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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Telling a family member to back off a little bit |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2010, 10:04 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Your Aunt is being a bit controlling but she might not realise what she is doing. Initially you need to be assertive and say I appreciate your offer of help, but I like to do (task, organizing it) myself. Just repeatedly say something like that. Maybe say oh but you can help me with one task in part... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: more hassles with my neighbour!! |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2010, 8:11 pm
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Replies: 30
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Catster29 wrote: It upsets me that Michael gets away with everything and that they apparently believe everything he says but I cant do anything about that without making thigns worse.
If you keep to yourself for a while, then the other neighbours will hopefully work out what sort of a person Michael is. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: more hassles with my neighbour!! |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2010, 8:24 pm
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No No No
Just avoid him, I think any contact with anyone involved at the moment, you are just going to cause the situation to continue.
There is no "just saying hello" because that opens the door to further conversation with Michael. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Should I delete him on facebook? |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2010, 8:22 pm
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Replies: 25
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| To keep the peace I would remove him and just email him via Facebook as to why, and you can always add him back in later. Just tell him the removal doesn't actually mean anything. I have an ex that I added in but it was bugging me, that he would know too much about me, so I removed him but we still ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Do you mention LD or autism disorders?? |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2010, 8:00 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,246
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| IF you disclose a diagnosis/label they have different contexts in different cultures around the world Here in Australia, If you said learning difficulty or learning disability it would be taken as you are fairly NT but have a few difficulties or you approach tasks in a different way. in contrast Ove... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: No Matter where you go.... SOMEBODY won't like you.... |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2010, 5:13 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,348
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It's a generalised statement or saying.
I have heard that one before, it doesn't have anything to do with Asperger's. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: more hassles with my neighbour!! |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2010, 1:42 am
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Replies: 30
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| Catster, you have to stand up for yourself. I was in a situation where I had become too friendly with a neighbour, and she had a crush on me!! ! lol The problem was she clearly had a lot of mental health problems, as well she was an alcoholic. Back to you, you need to create both physical and mental... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Dispute with mother |
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Posted: 07 Jan 2010, 12:17 am
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Replies: 21
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| Who is wrong here? I have been living with my mother for 3 years. She likes to remind all the time to do things. She views this as friendly communicaton. I can't stand it. I am 38 years old and don't like to be constantly reminded to do things. When I snap at her for constantly reminding me to do t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Overturning AS Diagnosis |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2009, 5:35 am
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Replies: 51
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| There is a difference between traits vs The actual diagnostic criteria (ie the triad of impairments), and I think that is what is overlooked. I have finally realised, I don't fit the criteria for Asperger's or the future Autism Spectrum Disorder, maybe I might have as a small child, I don't really k... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Fight with my dad |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2009, 12:56 am
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Replies: 4
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| My parents often treat me almost like that. But I don't live with them anymore, and I'm too old for the way they are behaving towards me. The only way to deal with your Dad like that, is to tell him, that he is right all the time, even if he is horribly wrong. But then he might also think your being... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Australian stereotypes |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2009, 12:46 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 11,036
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pakled wrote: ...that there's a place in Australia where people live in holes in the ground, and dig for gemstones
There is a place, it is called Coober Pedy, and I lived there once, for a month..
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: The New Yogurt Fiasco |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2009, 10:36 pm
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Replies: 1
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Australian stereotypes |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2009, 10:16 pm
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Replies: 30
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My question is Why? haven't you had prawns on the barbie??
They are soooo yummy.
Get some green prawns and garlic, cook them up - yummo 
I have a relative with a BBQ fixation and he has 7 BBQ's
lmao |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Is Chloe from 24 supposed to have Aspergers? |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2009, 10:13 pm
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Replies: 4
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| There are a lot of characters like that, but to me now I have decided unless they show some sort of great impairment, I think they are playing someone eccentric, not necessarily AS. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Annoying comments at work |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2009, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 6
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| Same here. another annoying comment is when you are sitting at someone else's desk and someone says "Hi (insert name of the person whose desk it is)" Is that meant to be funny? The humour or context is that the person is usually quite different from the other person, not always though. For example ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: feel hurt taken something personally |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2009, 9:19 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 766
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When things like this happen to me, I think of it as that it reflects on what kind of people they are, rather than the person I am.
That is mean not coming to your place. |
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