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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does this mean? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2010, 12:18 pm
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| Thanks. That explains it. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What does this mean? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 22 Jan 2010, 1:20 am
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Recently, I was discussing a former friend with a friend, who said:
"you took a lot of grief from him"?
What does it mean? *scratching my head* |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to cope with mornings |
| amyst |
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Posted: 12 Jan 2010, 12:26 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,699
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| I have been living unhappily for more than a year at my current place. I have difficulty getting up in the morning, wanting to spend more time dreaming. Sometimes I shut myself off and not heed I have work to do. I don't know if my symptoms are due to depression or asperger's. This started to happen... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What should I do to get away |
| amyst |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2010, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 3
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| I had a relationship that terminated. I have difficulty accept, and I have been depressed. I don't feel other compassion in my life, but I also feel that I might overlooked something. I am thinking about getting a boyfriend to get away. Should I do that? I don't know where else to receive compassion... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Should I forgive? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 04 Jan 2010, 9:13 pm
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Replies: 3
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I am conflicted. At least for a period of few months, a friend had been using me, but he grew a bit nicer afterward. However it caused major damage to my life.
I wanted to have him as a friend, but I am afraid because of his insincerity and the harm he inflicts on me. What should I do? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Should I ask a friend for help over a relationship? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2009, 7:28 pm
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Replies: 2
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| Someone recently asked me, if I would like to talk with him about what's been troubling me. We don't know each other too well. For the little that we know, we enjoy each other's presence. Earlier, I suggested to him that I may leave school. He's the only person in my school who knows about my involv... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to heal from irreparable emotional damages |
| amyst |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2009, 4:01 pm
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Replies: 4
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| Someone I used to love inflicted irreparable damage to my career and to my life. I was not once critical of his criticisms of me, because I didn't like myself much. I was not suspicious of negative influences he has on me. He hurted me and my life badly Have you ever been hurt by someone you love? H... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Am I making others uncomfortable? Why am I uncomfortable? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2009, 11:33 pm
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| It was years ago. I was happy with my life overall. I often get excited and happy with talking to certain people. Some acquaintance whom I talk with not on a regular basis appear to be less than enthusiastic about it. I wonder if they find me too close? Nowadays I find it repulsive when an acquainta... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Constantly failing |
| amyst |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2009, 10:06 pm
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Replies: 5
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| I have been constantly failing at getting what I want. I can't turn off my mind away from other people's perception of me, their negative feelings towards me, and that make me miserable. Sometimes I feel that I screwed up my life so much, with so many bad decisions, that it is no longer useful that ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Should I seek people's help with a career change? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2009, 5:33 pm
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Replies: 1
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| I have been having a personal problem in my current school, where I am seeking an advance degree. It is bad enough that it changed my focus of study and ruined my career, as well as direction of life. I feel that I need friends' advice and help to find out where my next step is. I'm also afraid howe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: How do I not hate myself? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2009, 9:41 pm
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Replies: 4
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| I hate myself because something I did years ago is dishonest to myself, not reflecting what my values are because of my fears. I have been hating myself for years. I can't trust people who re different from me, or enjoy spending time with friends. I am also suspicious that other people hate me. I be... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do people hate me? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2009, 7:19 pm
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Replies: 15
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| When I feel that I did something wrong, like not working properly at work, I tend to avoid colleagues' glances and fail to say hi when I meet them. There is a recent rumor going that involving me. I can't say hi or interact properly with acquaintance's or friends. It makes me nervous that somewhere ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Not a friend? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2009, 2:46 am
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Replies: 10
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| I find it very difficult to deal with dishonest people, especially people who do not express their feelings honestly. I find them depressing and wearing down my life. Am I complaining too much. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Kinds of friend |
| amyst |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2009, 1:53 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I agree with you, ssenkrad, that I was more into this friendship than my counterpart. I see that friendship really can't come at the cost of making myself uncomfortable. I agree that he had been treating me like an acquaintance for more than a year. I valued him and his views too much, and I made de... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Not a friend? |
| amyst |
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Posted: 13 Dec 2009, 1:07 pm
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Replies: 10
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| I guess I am not good at reading other people's, at least his, behavior. I feel that if he didn't want to come with me to this trip at all, he should just say it outright. It seems that he wanted to come to this trip, interact only when necessary, and he's merrier go about his own way. He got a bit ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Kinds of friend |
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Posted: 12 Dec 2009, 3:51 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,327
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| I am wondering if friendship means people who can support you to help you achieve your goals. Even if you may want to help someone with his intensely, if that person is not helpful to your life, you must move on with your life without him? I am also wondering why I did not have much shared happiness... |
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