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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 26 May 2010, 8:38 am
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And then...communication...again...apologizing for not...it's so confusing...
No matter how depressed I am, I at least say...listen...I need some time, ok? It's not you...it's me...I'll talk to you whenever...
Is that difficult?
Please explain...
Thanx for all your help. |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 25 May 2010, 11:50 pm
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 25 May 2010, 11:34 pm
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| The book...He's Just Not That Into You is kinda a guy's point of view savving women trouble. but would this also pertain to someone with Aspergers? Example: He's just not that into you if he's not calling you (one of the chapters). Well...aren't Aspie's notorious for "backing off" and not calling li... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 25 May 2010, 12:06 pm
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One question. Have you ever read Greg Behrendt's "He's Just Not That Into You?" Not the movie...that was just a little cutesy version, which used quotes & made a storyline.
The actual book...
How I am feeling doing most of the work here... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 25 May 2010, 9:09 am
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| http://life-with-aspergers.blogspot.com/2009/10/why-do-aspies-suddenly-back-off-in.html Have you seen this blog? Interesting. I feel Tim has "backed-off" but not exactly certain why...Makes me wanna give up sometimes... Being an Aspie, if there were no interest at all, wouldn't he just say so? It's ... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 25 May 2010, 12:42 am
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| arkvark- I will have to admit, in some ways Tim is sooo frustrating to me. I have a pretty good self-esteem, but I do not like being the one to intitate conversation or text all the time. He supposedly likes that & told me this before we were even dating. I said, "I don't like to be the one to c... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 24 May 2010, 9:28 am
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| Aardvark- Sorry I haven't been online for awhile. I appreciate your advice. It helps me put things into perspective hearing what you have gone thru with suspected Aspergers & what Tim is going thru. You should just go ahead & write, BTW...don't worry about what others think, or may think unt... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 22 May 2010, 12:20 am
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| Thank You! I was wondering if there were something like this. At this time it is not an official diagnosis. What happened was when he freaked out at work, which was NOT his norm, I wondered why. I looked up many things, but when I googled, Aspergers kept coming up. Aspergers meltdown. He's 30 yrs ol... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 21 May 2010, 6:16 am
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| Maybe when things get settled more I will suggest something we can do together...he was MIA again yesterday. No response...so I just let it go...again. Oh well...not gonna sweat it. I was also reading a blogsite, Living With Aspergers & this man was describing different reasons, even in a couple... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: REALLY dilated pupils |
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Posted: 20 May 2010, 11:32 am
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| Maybe...for some with AS, dilated is "normal" or typical with some kind of outside stimuli and a reaction of this. This is all pure speculation on my part and please, feel free to correct me if I am wrong, but is it not one of the AS symptoms to dislike daylight/sunlight? Maybe this is why? Your pup... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 8:41 pm
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| Aardvak- You called it all exactly right. I feel so much better now. I have not lost my best friend. He is just depressed. He called. We had a heart to heart. He was as I remember him. I told him all he has to do is keep me informed, talk to me, see me once in a while. He agreed. He was not upset wi... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 7:33 pm
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| There is also another movie out "If You Could Say It In Words." I cannot get any info one where to rent it, or even see it.. It is an independant film. |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 6:24 pm
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| So again...this New Age thinking aspies are more spiritually evolved...maybe because they do ave difficulty relating to on eperson, but seem to wish to help society as a whole. Have you heard of this? Your thoughts? I just rented online "Adam" about an aspie/NT relationship. I do see many traits as ... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 5:38 pm
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| Another wonderful Aspie trait...justice... Some seem to feel Aspies are actually like an evolved human...new agers feel this...in a good way, of course. This is why they are misunderstood. More spiritually evolved. Your thoughts? I am having a "blue" day trying to deal with the ups & downs, so f... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 9:35 am
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| Thank You, Psygirl6! That's what I mean. I think he wants to try, but keeps procrastinating, thinking there's not enuf funding, or worrying about other things. I am so glad to hear you're doing soooo well! I know Tim will also! I think much of it was my "co-worker" who caused so much trouble. With t... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help for a 30 yr old for continued education |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 2:43 am
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| Aarkvark- You sound almost as if you know him. The one nurse WAS singling him out...well, she tries to do various things to get others going, but she usually backs off me cos !. I am onto her & her shenanigans 2. I am her equal (as Tim was not, she had SOME power over him, which irked him to no ... |
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