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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspies and sexual lberalism |
| oohshiny |
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Posted: 12 Apr 2010, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 510
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| "An it harm none, do as thou wilt" is the whole of the law in my bedroom. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How do you know when your partner wants sex |
| oohshiny |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2010, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 325
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| I'm 36 and recently married - My question is do other Aspies here have problems judging when their partner wants sex or in initiating sex. My wife is understanding, but as a man I want to be assertive, its really stressful sometimes cause I just can't read the signs. When my wife and I have sex its... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Polyamory? |
| oohshiny |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2010, 1:35 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 824
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| I found that the higher the number the less intimacy there is so that maybe things are intense with one or two but with the rest things can be pretty light I never thought of that angle. That does go a way in explaining some recent disappointments I had with connections to "very poly" people, and a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Favorite Type of porn |
| oohshiny |
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Posted: 06 Apr 2010, 1:23 am
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Replies: 96
Views: 2,008
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| I am generally bored by vanilla sex- You know well-balanced man meets well-balanced woman and no sooner than the third date, after a lot of thought and in a sensitive way, the panties drop. I admit to mildly liking scenarios with submissive women, such as gang-bangs, S/M etc. Growing up in suburban... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Polyamory? |
| oohshiny |
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Posted: 05 Apr 2010, 5:59 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 824
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| I have no moral objection to it; the biggest problem that I can see is that people tend to get jealous. Jealousy is just a sign that something needs attention. While in extreme cases it could mean closing the relationship to those outside the couple or core, most of the time it can be dealt with in... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Questions to WP members who are not virgins... |
| oohshiny |
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Posted: 03 Apr 2010, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 1,545
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| What was it like "doing it" for the first time? How did you feel before "doing it?" How did you feel after? Did you tell anyone or kept it a secret? Elaborate on what happened the day after. That was some time ago but here's what I remember... Somewhere between meh and hmmm. Pretty excited before-h... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What are some of your turn-offs? |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2010, 1:47 pm
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Replies: 157
Views: 2,867
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| I completely agree! Ive met several guys in relationships who have made moves on me and I thought that it instantly made them look like jerks with no integrity. I wonder what they are thinking as anyone would think that it shows they would behave like that if they were dating them? But some people ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: MDMA |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2010, 1:32 pm
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Replies: 64
Views: 1,215
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| The woman who calls herself Neurosoup is one of the best sources on drug use and in one of her vids she said that you shouldn't take MDMA more than 15 times in your life... What's the basis for that number? Seems kinda random and static. Probably to emphasize that MDMA (as opposed to whatever unscr... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Do most people have sex naked? |
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Posted: 01 Apr 2010, 2:56 pm
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Replies: 87
Views: 1,791
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| Zentai, anyone? (similar to a body stocking, but typically covers everything from head to toe, has zippers in special places and is made from a slightly heavier, opaque fabric) It's my favorite clothing for playtime and can look even better than nude. I don't think I could get enough of it. :) It's ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: If you want a man's respect, how long should you "hold |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2010, 9:46 pm
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Replies: 57
Views: 1,009
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| (The Rules link) Ugh. Every time I see this book mentioned, I feel the need to counter it by recommending Opening Up by Tristan Taormino. It's a surprisingly monogamy-positive book about open relationships, but the mental exercises and processes she recommends are enlightening for anyone to whom th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Had a great date, but I'm terrified of the future |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2010, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,299
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| Don't base your worthiness on dating sites. They are possibly the worst way to meet someone for most men. You're probably in the top 5% of men on dating sites because you ACTUALLY HAD a meeting with someone. For what it's worth, my personal record: Out of 12 people on okcupid I messaged over the pa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How does a guy like me with aspergers get a date/girlfriend? |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2010, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 19,273
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| Chances are better that you will... AFTER high school! My experience has shown me that anyone who's the least bit out of step with the prevailing norm for their social group will likely have trouble finding cool romantic partners in high school. Still, try not to get too hung up on magazine cover ph... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Infidelity/Cheating: Your Take |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2010, 3:53 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 6,967
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| I don't really understand the point of cheating. IMO, I think you should either just establish that you don't want to be entirely monogamous or if you are monogamous, then break up with your partner if you find someone else you want to date. I knew this girl who would date someone for a while, find... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My first boyfriend |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2010, 10:26 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 2,601
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| I would want one, yea. But not super fast. Guys just want things to happen too quickly. First post ever... howdy all! Just as a preface, it's perfectly okay to want sex to come later. One just has to set those boundaries and be willing to squawk when lines are crossed. It might also be helpful to s... |
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