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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do u show your affection ? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2010, 1:20 pm
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| Or how do u act around lady u have crush on? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
| petitefille |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2010, 9:41 am
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| Let's assume the guy is an aspie. From what I can tell, he's probably STILL attracted to you (IMO he wouldn't be trying to avoid you if he didn't find you attractive) but awkward as hell and afraid to show it. You were hitting on him but then you managed to confuse him, so he threw a fit and lamely... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2010, 5:23 am
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| But you see, that is what's gone . If I get a reaction that is unexpected enough, I lose the feeling that I know the person. I no longer know whether what I try to offer will be welcome or annoying or offensive. I think I have an analogy that could work for you. Imagine you know someone pretty well... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 11 Jun 2010, 5:51 pm
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| Look, I've not read every post on this thread, but may I just say... if someone asks you not to contact them, regardless of whether they are aspie or not, you should honour their wishes, and just not contact them. Anything else is unwanted on their part, can be seen as obession or stalking. The ans... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 11 Jun 2010, 5:45 pm
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| Thanks Gromit You really sound like the man in question. I am surprised to hear that you can feel uncomfortable with person you care about. At first I also feel uncomfortable however once I get to know them I would like to be close to them. I cannot reveal everything here but situation is much more ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
| petitefille |
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Posted: 11 Jun 2010, 4:05 pm
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I miss him very much 
Is it love or obsession ?
makes me feel sick again |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2010, 4:41 am
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| 1. It takes a lot for me to not like someone. They have to be consistently mean or rude. I ignore them as much as possible, and am extremely polite to them if I must interact. I am told that I look mean towards males I don't like. At the first sign of trouble with males I tend to get more aggressiv... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Gave A Girl The “Syndrome" |
| petitefille |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2010, 4:14 am
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Replies: 62
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| She probably wracked her brain trying to figure out what was going on: did she completely misread you; did she completely misunderstand your intentions; instead of the nice guy you seemed to be, were you just trying to mess with her; did you not like her romantically; are you gay....the possibiliti... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2010, 3:34 pm
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| Okay @Inchin & Hopegrows Frankly speaking I do not know if I have aspergers syndrome. I believed that I was normal until I met this guy and after spending sometime on researching online about high functioning asperger syndrome. I am usually very good at social cues and yes I manipulate sometimes... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Talking to a girl |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2010, 1:59 pm
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| Did she say actually anything else like she does not want to get involved with you etc ? Otherwise she might be just testing you to see how you react to it. It's good to have something in common with your bf/gf however there are many couples who dont have much in common anyway. So dont just give up ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2010, 1:46 pm
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| petitefille, do you wear a ring? Does he know you are in a relationship? That would cause me serious confusion. I thought one of the women at my work was single, and now she is bothered that I don't visit her as much as I used to. Another one got in a relationship and is not bothered that I reduced... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2010, 1:19 pm
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| Just from reading the posts, it seems as if both parties involved have been extremely childish. At over 30 years old, I'm guessing this isn't normal behaviour for them, but some people bring out the worst in each other. I don't agree with Alex that you should ask him out on a date; I think the more... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2010, 2:17 pm
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| If he doesn't want to talk to you about anything other than work, the best thing to do would be to respect that entirely, even if you're curious about his diagnostic state. On the flip side of what others have been saying, I think it's quite possible that he really doesn't want to talk to you and j... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2010, 12:34 pm
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| Thanks all for your advice. I really appreciate your help. Well there are more to say but I am not going to reveal too much details. To be honest I dont know what I want from him anymore, I genuinely liked him and wanted to be his friend. I felt comfortable talking to him and wanted to know him bett... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2010, 12:19 pm
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| I have a similar problem when I feel hurt by women. If I start and remain in the friend zone I am fine. It only happens if I thought the relationship got serious then went bad. I don't totally ignore the girls, but I try hard not to look at them or get into conversations with them. I wish they woul... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Please advise !possible aspie guy told me not to contact him |
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Posted: 31 May 2010, 5:53 pm
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| I promised I wont walk pass his either. After a few months I started to walk pass his department so he started walking pass my departement too. If I see him I treated him invisiable or turned my head down. It is not fair that he acts offensively towards me especially where he will see me outside my... |
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