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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OCD and Relationships/Breakups |
| YoungAspie |
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Posted: 20 Apr 2015, 5:55 pm
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| I'm going to seek treatment and avoid meds for now, but I'll see how things go. I know there's nothing to do for the relationship - doesn't change the fact my brain tells me there is! :S |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OCD and Relationships/Breakups |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 2:37 am
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Replies: 10
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| Do you recommend trying medication for it? As I feel like I'm in that breakdowny loop stage and not getting any better, but I was thinking of trying CBT first. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OCD and Relationships/Breakups |
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Posted: 17 Apr 2015, 1:40 am
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Replies: 10
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| I think I understand what I did and what went wrong, and what not to do in the future, but obviously putting it into practice is a different issue. Why is it so bad to entertain the notion of talking to her, even in the future when I'm over this though? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2015, 7:21 pm
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Replies: 53
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| So I finally had a relationship with a girl who didn't have her own issues... and she left because of mine. Sigh. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Afraid of becoming obsessive |
| YoungAspie |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2015, 7:11 pm
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Replies: 5
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| This is something I really suffer from as well - when I was little I was very much a 'checker' with things like light switches and washing my hands, but I got over that as part of my OCD. Now I've obsessed over relationships and people and I've hurt my ex quite a lot with that - and am still obsessi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: OCD and Relationships/Breakups |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2015, 7:09 pm
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Replies: 10
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| Hi everyone, I was wondering if it was just me, or if anyone else here suffers from a similar sort of thing. I've never had massively long relationships, they usually only last about a month or two, and I seem to be suffering from the same problem in each - I can be very controlling and obsessive, a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 3:49 pm
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Replies: 53
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| It is when it's paired with drugs and bad men. :lol: Now it's nice to have a bottle of wine of an evening. :D Oh trust me, I have my f**** up moments. I'm just doing quite well at the moment so I seem quite normal. True, but anything combined with those two would be bad. :P Doesn't everyone have th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 3:25 pm
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Replies: 53
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emlion wrote: haha yep.
it's no wonder i'm so f**** up in the head.
You don't seem f****d up, we're having a decent conversation  And no one ever said getting drunk that much was bad...  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 3:15 pm
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Replies: 53
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Haha I never ever understand those people who stay sober and still have fun. It's pointless, being drunk is what a party's for! Sounds like you've had some experiences  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 3:11 pm
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Replies: 53
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| Lucky I find that I can go to parties, but I won't be able to socialise at all if I'm sober. I almost feel my AS goes away when I'm drunk, but I'm not sure if it's my imagination or just me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 2:49 pm
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Replies: 53
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| That makes sense I suppose But if you stayed away forever I guess you would've never met your guy? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 1:08 pm
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Replies: 53
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"Light and Breezy" Sounds nice
Is it that you just don't want to see anyone or are afraid of talking to others or...?
EDIT: Sorry, just realised I'm not being very Breezy |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 12:54 pm
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| I try and be positive about life for the same reason, I don't always succeed though :) What's the adult forum like? I haven't had a chance to look over there yet. Joined a couple of years ago but I've only just become interested to post. How come you don't like to be outside? Besides the cold, of co... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 12:21 pm
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Replies: 53
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From what you've told me, it sounds like C has experienced nothing compared to you. I hope she gets some perspective in later life.
Thanks for the chat, btw It's been nice to get to know you. I have no idea how you've managed to post over 4000 things on the site :S Do you use it a lot? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 12:10 pm
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Replies: 53
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Wow, do you mind me asking what happened?
I've thought this before, but you saying that has made me think about it a bit more, that she didn't really give me a chance to 'even it out'. She got bored and went back to him, is the impression I got. Which sucks, but, I do hope I find someone better |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you find yourself attracted to the wrong type of girl? |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 11:59 am
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Replies: 53
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Wow, and you're only 21.
He sounds really lovely. When I was with B, I think I pushed her too much to talk about things, and it led her into the arms of an ex. I wish I could've been as understanding as your guy sounds. |
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