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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I feel my husband has Asperger's Syndrom... what to do??? |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2011, 9:55 am
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| Hi InLove I will pm you later in the week as my husbnand is off work for a cople of days and it's easier to write when he's not around. One of the many things that stuck out for me in what you wrote was this; "Only sometimes I can see a glimpse of my husband I know through his letters and books (som... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I feel my husband has Asperger's Syndrom... what to do??? |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2011, 3:54 pm
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| Hi InLove. I am curious to know if you have spoken to your husband yet as I have been holding on to the strong possibility that my husband is As for over a year now (marriage counsellor told me in one of our 0ne-to-one sessions. Also told me not to tell him as she couldn't tell how he would react - ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: How do I tell my husband he has Aspergers?? |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 13 Jun 2011, 1:17 pm
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Replies: 3
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| After visiting a marriage guidance counsellor over a year ago she informed me in one of our one-to-one sessions that she felt convinced my husband has Aspergers. She told me so that I might understand him better (as someone who had no knowledge of Aspergers this wasn't going to be likely) and that I... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie husband |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 10 Jun 2011, 8:39 am
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Replies: 13
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| Married him I guess is what changed. Before that we had never lived together. He is not from my country so maybe the strain of not being in his own country gets too much for him and he finds it harder to keep his aspergers at bay. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie husband |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2011, 4:12 pm
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Replies: 13
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| He sems to view the arguments as normal whilst I consider them to be crushing. I know he loves me and I have told him repeatedly that I am not happy but he doesn't seem to take it on board, just blames me for exagerating the situation. I think he is unhappy that I have withdrawn from him so much but... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie husband |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2011, 3:57 pm
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| Yes he did go to the sessions, willingly, but we also had a few one-to-ones which is when the counsellor said to me that she was convinced he had aspergers. That was over a year ago and my husband knows nothing of what she said, so I just hold this to myself as, in the words of the counsellor, I sho... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie husband |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 09 Jun 2011, 3:29 pm
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| My husband (not officially diagnosed but marriage counsellor suggested) has some behaviour that I don't understand and would like to know if anyone else knows of similar traits in other aspies. He behaves like a child sometimes and speaks through an overly eager 'smile' which is quite bizzarre and I... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Just found out my husband has Aspergers |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 30 May 2011, 3:15 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Well although I'd known him for 7 yrs before we married we had never lived together and he had also returned to his home country twice, once for a year and next for 2. He then asked me to marry him and that's when things started to change, up until then we had thought he was a bit quirky then after ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Just found out my husband has Aspergers |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 29 May 2011, 3:14 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Thanks to all of you for responding, it's much appreciated. Over a year later and I still haven't had the courage to tell my husband what the counsellor said. We don't see the counsellor anymore, I think in the end that she felt she couldn't help us as she suddenly became 'unavailable'. She told me ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Just found out my husband has Aspergers |
| Bejabo |
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Posted: 16 May 2010, 4:38 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Hi, I'm new to this but desperate for someone to share this with. I have known my husband for 14 yrs, married for 7 and we have a 4 yr old daughter. Our marriage seems to have consisted of 5 yrs of not getting along and 2 years of good times. We have been seeing a counsellor for about 9 months and a... |
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