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Forum: The Haven Topic: I don't think I'll ever be published |
| Ore-Sama |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2010, 6:50 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,148
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| My first book failed to get a single agent to represent it, so onto the second and it's not fairing any better. It has been an agonizing affair of psychological and emotional torture, cause I assumed it was because I simply wasn't good enough. Now behold THIS response which has knocked me for such a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: The death of a novel |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2010, 6:16 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 949
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| I held the belief, a belief echoed by many, that hard work and persistence will get you published. With all the literary agents out there, the odds that not one of them takes your book to get published are slim to none. Yet I defied those odds. Plowing through every possibly agent on Agent Query, I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do you think are some major causes of Aspie rejection? |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2010, 7:47 pm
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Replies: 150
Views: 17,603
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| I think some Aspie guys (maybe Aspie girls too, but my experience is with Aspie guys) don't understand the effort it takes to have a successful relationship...there's an awful lot of compromise involved. I see that simplified ideal kind of distilled into a single sentence: "I want to find someone w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How big of drawbacks are these for female dates? |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2010, 4:51 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,632
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| I was suspecting A-Sexual, But do you have something that DOES turn you on? Oh goodness, I think I gave the very wrong impression about me. Sorry, messing up with my words is a bad habit of mine. I'm attracted to the female form, and certain male forms. I also have a couple fetishes(namely bondage)... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How big of drawbacks are these for female dates? |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2010, 9:38 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,632
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| I am in a rarity in society in that, nudity does not turn me on from either gender. Nor does watching two people have sex. At best I'm neutral, at worst I don't want to see it. Also breasts, I am not really turned on by breasts at all. If a girl flashed me, I might react from shock, but otherwise it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Single Aspie Men: Find Your Passion. |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2010, 4:29 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 4,970
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Quote: Unfortunately, video games, anime, a tv show you like, your stamp collection, etc., are not a passion
Bull. ANYTHING can be a passion. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Self Esteem Paradox |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2010, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,637
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| This is the situation where in someone with low self esteem can only raise their self esteem if someone falls in love with them, but that they are an unsuitable or undesirable partner because of their low self esteem, thus keeping them in the depression. Now they may want love for reasons other then... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: The Three Areas of Failire |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2010, 7:39 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,264
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| Wow, thank you for the answers people. These honestly did help me feel a bit better. Sorry if this sounds generic but I did read them closely. I'm not good at thank yous, they end up sounding like something from a fax machine so I apologize for that. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: The Three Areas of Failire |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 12:25 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,264
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| Really, there's only three areas in my life I care about succes in:Film, Writing, and Romance. Romance-No chance. If my lack of social skills doesn't cinch defeat here, it;s my looks, if not my looks it's my lack of charisma, or my lack of money and car, as well as interests, as well as research sho... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tips for aspie guys to get their first date |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 11:08 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 9,468
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I'm pretty much the exact opposite of eveything listed there.
Bad looks including a creepy face, overweight, no money, no confidence. Which makes me the 100% opposite of a good date. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 10:43 am
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Replies: 3,825
Views: 1,408,617
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Sex:Male
Age:21
Location:Ilion NY
Physical description:Average height, round but not obese, glasses, short brown hair.
Interests:Film, Anime, Literature, History, Politics, Pro Wrestling, Roleplaying, Writing
Sexual Orientation:Bisexual with preference for female |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What would you want in your dream partner? |
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Posted: 19 Jun 2010, 4:23 pm
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Replies: 86
Views: 20,233
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-Shares at least one or two major interests with me
-Doesn't try to rush me into sex
-Willing to help pay for dates
-Not overly religous or conservative
-generally nice |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: need your help you guys |
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Posted: 19 Jun 2010, 9:25 am
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Replies: 19
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| You people are quick to say just dump him. Christ so the guy has some issues and the immidiate suggestion is that he deserves to be dumped? Considering what forum we're on I would hope we could be a bit more open minded then that. We're talking tame stuff here. There are abuse and rape victims out t... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Apocalypse Game-A Novel |
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Posted: 31 May 2010, 1:47 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 507
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| This is the summary from my query letter. Been working on this novel for about 3 years, writing and revising it, and now currently trying to find an interested book agent: "Apocalypse Game" takes place in the one hundred twenty fifth incarnation of the planet earth, which is divided into twenty seve... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Someone Tell Me What I'm Doing Wrong |
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Posted: 29 May 2010, 9:57 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,478
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I didn't mean to turn them down, in fact I wanted to go out with them. I didn't realize they took it as rejection.
So I have to tell a girl right away I want to date them? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Someone Tell Me What I'm Doing Wrong |
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Posted: 29 May 2010, 9:34 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,478
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| In the past, girls have approached to talk to me, one whose intention was clearly romantic(she stated an interest in dating me-might've been lying but I can only assume) I never carried the conversastion well. They lost interest in me quickly. So I tried approaching them, which went okay though I ne... |
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