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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any GOOD dating sites? |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 7:50 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 20,761
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| Plenty of Fish. First of all, its free. Second of all, its easy to use. I met a few women through them. Nothing really came of it, but then again, I didn't have much to lose, since I didn't put a lot of time and effort into it. I would arrange to meet them in a Starbucks near me. If they didn't show... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Sex without Love or Love without Sex? |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 7:20 pm
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Replies: 65
Views: 1,299
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| I believe in love of course, but if I had to choose, I'd rather have sex without love. I'm a normal guy, and men deteriorate more than women do if they don't have sex. That's why nuns seem to me to be more content than priests and monks, while prudes tend to be more often women, and its mainly women... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Should I act on a crush on a co-worker? |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2011, 10:01 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 111
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| Thanks for reading my admittedly rather lengthy posting, and giving me some input. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Should I act on a crush on a co-worker? |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2011, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 111
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| I work with a woman who I like. I talk to her a lot, and we have been flirting for about 5 years-not really seriously, just joking around. Recently, about a month ago, she has begun dropping hints that she wants to push things to a more serious level. This would be a dream come true for me, since I ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Raves |
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Posted: 16 Oct 2011, 12:00 am
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Replies: 610
Views: 177,944
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| Things to rave about: (1) Coffee, (2) Soft ice cream, (3) Early Autumn weather in New England- This time of year is the only time with mild weather and the leaves turning is beautiful, (4) God- I go to church most weeks, (5) My kids- both of them, (6) Shopping for used clothing and books, (7) Labor ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What is your ideal body type in a mate? |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2011, 11:01 pm
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Replies: 55
Views: 1,333
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| Voluptuos- good-sized ass, thighs, and breasts- curvy without being obese. Also, I like mixed race women and Spanish women. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What cultures is fighting common? |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2011, 12:49 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 102
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| When traveling as a tourist, the country where I saw the most fistfights by far was Morocco. I saw one massive knock-down drag-out fight only in Europe- on the metro in Rome, right when a lot of young men from a slummy neighborhood were getting on the train (it was the Magliana station). In Northern... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: "Use of Surrogate Sex Partners Rising Among Women" |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2011, 1:52 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 260
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| Actually, the reality is more disappointing than one would think while discussing the still admittedly exotic use of sexual surrogates in treatment. Everything I have come across that deals with this subject leads me to believe that their use is fairly rare, and that their use constitutes a mostly c... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Weight is partly a cultural concept |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2011, 1:43 pm
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Replies: 84
Views: 1,319
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| Right now, we are a period in history when we worship thinness. It hasn't always been like that in other countries and cultures, and in many past eras in history. Look at the monstrous big-hipped women in the French pornographic postcards of the early 20th century, the nudes painted by Rubens, the s... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: do you like sex? |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2011, 1:34 pm
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Replies: 83
Views: 2,699
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| Of course I love it! That's the difference between men and women. By any statistical measure you can imagine, men are more sexually active- They masturbate more, report sexual thoughts more to researchers, commit nearly 100% of the sex crimes. Some of it is biology. Males of all species need to spre... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How to escape from being trapped in a rut? |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2011, 12:59 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 99
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| If you're young and not yet weighed down with responsibilities and debts, enjoy your life. I'm 53 years old, and I can't move from where I live until my daughter graduates from her high school in 8 months, then I have to wait a further 7 months until my lease is up. I am stuck in my job forever, sin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do guys approach women in America? |
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Posted: 25 Aug 2011, 12:06 am
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Replies: 91
Views: 9,046
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| The US is definitely a larger country with a lot of opportunities. The only caution I would have is that the economy is down right now, so it's harder to find a job. What I found that the best way to meet people when in school is to become part of a group that hangs out together for coffee or in the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Rules for Love/Dating |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2011, 10:08 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,687
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| The largest number of these rules (for example, don't call for 3 days), are to get you to avoid looking needy or desperate, and to get you to think before you leap to avoid a bad situation. In short, they are just common sense. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Dealing with bullies at work |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2011, 9:59 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,701
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| A lot of ways- gossip, ridicule, yelling at me, constant criticism, ratting me out to management behind my back, spreading false rumors. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Dealing with bullies at work |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2011, 8:17 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,701
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| All of the issues I have dealt with mean that I attract bullies often. When I was in school, I would often deal with it by giving them a good beating, but then I found that the result was that the other kids would hate me. Now as an adult, I find that the presence of bullies energizes me, and I can ... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Others in the Psychology/Social Services/Field? |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2011, 8:04 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,695
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| I work as a supervisor in an institution for mentally ret*d adults. The kind of work you are doing is not a bad place to start. The big danger is that they can try to economize by increasing your caseload to an impossible size. In any case, its good to be working in a field where you are helping peo... |
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