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Forum: The Haven Topic: Being harassed and kicked out of my home |
| Catster29 |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2011, 8:15 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 3,117
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| I know what you mean about discrimination unfortunately and it isn't right but us aspies face it all the time I have issues with family members acting like having a meltdown is some sort of behavioural problem and not as a result of a condition. My mum verbally abuses me on occasion although she is ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Should I be worried about this? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2011, 5:00 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,399
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| Well no he didn't directly call me names or swear "At" me it was more like s**t f**k but no not right at me. Im also going to add at the end Although I realise your anger and frustration wasn't aimed directly at me that you had other things on your mind. I think he did have other things on his mind ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Should I be worried about this? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2011, 9:01 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,399
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| i was thinking of saying something like this. I just wanted to tell you how I felt about something that has been playing on my mind and upset me a lot. When I slammed the door to the car without seeing the coffee on top of it and it went on you and the car you reacted very strongly and were very ang... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Should I be worried about this? |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2011, 7:46 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,399
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| I think he should have apologised too we all make mistakes i guess im not sure if I should tell him that or not. The "damage" wasn't that big a deal really it was only on the outside of the car and yes on his clothes but it was all fixable. Like I said he calmed down fairly quickly but it did upset ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Should I be worried about this? |
| Catster29 |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2011, 6:22 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,399
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| I recently stayed with someone in Canberra and the vast majority of time we got along really well. However there was one incident that upset me Tim (the guy) had put his cup of coffee on top of his car and I got out and slammed the door without seeing that he had put the coffee on top of the car and... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: was it ok to say what I did? |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2011, 3:04 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,053
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| I tell peoplke that I have As in case of situations like this so they understand. I was still honest and I said despite my issues I would go for her sake if she wants. I wont be saying anymore about it the balls in her court. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: was it ok to say what I did? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2011, 8:02 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,053
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| I have offered to go we shall see what Lara says |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: was it ok to say what I did? |
| Catster29 |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2011, 5:28 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,053
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| In future I might have handled things a little different but like I said given all thr above factors tit was hard |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspergers and Driving |
| Catster29 |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2011, 9:52 am
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Replies: 240
Views: 73,038
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| Driving age here is 18. I got my learner permit at 27, my probationary licence at twenty eight and last week after 3 years got my full licence. I am quite a good driver sure. When I got my full licence last week I could. *ditch the P plates *don't have to carry my licence at all times *can drive hig... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: was it ok to say what I did? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2011, 9:32 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,053
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| I would have just gone along to it. Who cares if you didn't like her? I think everything depends on how you said it. It could easily have gone wrong but only you can be the judge of that. Unless you want to bring it up again and ask her directly. I am wondering why she asked you to attend the funer... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: was it ok to say what I did? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2011, 8:44 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,053
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| I dont think she will take offence no in fact one issue I had with the whole thing was because of the issues she had with her mum was I didn't know how she was actually feeling. She says she has sorted things out in her head im glad for her for that, coz when her mum does die she can be at peace wit... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: was it ok to say what I did? |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2011, 8:06 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 3,053
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| I just had a hard situation to handle it was hard to know what to say see this girl i knew as a kid her mum is sick and going to die very soon she asked me if i wanted to go to the funeral i told her that i would be honest i didnt have great memories of her mum i dont think she liked me much it was ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: i think my cat has aspergers... |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2011, 5:06 am
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Replies: 57
Views: 15,049
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| My friend/flatmate who has AS her cat is seriously aspie he knocks everything over, breaks things, plays inappropriately, doesn't like change and is very loyal. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: upset by this |
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Posted: 04 Sep 2011, 3:56 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 853
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| No i Cant force him I just feel really sad coz yes there are issues and yes I can been hard to understand at times but I don't know why he is totally rejecting me in this way. I have written to my mum and told her how I am feeling. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: proud to get my full licence |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2011, 7:09 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 841
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| well it hasn't made a great deal of difference in that Ive been driving on my own for three years with restrictions but getting rid of those restrictions is certainly good. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: DO YOU DRIVE? |
| Catster29 |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2011, 6:40 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 2,565
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| Yes I drive but didn't until later in life (28) as I didn't feel ready or able to before then. I like driving but can only drive auto I don't like driving in high stress situations. |
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