick example and remember ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Now Understand Why We Can't Get Relationships |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:19 pm
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Replies: 29
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| it gets annoying when people say there is someone for everyone Totally agree and also that X relationship was not meant to be. Ignore these cliches and make the best decision for you that's how we learn, even when one is past 30 one still makes mistakes even if the whole world tells you something. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Now Understand Why We Can't Get Relationships |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:17 pm
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Replies: 29
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| Without WP, I would have rejected her as disinterested and continued on doing the same unsuccessful things over and over and I still wouldn't have picked up on the reason why I am still single is because I send mixed messages and that subconsciously scares women away. Because I am 47 and don't date... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Adult bullying |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 7:03 am
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Replies: 56
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| I don't deal with bullies as an adult, only online. I just try and ignore it if it happens and not let it get to me. I know those bullies will say mean hurtful things just to hurt me and it may not be their true opinion. That is what I call a troll. Sometimes they do it to other mean people online ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Adult bullying |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 7:01 am
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Replies: 56
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| As an adult, I find bullying does happen but in a different way compared to grade school. Adults often bully people in more un-obvious or passive aggressive ways compared to obvious and outwardly aggressive ways in grade school. The fortunately thing you'll is adults don't like bullying and it does... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Constant rejection from women is making me suicidal |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:58 am
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Replies: 296
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| Get to 30 and it is all over. No experience, rejected by everyone and it is best to give up and enjoy the remaining years of your life alone. I can only half agree. Yes that is true, but just not always. Sometimes out of the blue a friend or someone comes along. Anyway what is all over anyway? All ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: making friends online |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:55 am
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Replies: 7
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Kein_Mitleid wrote: Online friends.
I got way too many of those. I need to get some IRL ones.
Agree, I am slowly making the move from online to offline and although I have issues with anxiety, I force myself to go to things and end up having a good time in some way.
It is what makes you comfortable. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Complaining and negativity as small talk??? |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:53 am
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| I occasionally and very rarely do it because I don't want to cause a bad air around us. I'm okay if people just complain, but if they are really angry and pissed, I feel very uncomfortable...like what the heck do you want me to do?! I just want to slide away in those cases. People complain because ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Lonely, yet meltdown when bombarded with friends? |
| BrisMike |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:50 am
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| While I have my awesome BF, I kind of miss having my old girl friends around. But we're all having separate lives, and I've accepted that and don't really want much more then facebook because the interactions are too infrequent and stressful right now. But I hate saying no to my old friends when th... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Maintaining Friendships |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:46 am
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Replies: 10
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| Do any of you find it hard to maintain friendships because of putting off social events with friends? For example; not coming to a social event and then having your friends ask why and then they take it personally? I'm just wondering cause I have a situation where my other half's friends keep askin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it worth pursuing a diagnosis as an adult? |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:40 am
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Replies: 34
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| 1. Having trouble with life, maybe have developed comorbid mood or personality disorders, need access to assistance. I am so brand new to this and good points keep being brought up. My question is, how can someone with ASD, and who has never known they have it, and who has been faking it that they ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is it worth pursuing a diagnosis as an adult? |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2012, 6:38 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 4,106
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| 100% yes but make sure your health insurance covers it I didn't have it at the time but when I did this in 2009 I was working so it was well worth the price. I think that what it did was confirm my mild aspy and OCD etc. I don't like to say cure but it did move me towards cure and management. What i... |
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