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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is he interested? |
| BurningMoose |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2012, 1:00 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,384
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| People flaking on dates was (and to some extent still is) one of the most infuriating, frustrating things I've ever dealt with when it involved members of the other gender. Puts you in your head, makes you wonder what they're doing and why they stood you up...hell, sometimes it makes you ask for adv... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So my first date is tomorrow... |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2012, 12:53 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,446
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| A. She's not your girlfriend, and treating her as such will scare her away. She's a girl who agreed to go to a movie with you. B. Just make friends with her normally (I know, I know...not exactly our strong suit to begin with). As in, treat her like you would any friend--have fun with her, make fun ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help with a long distance relationship |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2012, 12:49 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,119
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| All this stuff about "building a mature, intimate connection before you kiss" is, frankly, ridiculous. Physical chemistry is at least as important as emotional compatibility, and for many relationships, great sex helps overcome some of the inconveniences that go along with a relationship. "Waiting f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: applying pickup skills in real life - an example |
| BurningMoose |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2012, 7:31 pm
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Replies: 184
Views: 13,367
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| Most of the guys in my Lair seem to be into building attraction and sexual tension to critical mass, and then culminating in mindblowing sex. It's a positive experience for both the male and the female involved, but it's definitely called a game for a reason. For sure. It took me several years to g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: applying pickup skills in real life - an example |
| BurningMoose |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2012, 5:08 pm
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Replies: 184
Views: 13,367
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| Everything that the OP has mentioned--everything--comes from ONE of HUNDREDS of different schools of thought on the topic of learning how to increase success with women. All the people he mentioned--Mystery, Lovedrop, Neil Strauss--not only think alike, but work at the same company (or did at some p... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you get a girl to hang out with you? |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2012, 7:23 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 9,587
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| So I will try to go out and meet girls. I decided that the best thing to do was be my weird self, so if she likes me its actually me and not a facade. So sometimes I get lucky and they find me funny and we become friends on Facebook or something (I feel like a creep asking for a number). But when I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do you get a girl to hang out with you? |
| BurningMoose |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2012, 8:54 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 9,587
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| So I will try to go out and meet girls. I decided that the best thing to do was be my weird self, so if she likes me its actually me and not a facade. So sometimes I get lucky and they find me funny and we become friends on Facebook or something (I feel like a creep asking for a number). But when I... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspergers and Sex |
| BurningMoose |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2012, 4:00 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 5,934
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| Who says it's easier for the NT crowd? Just because people say we have it harder doesn't make everything in the world a challenge. Not everyone is the same I disagree! aspergers is a social disability and makes relationships more difficult. Sex usually is a result of relationship. Yes,we do have it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why bother really |
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Posted: 09 Feb 2012, 3:53 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 4,983
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| I mean this in the most constructive way possible--you've got bigger stuff to concern yourself with. Relationships are absolutely vital, I think, but without the proper groundwork they tend to fall apart. Think of it this way: even if a girl DID show interest in you, all of the bigger pervasive issu... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspergers and Sex |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2012, 3:47 pm
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Replies: 70
Views: 5,934
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| Lost it when I was 20. It definitely affects my sex life, but I think it's mostly in a positive way. In several ways I think I actually communicate better with women than with men. It hinders a romantic relationship the way it does any relationship, which is why one of my strategies is to simply not... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What the HELL is sexual tension? |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2012, 3:34 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 24,655
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| If he touches himself anywhere near his navel, he's absolutely interested. Even aspie guys do this. In fact, aspie guys do it the most blatantly of all. The best part is that 99% of guys don't realize why they're doing it, so when you see it, you know they're being honest about it because it's almo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What the HELL is sexual tension? |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2012, 8:08 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 24,655
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| It's exactly the same as regular tension. If people are telling you there's sexual tension between you and another person, pay attention next time you're in close proximity to each other physically (or even on the phone, I suppose): Do you start breathing a little faster and/or shallower? Do you fee... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What about polyamory |
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Posted: 03 Feb 2012, 3:52 pm
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Replies: 99
Views: 8,447
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| Several of you seem to not quite grasp how natural selection works, for humans or in general. Here's a concise and (hopefully) understandable summary: New traits arise (or old ones are modified) in a species when certain old ones are or become so maladaptive that the genes of a given species are at ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What about polyamory |
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Posted: 02 Feb 2012, 8:49 pm
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Replies: 99
Views: 8,447
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| Before I start, I want to address the poster who claimed that monogamy had "evolved" as a protection mechanism against STDs. Thus far in human history, there has been exactly one demographic that could possibly have been affected enough by STDs for something like this to matter--and in one particula... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Organizations that teach Body Language or Social Skills |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2010, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 11
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| There is a cripplingly-huge community of men claiming to be able to teach body language and social skills under the guise of "dating coaches" or "seduction gurus." There is a lot you can learn from them, but I should caution you that most of them are pretty f**ked-up individuals outside of their lit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone not tell romantic partners that they have Aspergers? |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2010, 10:54 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 5,776
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| I think you guys are coming at it from the wrong angle. It seems like a lot of people here consider AS to be their terrible little secret, their burden that weighs them down everywhere they go, and if word got out, everyone would make fun of them and look at them differently. It's nowhere near the t... |
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