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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Hallucinations/Delusions? |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2018, 2:44 pm
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Replies: 6
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| I am under a huge amount of stress at present, so that's a possible explanation - but the other day I was sure I was good friends with several famous people. Part of me knew this wasn't so but this belief was there. This has shaken me rather. I am having a huge breakdown so maybe this delusion was p... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Spam from Wrong Planet |
| huytongirl |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2017, 5:45 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 343
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| Just got some spam to my own email account which came from this website. I deleted and blocked it. Why did this happen? I do not want anyone contacting me on my private account. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Inexperienced over 40 men |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2016, 8:26 am
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Replies: 54
Views: 29,409
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| I am an autistic woman and far from asexual. Sex, it seems to me, is, along with music, the greatest thing about being alive - not that I get much chance to be with anyone, because of all the social problems and emotional overload stuff. The idea that someone would be derided for being a virgin appa... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Benzodiazepines & Autism - a common link with anxiety? |
| huytongirl |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2015, 10:39 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,743
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| I Googled "autism and benzos" and depressingly, got a list of hits about how it "lessens the severity" of autism. Well, yes - just like being drunk or stoned would do. God, how dismal - "give them these pills to make them easier to deal with." Vile. I was googling this ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: will my boyfriend come back? |
| huytongirl |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2015, 4:39 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,256
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| I was in one of these awful, awful relationships. I no longer care so much about the precise definition of him, but the descriptions of people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Psychopaths (dramatic word, I know) fit it absolutely. Cycle: Idealise/Devalue/Discard. They adore you! You are wo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2015, 4:24 pm
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| Yes. I miss someone I had a crush on, on and off, for several years. Not while I was with the man I thought I'd marry. But when that relationship splintered (on/off/on/off hell) the crush feelings came back. Anyway I told him right after the seventh and final split that I'd fancied him but I knew it... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Curious about IBS |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2014, 4:55 am
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,710
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| I do have IBS, and am lactose intolerant (ie more diarrhoea). Soya in any form provokes it too. I don't have gluten intolerance - had a test at the hospital during a very bad diarrhea spell. I feel often like an animal fed on the wrong food - like a cat fed on dog food. But I a rationalist and have ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Curious about IBS |
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Posted: 25 Sep 2014, 4:54 am
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Replies: 30
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| I do have IBS, and am lactose intolerant (ie more diarrhoea). Soya in any form provokes it too. I don't have gluten intolerance - had a test at the hospital during a very bad diarrhea spell. I feel often like an animal fed on the wrong food - like a cat fed on dog food. But I a rationalist and have ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Low muscle tone? |
| huytongirl |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2014, 5:57 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 7,171
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| Just had to post again as I read Who-Am-I's link (sorry - can't do underscore on this phone). The number of times I have knocked over a glass of water while trying to pick it up! I see my fingers banging into the rim of it and knocking it flying, all but helpless over it. I just see my hand doing th... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Low muscle tone? |
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Posted: 20 Sep 2014, 5:38 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 7,171
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| There seems to be confusion here between having well-developed muscles and having problems with the muscles themselves. I get injured very easily by moderate amounts of exercise - I developed bursitis in my hips from only a few hours' exercise cycling a week, in spite of stretches, warm-ups and phys... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspergers + BPD |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2014, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 13
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| I'm exhausted. Diagnosed with AS a couple of years ago - really knew before but nice to have the rubber stamp thing. Been depressed and extremely anxious forever - started having personalization/derealization when I was 5 (utter hell, still). Always alone. Years before I even heard of Asperger's, I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break-ups |
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Posted: 23 May 2014, 5:39 pm
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Replies: 1
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| I was in this situation, and he came back. I wish now I'd said No, and grieved over the break-up and got over it. It's very ramshackle and difficult now, plus I have a crush on someone else - that'll never come to anything, but it started when my boyfriend was away and now it won't stop and I can't ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The Value of Meeting Other Autistic People |
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Posted: 23 May 2014, 5:06 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Today I went to a quiz - a group of us with mental health issues meet up once a week. There is a woman there who seems autistic to me. She knows a lot of the answers, she hardly ever speaks to anyone, she dresses in a way that looks slightly odd and unkempt - ie, intelligent, poor social skills, unu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Casual sex and Asperger's/autism |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2013, 4:51 pm
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Replies: 108
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| Having only a few weeks ago been dumped by the man I thought I'd grow old with, I do quite fancy casual sex - or, at least, sex with someone who knows I'm not in it long-term. I have someone in mind but it's so difficult. Maybe it's just the fantasy of it that sustains me, cushions the horrible blow... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to detect Narcissists (common partner for AS/Asperger's) |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2013, 3:46 pm
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Replies: 120
Views: 42,508
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| You can have a long list of NPD/BPD traits, and some of them fit my ex (who did have a diagnosis of personality disorder) very well, and come of them are miles off. So how about this (based on him): Someone who puts you down, subtly or otherwise. Someone who tells you that you're stupid (or implies ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to detect Narcissists (common partner for AS/Asperger's) |
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Posted: 24 Nov 2013, 4:36 pm
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Replies: 120
Views: 42,508
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| [quote="ToadOfSteel"]I have an easier way to detect narcissists: Anyone who gives themselves any praise or draws attention to themselves without any real cause.[/quote] That chilled me. Because that was one of the first things that troubled me about my ex. I have just got over the first we... |
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