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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Are you attracted to femininity? |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2014, 12:43 pm
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Replies: 11
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masculine, feminine, androgynous are all attractive to me.
But it is not common for me to not find someone physically attractive. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The UCSB shooter--an Aspie with a rant against women |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 25 May 2014, 7:38 pm
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| I think maybe you've got some dramatic ideas about what date rape is, Boo. It's just a form of "I'm allowed." Just like, decades ago, it used to be totally fine to slap dat ass walking by in the office. A perk, right? I'm allowed. And my dick is so practically inside her anyway, now that I've given... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How to quit a sexual fetish/fantasy? Impossible? |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 03 May 2014, 2:00 pm
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Replies: 14
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| I don't think you guys understand. I'll try to clarify a bit. It's something that's viewed as disgusting by society and falls under the utterly bizarre category of fetishes. Chances are low that a person wouldn't be disgusted by it. I don't know if you guys would feel the same or not, I'm new here.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any other poly folk? |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2014, 5:10 pm
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Replies: 24
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| ^ A lot of television characters act as though some rule book for relationships actually exists somewhere, and all their arbitrary and self-serving rules are actually written in it, and that everyone knows it. Maybe people get that idea from TV, or perhaps the writers get that idea from those types... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any other poly folk? |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2014, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 24
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| but the idea that I'd "own" whoever I'm with sounds to me bizarre. He's there by choice, no? And if he doesn't want to be, then presumably off he goes. That is a much better view than most people I know who are in committed exclusive relationships. Many people take it as an excuse to micromanage ev... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any other poly folk? |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2014, 8:53 pm
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Replies: 24
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| ^ You forgot to mention honesty. For someone who feels like you (and I) do, honesty makes having a conventional relationship really difficult. oops That is a big one for me, I only lie as a last resort, and would never do so to someone i cared for who wasn't one of my crazy family members. And I st... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Any other Aspies struggle math? |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2014, 8:36 pm
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Replies: 89
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| Im not bad at math per say, just not as good as other things. (still test above average in math, and somehow got A in differential equations) Though I would say my problem Is that I havent found a fun way to learn it, and unlike most other areas where i can become near expert with little effort math... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Overall experience with online dating: + or - ? (MALES ONLY) |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2014, 9:57 pm
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Replies: 27
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| Those dating sites are generally a waste of time. that would depend on how much time you are willing to spend, my only successes in dating have been through sites, admittedly, the response rate is poor due to the spamming creepers, but it seems to work better than other means for me. Admittedly in ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Speed Dating at Emerald City ComicCon |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2014, 5:38 pm
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Replies: 17
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nick007 wrote: I'd be worried that some of the women there are guys dressed up as women characters
I guess that could be a bit disconcerting, though personally i wouldn't mind that at all. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Weird rejection reasons you've heard from them. |
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Posted: 01 Apr 2014, 11:13 pm
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Replies: 19
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| I think the weirdest i got was "nope I'm mean" Though not a rejection yet, there was a girl who messaged me today asking to cyber, and when i replied with "hello, how are you" thinking it was a joke, she said "i was joking thats gross" Not entirely sure how a simple hello is gross, but i think she w... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do you consider yourself a perv:-) |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2014, 7:47 pm
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Replies: 36
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| I wonder how is Asperger's syndrome related to sex drive? Im not sure that it is, at least apart from the lack of social awareness leading to admitting to more abnormal things. Some are asexual, and some are like myself greedy sluts, but the same goes for all people. that being said, you may get mo... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Polyamory |
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Posted: 30 Mar 2014, 8:03 am
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Replies: 104
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| Hey, does anyone have stats for the claim that non-monogamy and/or kink, and neurodiversity are linked? I'm really interested in those stats (as a kinky, polyamorous person who likes stats.) That would be super interesting. Absolutely. It was several years since I linked "unusual sexual preferences... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My husband is so angry all the time |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2014, 9:29 pm
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| Might i suggest that the first thing to do is stop the casino and other recreational expenses. The financial stresses are aggravating things, and unless you wish to be at the mercy if the state you need to get some legal help to get the kids back. I know it is not nearly enough money to do much, but... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I stop women from getting me into legal trouble. |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2014, 6:50 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Aside from that, there really isn't enough information in your posts that indicate what may be happening. And I definitely don't blame you because this information might be better off in private conversation with someone (face to face). It is even safer to just PM someone. Based on what you said, I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hale_Bopp's "tear apart my okcupid profile" thread |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 17 Mar 2014, 9:51 pm
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Replies: 328
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| thanks lkl, i guess you were the visitor from oregon, I hope the one from venezuella is also from here or otherwise not looking for a date, he is not so good at setting his location range. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Bump when horny |
| inconelx |
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Posted: 16 Apr 2012, 10:49 am
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Replies: 3,915
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abacacus wrote: I swear I should be gay. Third dude in about a week whose propositioned me.
lol, I wish someone would proposition me, guy or girl. |
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