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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Been on a few dates, how to initiate physical stuff/seduce? |
| Vindi |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2010, 12:59 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 6,833
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Thanks for the suggestions everyone, I'll try to incorporate it.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Been on a few dates, how to initiate physical stuff/seduce? |
| Vindi |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 9:59 am
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| Thanks, I'll try holding her hand when appropriate. One thing in particular I'm unsure about is how to initiate something sexual, in the context of being at her place watching a movie, or having just watched a movie, or some variation on that? Is there some kind of optimal time window or is it more ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Been on a few dates, how to initiate physical stuff/seduce? |
| Vindi |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 9:27 am
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| So I'm a 24 year old aspie guy who just graduated college and has never had a gf or really dated at all, and I'm a virgin. I met a girl on okcupid, she is 25 and just graduated too, and we've talked a lot on IMs, and have had 2 dates with another scheduled. We seem to get along really well and share... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do you think are some major causes of Aspie rejection? |
| Vindi |
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Posted: 24 Aug 2010, 3:06 am
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Replies: 150
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| Look, I thank you for wanting to help but I'm kind of getting tired of everyone PMing me and telling me their little secret to weight loss. It's a little overwhelming and I'm getting confused from all the advice. I'm pretty sure I don't have a disease and I don't want to pay a specialist thousands ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do you think are some major causes of Aspie rejection? |
| Vindi |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2010, 8:15 am
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Replies: 150
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| The bottom line is if you don't put too much food in your mouth it is scientifically impossible to be fat. The body requires around 1500-2000 calories just to stay alive, sitting around doing nothing. If you eat less than that the body burns fat. Thinking about it in this way lowers the mental barri... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do you think are some major causes of Aspie rejection? |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2010, 2:46 am
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| I just thought I'd add something regarding weight loss... It's not about WHAT you eat, it's about HOW MUCH you eat. I'm a 5'5 guy and used to weigh 202 pounds. I ate less and now weigh 138 pounds, which is a healthy weight for me. The secret is simply eating less. You can eat whatever you want, as l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to tell if a girl likes you. |
| Vindi |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2010, 6:42 am
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Replies: 51
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Tequila wrote: She's bouncing up and down on your balls?
By then I imagine the majority of the ambiguity is already gone  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NEED HELP WITH GIRL |
| Vindi |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2010, 2:02 am
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Replies: 12
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| She's just talking in general, and about a particular guy that I assume isn't you, as evidenced by: [11:42:04 PM] Mick Mick: I swear... me and him would be dating already if she wouldnt have ever been in the picture. [11:42:13 PM] Mick Mick: He fell for me when I was dating his now ex best friend [1... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ever had a look around where you are IRL and thought... |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2010, 12:27 am
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Replies: 52
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| Firstly I'd like to add that being paranoid about internet serial killers is ridiculous. I've known some internet friends longer than anyone I've known IRL, and I trust them absolutely. Honestly they are closer friends than anyone I've known IRL. Obviously I've met hundreds of people on the internet... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ever had a look around where you are IRL and thought... |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2010, 11:56 pm
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Replies: 52
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| Look, I think you'd do well to leave your pre-conceived notions about how people meet and how relationships are supposed to start/evolve - because those notions are clearly not working for you. If you want to find out why "everybody else" you know has paired off but you haven't, ask your friends an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tips for aspie guys to get their first date |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2010, 9:50 am
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Replies: 32
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| ...Money - I'm a student.... You have some things you can improve, but I would advise you to take advantage of the fact that you are a student as much as possible. School is the one place where you are going to find a lot of eligible girls. Unfortunately, a lot are already committed by your age. Wh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tips for aspie guys to get their first date |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2010, 7:31 am
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Replies: 32
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| I'm pretty much the exact opposite of eveything listed there. Bad looks including a creepy face, overweight, no money, no confidence. Which makes me the 100% opposite of a good date. It's important to realize though, that you can change all but one (creepy face) of those entirely of your own accord... |
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