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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Being ignored constantly |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2012, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 2,403
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| Simple. I really feel like not only am I the one that puts all the work or at least 90% of the work into my relationships be it friendships or aquaintances but also like im constantly being ignored. For example: On fb,msn and such instant messengers the moment I start a conversation with someone the... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Almost Universally Disliked? |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2012, 6:50 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,179
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| Yes, I call it despair, it comes and goes so you'd think its not despair at all but it feels strong and yet heavy like a silent shockwave through your body (not the best description I know). Reminds me of Sia: Breathe me or another one of her songs Don't breathe me, with all thier suffocating melanc... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Such a loser |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2012, 6:43 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,611
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| I hope you find some motivation and just something that really drives you to success, as once you have motivation, thats when you can really do great things. Your not a loser, you may have done something stupid, been a bit careless but not a loser. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I hate the feeling of having done something wrong. |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2012, 6:05 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,036
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| I guess as aspies we are prone to emotional crashes so maybe NTs are prone to mood swings, I mean it could be something really really small for example I can be affected by small things like people around me eating with thier mouths open, so perhaps its not that you did anything wrong just something... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you considered naive by others (& trust people easil |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2010, 1:04 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 5,292
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| I don't trust anybody, if im in public I like to be in a spot where I can see everyone, I mean im naive to an extent becuase I never trust anyone completly yet if I encounter someone that is seemingly kind and caring I instantly imagine we will be the best of friends forever. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Does anyone else hate talking on the phone? |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2010, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 165
Views: 75,282
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| If im talking on the phone to anyone but my parents I will stutter tremendously and muddle up my words so im glad the Op made this as it rings true for me. |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: What sort of saying or quote do you live by? |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2010, 5:47 pm
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Replies: 247
Views: 81,534
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Can't be bothered? |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2010, 5:29 pm
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Replies: 26
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| Because from experience engaging with NTs just leads to arguments devoid of logic or somehow they will annoy me so I avoid them or switch off may be a better way to phrase it! |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Do you have a hard time motivating yourself to do work? |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 13 Nov 2010, 9:24 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 7,721
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| Not quite so, more than anything I find keeping high enthusiasm all the time, especially at times when its expected and perhaps even forced a little difficult, I would say im ok with motivation. |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: call of duty: black ops topic |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2010, 11:21 am
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Replies: 26
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| I may get it as a backup in case AC: Brotherhood doesn't have enough content or flops in any way, although it would be my first Call of Duty game plus I don't use a mic as talking to strangers over live makes me terribly nervous and feel quite uncomfortable, but im told it can still be enjoyable wit... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: what makes you most annoyed socally |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2010, 1:40 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 6,582
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| This silly social rule of: I must be nice to people if thier in a good mood and extra nice to them if thier in a grumpy mood, and if im in a bad mood then others can be in a bad mood too and in a bad mood if im in a good one geez.. Also this social expectation that as a trainee Nursery nurse that I ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Do you always have to repeat yourself? |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2010, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 16,924
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| Yes and its highly embarrasing, whether its people complaining I talk too fast or simply my lisp preventing me from even saying a string of words desired let alone them pronounced correctly! In secondary School it was awful becuase I had so little confidence back then and anytime I was asked to repe... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Aspies in the West Midlands in England? |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2010, 11:16 am
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Replies: 3
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| Yerp im from the West mids/Walsall Birmingham area, 18 by the way oh and of course 100% aspie. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: if you could say how you felt with a song... |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2010, 4:20 pm
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Replies: 48
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello from England ^_^ |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2010, 2:03 pm
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Replies: 12
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Bizzarely enough for once, ditto, I used to do karate 3x a week and plan on getting back into it, however much I procrastenate(sp). I love anime(s) and video games more so than computer games but anything with a screen really  , welcome! |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Latest Video Game Purchased |
| Silva20contraorder |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2010, 5:07 pm
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Replies: 843
Views: 106,013
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| Transformers: War for cybertron for 360, awsome multiplayer and accessable to non fans |
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