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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2013, 5:40 pm
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| I don't even know if I want to talk to you to be honest. I'm a tired upset mess and the chances of me f*****g things up and hurting myself even more than I am at the moment are stupidly high. I miss my friends, ok, I think you kinda need to know that about me, before anything else tbh - I miss my fr... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Disclosing AS to my employer - help please |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2013, 5:20 pm
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| I'd rather work in a different department from checkouts yes, but I don't really have any choice so I'm going to try and make the best of it. That's part of why I'm letting them know just now so they don't think I'm not trying and give me into trouble for that. If that makes sense ? |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Disclosing AS to my employer - help please |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2013, 1:25 pm
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Thanks those are great  |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Disclosing AS to my employer - help please |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2013, 12:47 pm
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| I currently work part-time in my local supermarket and up till now ( well a week ago) I worked stacking shelves in the groccery department and AS wasn't really an issue for me, but I've now been moved to checkouts, because of store budgeting reasons, and think this could be more of a problem. I'm pl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do you self harm/hit out? |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 5:26 pm
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| I used to self harm because of a combination of reasons, frustration at myself, self-hatred, as a way of feeling something rather than nothing and really occasionally as a way of focusing when I was getting overwhelmed with negative emotions. However, it's very rare for me to hit out at other people... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2012, 10:08 am
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| Dear you, What do I have to do to make you be proud of me ? Really ? I've got a degree, yes its a 2.2 not a 2.1 but hell I worked so hard to get that degree and now it seems like it counts for nothing with you, I'm trying my hardest to get a job, ANY job I'm doing all you say to do - as much as I ca... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Probably going to kill myself eventually |
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Posted: 13 Mar 2012, 5:18 pm
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| Is there any way for you to get extra help for your dad, that could let you have a break from the situation ? Maybe having some time for yourself might make it easier for you to meet someone. I would say that caring for your dad despite you not wanting to and only doing it because you feel you have ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2012, 6:20 pm
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Dear you,
Please don't move to XXXY. Its selfish I know but I'd miss you, even AAAB would be better than there.
Love
Me
PS : any chance of you going to our grad ball ? not with me obviously just going. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2012, 6:17 pm
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| Hey you, Sorry for acting like an idiot around you all the time, I can't figure out what you think of me and it makes me panic and do stupid stuff. Or at least stuff I look back on and think looked stupid, even if nobody else noticed. Also sorry for having zero conversational skills sometimes - some... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: England and Scotland? |
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Posted: 06 Mar 2012, 6:44 pm
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| Glasgow as well , studying earth science and hopefully going to graduate in June. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is your weight range in dating? |
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Posted: 24 Feb 2012, 6:11 pm
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| A healthy weight I suppose, its not really something that would make or break a potential relationship for me its just a preference. Although if someone was unhealithly overweight and refused to do anything about it I could see that being a problem, but more due to a probable difference in lifestyle... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 06 Feb 2012, 4:21 pm
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| Dear World, or someone Thank you, thank you so much for giving me another chance, a chance to be real to actually feel again. I'l take the ups and downs and be forever grateful to not be numb anymore, to have some perspective, to just feel human again. Whatever caused this change thank you. Love Me |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2011, 3:20 pm
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| Dear World, Please stop throwing so much s*** at me - I can't deal with this anymore please, just let these next few weeks be easier than the past few and then itl be christmas and itl all be over for a month, please just stop making everything go and mess up at once, I can't keep doing this. And to... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2011, 6:54 pm
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| Dear Colin, Theres no point me being nice about this but... please just get a girlfriend already and leave me alone ! Yes we went out, yes it was ok while it lasted but it didnt work for a variety of reasons - which are still valid, and theres even more now. Look, once Im over someone, I'm over them... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2011, 12:53 pm
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| Hey you, Thank you for renewing my faith in people, well the people in our class really, deciding once you had seen I was the only person in the room to come over and talk to me even though your friend was there was fantastic, beats the standard of coming into the room seeing me and promptly turning... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 1:21 pm
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| I don't know if this is to myself or to someone else or something else, All I need to say is I must get through tomorrow morning,get through the seminar without stumbling over my words like loose paving stones, without shaking without attracting everyones elses fear that makes the atmosphere tense. ... |
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