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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: New Research on Autism and Circadian Rhythm Disorders |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2010, 8:45 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,477
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| I use melatonin almost every night. I find that heavy exercise helps a lot (also helps my mitral valve prolapse). I've also had a lot of success doing relaxation tapes before sleeping. Due to my work schedule, I regularly switch my schedule for diurnal to nocturnal twice a month. I'm a telescope ope... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What age did you STOP wetting the bed? |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 30 Jun 2010, 8:08 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 5,065
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| I, and my 2 sisters, all wet the bed until we were 12. Not sure why. I still wake up to pee at least once a night. I usually have extremely odd dreams about peeing right before I wake up. Sometimes I'm just peeing forever and not stopping, and other times it's an odd toilet that stops me from peeing... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Look Me in the Eyes"- FANTASTIC book |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2009, 1:49 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 5,173
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| Thanks for writing this book John. For me, it was a revelation. I just read it last month and it has helped me a lot in accepting who I am. My family of origin all have Aspergian traits, and my son has been diagnosed. For me it was the YMCA leader's club that saved me. Otherwise I too might have com... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What is the average size? |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 9:42 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 966
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The average male penis size in Hunglowvia is 15 inches.
The average female penis size in Hunglowvia is a mere 5 inches. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Weirdest Place Too Have Sex |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 9:20 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 415
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| Okay here goes: Lost virginity in a graveyard. Sex in a church many times (gotta love the pastor's daughter). On the roof of Old Main on Wayne State Campus. Oral at the zoo. Flashing in a crowded restaurant (she flashed me). In a hotel room with another couple sleeping in the next bed. Heavy petting... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Fun with perverts |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 8:46 am
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Replies: 41
Views: 1,019
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| I've only asked for a naked pic once. It was on a forum and the girl was talking about having sent one to someone else. So I said to hell with it and asked for one. She wasn't very pretty, and it wasn't sexual. In the end it was just kind of a depressing plea for attention. Back to the original topi... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Nacked Partys |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 7:17 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 962
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I've been to parties that ended up with a group of people on a bed, but mostly clothed, and I've been to parties where a lot of people get naked in a hot tub.
I have never seen both happen at the same time - naked + sexual.
I need to get out more I guess... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: This illusion... Is mine? |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 5:11 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 872
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Ummm, is this for real?
If so, get help. I only took a few psych classes in college, but I see disassociation, schizophrenia, and episodes of fugue.
If it's just creative writing? I like it. You've got some good stuff nailed there. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: help me with the aspie quiz |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 5:08 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,841
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The person who coded the quiz did NOT have Asperger's.
Otherwise they would have fixed this already:)
I got the same thing. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Not sure what to do? |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 4:27 am
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Replies: 6
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| Okay, I've pretty much been through the gamut of hellish family vacations, as a teenager and as an adult, so I have a pretty good idea of what you're going through. My advice: Forgive them. No parent is perfect, never. Even though you can't see it or imagine it, even though they can't express it - t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate pushing people away. |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 4:19 am
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| Talk to your boss about the "Hostile Work Environment" created by your co-workers using terms like Fag and Gay. Be specific. They might already hate you, so it makes no difference on that level. On the other hand, they will either stop, get fired, or you can sue the crap out of your employer. Put it... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Does this happen to anyone else while writing? |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2009, 4:00 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,362
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| You can also just record your voice until you're satisfied, then transcribe it later. It's a lot of extra work, but the difference in the process might be what you need. Larry Niven wrote a good article giving advice for aspiring writers, and it was mostly to keep it simple. On the other hand, you h... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: He blew us away in the pool. |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 02 Mar 2009, 3:02 am
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Replies: 4
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| This sound so much like my son Samuel. Attached to one teacher, the resistance, the fears. For him it was also a sensory issue, and all the other kids in the pool distracted him. When he finally got used to it, he blossomed. For his 5th birthday, we went to Kealakekua bay in Kona. He figured out how... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to tell if a woman isn't single. |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2009, 10:45 am
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Replies: 44
Views: 5,280
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| Just remember that by the time a girl is 18, she's probably had her heart broken a few times. In that sense, every girl is "taken". I'd say a rule of thumb is that unless she's got a wedding ring on her finger (and a few kids), then the issue is still open. Sadly, a ring and some kids is no guarante... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: flirting... what signs to look for in women anyone? |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 10 Feb 2009, 10:23 am
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Replies: 20
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| One of the ways I educated myself on this subject was to observe neutrally. Find a female friend you are not interested in (or several), and observe her interacting with other men. I found that once I was neutral about it, I could observe and learn. A lot of it is subtle, and she may not even be awa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Too much sex drive? |
| BlueMike |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2009, 11:42 pm
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Replies: 22
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| I am a stright guy, but I was pretty much in the same boat when I was younger. After I turned 30 and dealt with the stress of being a new dad, my sex drive went down a lot. So instead of being bothered to the point of distraction if I didn't get my daily release (it's tough to keep this clean), I co... |
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