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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2009, 4:30 pm
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Replies: 1,242
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| I am a "Nice gal" Asperger. I am recently divorced and now dating an undiagnosed Asperger guy he is 42. He is obsessed with women and we can't watch a movie or TV without his comments on how "hot" this or that actress is. This kind of behavior isn't just reserved for celebrities, I also have to list... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: sexual misconduct and aspergers? |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2009, 12:08 am
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| Hi, My NT husband of 20 years just divorced me and I now have a boyfriend with undiagnosed Asperger's...he is a textbook example. My boyfriend is 5 years younger than I am and he has had a lot of sexual experiences with married women in the past and he is into looking at porn both of which bother me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you feel unattractive? |
| Alone-in-the-Crowd |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2009, 8:00 pm
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Replies: 237
Views: 38,064
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| yes, when I look at myself, I can't imagine how other people see me, or how attractive and why. I feel unworthy of any man I have been with. My first husband was actually "butt ugly"! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What are Asperger girls like? |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2009, 7:51 pm
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Replies: 146
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| For me, it has been that I do look "girly" and when I was a teen, I wore way too much makeup in attempt to hide myself. I don't keep up with the latest fashions, but I try to look somewhat "put together". I don't like the feel of jeans. I prefer wearing soft, casual rayon dresses. My makeup is way l... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2009, 8:06 pm
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Replies: 21
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Thank you Marcia,
I am feeling more confident after having so many wonderful replies to my posts! |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2009, 8:39 am
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Replies: 21
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| Thank you Saja, Greentea and Praetor2379 for your input. This is my 2nd marriage. My first became addicted to Meth and was sleeping around. I married him at 17. I married the 2nd at the age of 27. I do spend have the moral support of my neurotypical coworkers...even my boss. What worries me most is ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: best jobs for people with aspergers |
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Posted: 31 May 2009, 7:41 pm
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Replies: 248
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| I wasn't able to work as a teen and young adult in the 70's and 80's. I was then diagnosed with "social phobia". I had a daughter who was born with Down's syndrome, total deafness, autism and epilepsy. She was born in 1980. I had to learn how to make her thrive the she was able. I respected her diff... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Why do I freeze up when she gets angry? |
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Posted: 30 May 2009, 9:05 pm
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Replies: 14
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| I am currently going through the exact same problem. I was diagnosed 3 years ago. Up until then, he didn't voice his complaints. He did however, act like a woman with PMS at times. We have a 17 year old Aspie son. My husband doesn't interact much with him. Our son is very high functioning in many wa... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 28 May 2009, 9:00 pm
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Replies: 21
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| Ok, he just called again and I answered my phone. He's acting as if nothing out of the ordinary is going on, calling me "hon" and "babe", asking where I took Corey this afternoon and what time we got home. I can't believe I am still awake since I didn't go to sleep at all lastnight. My boss let me h... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 28 May 2009, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 21
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| Thank you gbollard. My son and I are very close and I know he has felt rejected since a very young age by his father. He wants to change his last name to my maiden name. I do have to fight myself because I am afraid that I will be manipulated into feeling sorry for my husband. I am really seeing tha... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 28 May 2009, 8:03 pm
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Replies: 21
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| Yes, I am going to be working on myself for a while. I work for a small company that provides developmental services and mental health care. I only get $10 per hour and I am very lucky if I can get a full 40 hour week because if my client has to take the day off, I don't get paid for the missing hou... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 28 May 2009, 2:14 am
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| It's a recent pic...Thank you for the compliment. It's nearly 1am and I should be asleep as I have to get up at 6. I think it's my inability to read people that has been my downfall. This guy, now that I look back, showed signs of selfishness and had some weird traits. He believes in aliens and when... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 27 May 2009, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I wish I could disappear and not feel this, I hate strong emotions! I can't stop crying...all I can think is "I don't know what to do" and I have to put in an 8 hour day at work tomorrow. I wish God would empower me with strength and confidence! Why don't we have on and off buttons so we can tune ou... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Time for Divorce #2 |
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Posted: 27 May 2009, 11:15 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I have been here before. My husband came to me claiming that because of my Asperger's, we should get divorced. He denied having anyone lined up, but his computer says otherwise. I found evidence tonight. I am really afraid. I don't know if I can make it on my own, I don't earn much and I have our 17... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sick and tired of my Doc trying to tell me how to live. |
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Posted: 26 May 2009, 7:21 am
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Replies: 16
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| I hope by "ending it" you don't mean your life! It does take time to adjust mentally to being "diabetic". I fall off my treatment plan a lot, then start over. It helps to make changes slowly, one thing at a time, like take a 10 minute walk when your bloodsugar is too high. Sometimes this can work in... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Sick and tired of my Doc trying to tell me how to live. |
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Posted: 25 May 2009, 8:48 pm
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| Hi Ken, It is VERY hard, I have been a type 1 since 1972 at the age of 10. I am on an insulin pump. If you ever feel the docs only see your diabetes and not the rest of you, find a doctor who is more open minded. In my experiences, foreign doctors have been better. My last doctor was from Romania an... |
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