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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspies and suicidal thoughts |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2014, 1:14 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 5,748
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| I have suicidal thoughts ALL the time, I acknowledge them, then I try to do something else. Honestly, if I killed myself now, It wouldn't make the world a better place. But it wouldn't be a worse off place either. I'm not special, or "evil", or anything different (in the long run) from the other bil... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Might be moving soon. |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2014, 1:01 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 5,262
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| I love moving, you get to destroy all your sh***y old clutter in a fire, and begin acquiring new shinier clutter! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: depression with autism |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2014, 12:59 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 3,256
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| I'm depressed because I have no skills that apply to modern society, and my conversation skills are abysmal. But I also wonder if I'm not depressed at all, and merely accepting that I have deep flaws in a society where being different is bad. Am I sick, or are they sick? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: when people stop talking to you |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2014, 12:53 am
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Replies: 37
Views: 3,975
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| It hurts all the time, you just have to grow a thicker skin with time or avoid talking to people. I'm sure the people in my building think I'm a dick by not talking to them, but I'm really trying not to have my feelings smashed to pieces. I can shrug off rudeness well now, but the people that avoid ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Best way to refuse a "would you mind..." request? |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2014, 12:49 am
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Replies: 27
Views: 2,825
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| I would have been much more rude about it. I think you did fine. Some people just don't recognize that their not the center of the world. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does your family talk about you like you're not there? |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2014, 12:05 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,909
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| My aunt does that all the time to me so I just stopped seeing her. Haven't seen her in two years. To me friendship earned is more important than blood ties. I've cut off huge parts of my family, but am practically family with my friend's relatives. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Looks like I'm getting kicked out... |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2014, 11:48 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 3,488
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| Before you go out, learn how to cook. I was very underweight for my height until I went home and had my mother teach me two years ago. Do not be afraid of vegetables, they are cheaper than fast food. If all you could afford was vegetables, you would not die of malnutrition. Even if they have to be d... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: any other night owls? how do you make yourself go to sleep? |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2014, 11:28 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 8,496
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| I exercise until my body is tired enough to ignore my brain and go to sleep, or watch a TV show with a really convoluted plot to confuse my mind long enough to fall asleep. most of the time my mind is at fault for keeping me awake and I basically have to trick it or become physically exhausted in su... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "Absorbing" friends personalities |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2014, 11:20 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,781
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| I knowingly mimicked people that were accepted by others through out all of school. I would have never had friends today if I wasn't mimicking, but I'm trying to stop it now. Three years ago I was at a party and I was friends with three entirely different people that coincidentally showed up at the ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: You know you're autistic when... |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2014, 4:29 am
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Replies: 603
Views: 61,906
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| When you check your watch for when it's okay to transition from "good morning" to "good day" to "good evening" as a parting phrase. Yes, there IS specific times at which it changes. Maybe the world will implode if I use good morning at 4 in the afternoon, either way I don't want to find out. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Being diagnosed isn't that great |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2014, 4:21 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,118
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| The world seems to hate everyone regardless of any factor, might as well be hated as you were made instead of pretending. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Is this considered stimming? And how to stop it? |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2014, 12:34 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 4,050
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| i wasn't aware that tearing up long nails and loose/dead skin was a disorder. seems more like advanced hygiene. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Driving |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2014, 12:27 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,230
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| I did pass most of the tests but I turn into a nervous wreck whenever I'm on a real road with other real drivers. To be honest I was pushed into learning how to drive by my parents when i just turned legal. I'm guessing they didn't enjoy carting me around. I just walk everywhere now, and when I get ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Autism and anime! |
| SplinterStar |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2014, 12:17 am
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Replies: 74
Views: 10,294
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| I always assumed that the s**t ton of aspies being born at one time (late 80's to early 90's) is what made autistic folk like childish things. at one point most of the first to second wave of aspies/auties were teenagers and teenagers are magnetized to anime like men are to exploding micheal bay fil... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: If you could choose not to be Aspie would you? |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2014, 12:10 am
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Replies: 64
Views: 4,732
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| I'm pretty much socially ret*d but I wouldn't give it up because with all my problems, I have awareness. I read about and feel for things happening to people all around the planet and I'm brightly sharply aware of my existence as not being the center of the universe. Most normals are so damn shallow... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you ever call/consider yourself autistic? (AS Dx) |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2014, 11:59 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 2,071
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| I'm not 100% on how far down the scales aspergers is but i still get overload fueled tantrums that are very hard to prevent. but if i can help it, i won't tell someone i have aspergers to elevate my social standing over all. I'm not going to deny it if someone confronts me, but i'm not advertising i... |
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