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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When you run into a brick wall near your 30s |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2017, 3:50 pm
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Replies: 23
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| One more thing: If you believe your location is part of the issue, Costco is HUGE. I bet you could ask for a transfer to another store if you want to go look for love elsewhere. True on it being huge, but being able to transfer is not as easy as you may think it is. Especially if its warehouses in ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When you run into a brick wall near your 30s |
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Posted: 24 Sep 2017, 11:21 pm
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Replies: 23
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| One more thing: If you believe your location is part of the issue, Costco is HUGE. I bet you could ask for a transfer to another store if you want to go look for love elsewhere. True on it being huge, but being able to transfer is not as easy as you may think it is. Especially if its warehouses in ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When you run into a brick wall near your 30s |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 11:46 pm
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Replies: 23
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| One more thing: If you believe your location is part of the issue, Costco is HUGE. I bet you could ask for a transfer to another store if you want to go look for love elsewhere. True on it being huge, but being able to transfer is not as easy as you may think it is. Especially if its warehouses in ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When you run into a brick wall near your 30s |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2017, 3:45 am
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| I'll be 29 in a couple months and a harsh truth is about to smack me in the face. I'll be almost 30 and still not able to say I ever found someone. My peers and friends are married and have families, while I'm the one thats always having to watch from the distance and be the 3rd wheel. It'd be nice ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to hang with a girl if they bring their kid? |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2016, 10:16 pm
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Replies: 23
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| If you don't like kids, or can't handle them, you shouldn't be dating women with kids then. I just think it's a bad idea. It's bad for her and for the kids and for you. Find someone without kids. There's plenty. Esp early mid 20s. That sounds great and inspirational, but the reality of it is, its n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to hang with a girl if they bring their kid? |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2016, 9:45 pm
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Replies: 23
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| If you don't like kids, or can't handle them, you shouldn't be dating women with kids then. I just think it's a bad idea. It's bad for her and for the kids and for you. Find someone without kids. There's plenty. Esp early mid 20s. That sounds great and inspirational, but the reality of it is, its n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to hang with a girl if they bring their kid? |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2016, 4:35 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Single moms often don't understand that and they get offended when they are rejected for being... moms. With my experience anyways, its not so much that they're "moms", it because the children make it unbearable. When I meet someone and find out they have a child, I'll express my concern ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to hang with a girl if they bring their kid? |
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Posted: 25 Jun 2016, 2:23 am
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| That's the way 1 1/2 year old babies are. The shriek randomly. The don't know any better. Then no one should be taking a child that age to a movie theatre. I'm guessing this is her first child and she didn't realise that her kid's was a bit too young to enjoy a feature length film just sitting in a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to hang with a girl if they bring their kid? |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2016, 7:24 pm
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Replies: 23
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| But...if you really like the girl, I wouldn't preclude myself from dating her because she has children. I would just tell her that, sometimes, you would like to be ALONE with her on a date. The girl in question with my story I would not date, unfortunately she broke my trust of that ever happening ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not wanting to hang with a girl if they bring their kid? |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2016, 6:38 pm
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| So as much as I hate to admit it for my age, haven't really had much luck with dating and its started to take a toll on me when most of my friends my age are already married with a family and here I am not even able to say I've had a girl friend unless you count a 2 year long distance one that I nev... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being rejected when they find out your autistic |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2015, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 48
Views: 6,031
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| [ When you start dating someone, just don't tell them that you're autistic until you know them well enough to trust them. Then they won't reject you simply for having a label. They didn't have a problem with you until you told them, right? I never actually gotten to the point of "dating" ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being rejected when they find out your autistic |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2015, 12:06 am
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Replies: 48
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| Given where he lives there may not be that many autistic women to date or even if there are, they may not be making themselves known. I'm in a similar situation where you can find any adult autistic support groups in my area so while it may be possible to have a relationship with such a woman, find... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being rejected when they find out your autistic |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2015, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 48
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| So I'm high functioning autistic. For the most part people that know say I don't seem any "different" to them than what they would refer to as a normal person or someone not on the spectrum, just my social skills probably aren't "normal" for someone my age. As I get older I know ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I seriously no longer have any desire to pursue romance |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2014, 2:18 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,282
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| I am battling with that every day now. And I have tried the single mother dating and it doesn't work. Some don't have the time to date or some surround themselves with so much drama you cannot even fit in nowhere. My issues with it is that I've noticed a lot of the single mothers that have kids, th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I seriously no longer have any desire to pursue romance |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2014, 3:57 pm
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Replies: 10
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| As the title says, I've pretty much just lost any desire for romance or to find/have a girl friend in my life. I don't beleive in things like "just let love happen". Thats not how the real world works, this isn't the movies where say a high functioning autistic person like me was treated bad in life... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Someone's kid being a reason to not wanna date them? |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2013, 3:13 am
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Replies: 27
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| The kids' real daddy is likely to see you as a threat to his relationship to his children, and may eventually make trouble for you. lol, Maybe the real dad's a burly logger type that carries a chainsaw around sometimes since OP lives in a small logging town. If you read my post, you woulda saw that... |
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