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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are Aspie Men Bitter Towards Women?? |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2009, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 150
Views: 25,115
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| It really does help to realise that everyone thinks of themselves first. However in a relative sense they are not all bad people, they are just doing what they do. To me that's the point. It costs a lot of insight looking and failures to understand that people are not to be blamed just because they... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Why so many Christians in an AS forum? |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2009, 3:55 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 2,872
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| Perhaps I was being naive, but I kind of figured the AS crowd would tend towards atheism or agnosticism. I know a lot of us make some pretty silly choices, but at the heart of it, I felt like we had a better "feel" for the way things actually work. We're so wrapped up in our own heads that we aren'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: anyone else NOT looking for a partner? |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2009, 12:21 pm
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Replies: 113
Views: 11,090
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| I had been actively avoiding it for years. The best years of my life so far. I was absolutely free from family, friends and social pressures about me being in a relation, because I clearly saw it was the best for my life. I could dedicate all my energies to what I liked and discovered a lot of new a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What are your thoughts on romantic love? |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2009, 10:32 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,998
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| It looks like my point of view about love is simply very old. Call it romantic love? Well, then romantic love scares people. I lately got involved in what had the look and feel of romantic love with a girl, but I could not sort it out due to my blindness about her feelings and needs. So I asked for ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you naive? |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2009, 4:37 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 4,810
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| Naive could be described as childish trust, you belive people are telling you the truth. (And to some extent, they want what's best for you.) Ohhh yes, I am. Some weeks ago I gave 20€ :oops: to two little gipsies (not at all naive) claiming they were raising funds for some UN projects!! ! I was wit... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Simon Baron-Cohen's current views. |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2009, 4:39 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,500
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| My obsessions are clearly, to myself at least, consequence of anxiety. Anxiety is consequence of me not being up to a task. Tasks that I am not up to mainly are: socializing superficially and worthless conversation. Why? Because it makes no sense the effort to me, I guess. How would you answer? Why ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Manipulative aspies. |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2009, 3:24 pm
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Replies: 96
Views: 7,831
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millie wrote: i am a big, full, rotund, beautiful, transparent jellyfish.
That's me too. Unlike jellyfish, some people manipulate me though 
When I notice manipulation I start looking for the emergency button... to stop the world. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Came out" to someone as Aspie and... |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2009, 3:14 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 4,027
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| Why bother? I got this statement from a person who could guess what I had (sensitive indeed), without any outing: "Ok, I see, don't think you can act differently though! You are the one that has got to come to our ground". I was left wordless, as always. I do not see how to build a bridge across thi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Please do tell: In what ways are you a hypocrite? |
| saintloop |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2009, 4:51 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 4,090
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| I have spent my whole life trying to fit in the NT world. That was hypocrite. Now that I stopped trying, almost, I'm so confused that I don't even know when I am cheating and when I am not. On the other hand, what's straight in a world in which you cannot go clear about your feelings, the reasons be... |
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