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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interested in serial killers, nazis, anything that kills etc |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2019, 5:42 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 432
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| I once had an interest in everything people did to create hell on earth and it brought me to dark places, but I'm glad I visited them, it made me a better person, less naïve and blind. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Antipsychotics seem to be hindering my psychic abilities |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2019, 7:36 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 773
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| I take anti-psychotics too and I sort of miss the world I was in before that, everything was full of meaning. But offcourse, you get swallowed up by your own shadows and that's a very scary thing. Everything started when I got into shamanism and my life has changed since that, I feel like I'm on a s... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Some tips for people with executive dysfunction |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2019, 9:58 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 403
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| I have always had problems with my executive function: I would think and think and analyze and think some more and never actually do the task. So yes, this has been a major problem for me in real life and I never seem to find a way to work around this issue. Until recently, I think, I may have found... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: A disconnect, in marriage, from women? |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2018, 3:12 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 915
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| A shaman is the recluse who stands outside the herd and communes with the spirits of his ancestors. A shaman can never have a normal family life and often chooses to remain alone, because he needs his energy for his duties. You don't choose to become a shaman, it chooses you. I chose often to remai... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: A disconnect, in marriage, from women? |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2018, 8:31 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 915
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| A shaman is the recluse who stands outside the herd and communes with the spirits of his ancestors. A shaman can never have a normal family life and often chooses to remain alone, because he needs his energy for his duties. You don't choose to become a shaman, it chooses you. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: When people don't follow your advice. |
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Posted: 07 Mar 2018, 8:03 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 993
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OP seems to have a messiah-complex, hallelujah.  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Varg talks about autism |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2017, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 64
Views: 3,851
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| I've listened to a lot of Burzum during my younger years, I still do actually. I like the agression and the despair within his songs, the music is more suited for melancholic, depressed kind of moods. I'm not really sure what to think of Varg as a person, but it's obvious he's not very fond of the p... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are there any aspies here afraid of becoming Hitler? |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2017, 5:58 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,642
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being kind in an unkind world |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2017, 3:29 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 724
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I have this script in my head that I'd like to use for people that direct their negativity towards me. It goes like this:
smile,
nod,
walk away..
no harm's been done |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being kind in an unkind world |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2017, 7:32 pm
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Replies: 18
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| Yeah, if I think about it, maybe the title of this post is a bit too black/white, that's just part of my general thinking. I do believe it's some sort of healing from earlier negative experiences, like kraftie said, by balancing out with the positive (I like to see this as a yin yang principle), whe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being kind in an unkind world |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2017, 6:16 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 724
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| .. and I salute you for your positive attitude. I see it more as a philosophy, allthough yes, there is some 'spirituality' involved (I loathe the word spirituality, because of its connection with all the 'new age' crap). It's a leap of faith for me I had to make and you don't have to expect miracles... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being kind in an unkind world |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2017, 5:03 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 724
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| I think I have found some sort of balance between the inner me vs the outer world. In fact I think there is no me vs them, we're all connected and what we do to others, we do to ourselves. Thereby, I have left the field of judgement and entered the world of merely observing without registering, ever... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism as an Archetype |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2017, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,035
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| There seem to be two kind of autistic people, the scientific type and the artistic. One is the rational, the other the intuitive. I think that our society would benefit from both worlds to find eachother: where science meets art, new ideas arise. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why is everyone f***ing lying? are they insane? |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2017, 5:41 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,638
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| Ah yes, lying: one of the virtues of mankind. I never lie, because I don't know how. I'm never accused of lying, because I have learnt the gentle art of shutting up. People don't make sense, once you realize that everything makes sense. Correction: I do know how to lie, I just never do it with bad i... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm f***ing through with this |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2017, 5:32 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,576
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| I hope you're feeling better now than when you posted this, suffering is never good. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm f***ing through with this |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2017, 5:06 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 1,576
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| I don't understand what that means. Ok, let me put it this way. We are complex beings, especially those with autism. I always had the problem that, whenever I met someone who was being nice to me, i'd sort of get attached to that person, which isn't healthy. Attachment is never healthy, even Yoda k... |
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