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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help, my family is about to kill my soul |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2008, 1:25 pm
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| well right now Im not sure what can be done. I know this, with all of the stuff going on in my life as a whole, somethings gotta give. THe b/f and I talked the other night and he flat out said if my family cant make peace then he and I cant move on with our relationship and if we cant move on with o... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Help, my family is about to kill my soul |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2008, 10:32 am
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Replies: 4
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| ok, super fast background. im 30ish, live with my folks (due to economic reasons) and have a super boyfriend (the first in a long long time and we've been together for over ayear now) Last year my mom got sick and has been in and out of the hospital since. My great aunt died, my mom's mom died, dad ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Am I selfish? Am I wrong? |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2008, 2:53 pm
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| ok to make a short story out of a long one: my mom has been sick and needing some one with her when she has been out of the hospital. She fell ill in august and has been in and out of the hospital since. My dad hired a lady to help but she cant be there but 3.5 days a week. My dad has his own busine... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Scared, upset and confused |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 01 Mar 2008, 2:11 pm
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Replies: 2
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| ah, the sisters. I tried to "educate" the far away one who insists (because her son is exactly like me) that its some "high IQ' syndrome not aspergers (because I talk alot). The other likes to tell people im a genius and swares she knew all along that Im an aspie. (it wasnt like that at all) they al... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Scared, upset and confused |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 29 Feb 2008, 3:31 pm
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| For anyone that has read my last couple posts, you can skip the next paragraph and go onto the next one... Back story: mother has been ill and will be in a wheelchair until about July. My dad has been being really hateful towards me and demading this and that in the care of my mom. My sisters (one l... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Im physically Ill over family problems |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2008, 2:37 pm
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Replies: 4
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| well as far as mobility goes, my dad still works and mom was on disibility (due mostly from loosing part of a lung to cancer a few years ago) a few months before the new problem happened. My dad's business was never incorperated, so it looks like he makes more money than he really brings in, so ther... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Im physically Ill over family problems |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2008, 3:14 pm
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| ok, Ill try to make the back ground on this as simple and understandable as possible. I have 2 living sisters. Im the only one not married and still at home (and has no kids) mom has been ill and in and out of the hospital for the last 7 months, give or take a week or two. When she has been at home ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: a butt chewing every shift |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2008, 5:43 pm
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Replies: 7
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| we arent union, and if I requested a transfer it would make things far worse, especally since transfers are a big deal and some one else would have to trade and thus loose vacation time and such. Ive thought about that. Today was better though, even though I was party to some other stuff getting bro... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: a butt chewing every shift |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2008, 5:40 pm
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Replies: 7
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MysteryFan3 wrote: Ladysmokeater, I sure hope you can find a better job soon. Sometimes a prayer is answered to show that it isn't a good idea, after all. Don't feel ungrateful, feel motivated to move on.
Never thought of it that way. hummmmm talk about food for thought.  thanks |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: a butt chewing every shift |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2008, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 7
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| Lord help me, I shouldnt even complain because I worked SO hard to just get this job. But right now Im not a happy camper. My supervisor is very strict, the other supervisors on the other shifts are not. They could give a crap if you do this one way or not as long as the end is the same. My CPT is s... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Giving up |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2008, 1:33 pm
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| Im with ya, but being an aspie isnt THAT bad. It has its downs, but its really not the end of the world. At least Im not letting it be for me. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: hey yall Ladysmokeater is back |
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Posted: 24 Jan 2008, 1:33 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Its been quite a while since I last posted. I have been busy with a new job and family issues. so here I am, an aspie back from where ever! Glad to be back too! |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a random truth (about yourself) |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 5:43 am
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Replies: 19,618
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| i have had this headache for 3 days |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: philosophy: why people do smalltalk |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2006, 5:42 am
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Replies: 8
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| i "small talk" out of nrevousness. I chatter all the time about things that make no difference to anything. I rattle on about my intrests and even the weather. I usually shock people with all of that and they walk away. I dont see how my small talk os that different than others..... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Re-Introduction |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 21 Jun 2006, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 16
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| totally get where ya are comming from, or atleast returning to larson, im gonna swing back into the area so to speak and see if things have improved. It was disheartening before..... glad you're back |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: What fictional characters are you in love with? |
| Ladysmokeater |
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Posted: 21 Jun 2006, 4:42 pm
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Replies: 85
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| Dirk Pitt, the hero in the Clive Cussler novels about NUMA and all that.... |
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