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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Body Language |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 2:30 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 4,023
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This is the body language I understand: head nodding up and down=yes, Heading moving side to side=no
What I understand the least is winking. What is the deal with winking? Does it mean that the winker is lying or trying to hit on me? I dont get it and dont think I ever will. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I struggle to relate to my own gender. |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 2:17 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,773
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| So glad others feel this way. I have always felt more masculine than feminine. I dont wear makeup or high heels. Sometimes I dont even brush my hair and I am happy to be flat chested ( seems like boobs would get in the way). I own a hot rod Chevy. When Im around other females its like torture to me ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: You Might be an Aspie if... |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 1:39 pm
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Replies: 4,649
Views: 635,855
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| you are frequently startled or angered by loud noises, but the music in your car is always on full blast you wish it were more socially acceptable to wear sweat pants to formal events you feel that in an argument, the oppossing party should automatically differ to you, because you are smarter anyway |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Anyone want to be more social like? |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 9:46 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,176
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| I do sometimes like right now I want to go to the store to buy shoes. I dont really want to go, I kind of have to really. I wish I had someone to go with, I think it would make me feel more at ease in the store to have another person to talk to. But, I have no friends so I have to go to the store al... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you self-conscious |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 9:32 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,154
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| I'm extremely self-conscious. It's bad to the point where I don't feel comfortable sharing my real opinion with people. If someone asks me whether I liked a certain movie I'm afraid to say I didn't like it in case the other person liked it. Ugh! I hate this. I feel the same way. Its like no matter ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Odd topic: feeling distance toward your own name |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 9:23 am
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Replies: 52
Views: 4,800
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| Im so glad someone bought this up. Since I was a little girl, I have wanted to change my name. I always felt like my name was not meant for me and I would try to have people call me a different name that I made up for myself. Some of greatest name change ideas: Lazinka, Starr, Johnny and Lucifer Jon... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Does death make you cry? |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 9:09 am
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Replies: 90
Views: 10,394
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| I didn't cry when either of my grand parents died but when my dog died, I cryed for days on end. Hell, when I think about my dog now, I still cry. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Are you self-conscious |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 9:06 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,154
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| I am very self conscious, not just how I look, but what I say. I feel like everytime I talk to another person, I sound stupid or something. I never know what to say and it keeps me from talking to people. I also feel that I look like an animal and I know people are staring at me when I go out. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you like loud people? |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2010, 8:59 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 2,143
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| I can not stand to be around loud people. Unfortunatly, I live in a ghetto neighborhood and there is constant yelling, loud music and people shouting back and forth to one another. I just don't understand why they have to be so loud! On my street, in considered "cool" to make one's car alarm go off.... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I have no friends |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2010, 8:38 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,891
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My rats are my only friends.
It sucks they only live 2-3 years,
I'll be sad when they die. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Hand flapping. |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2010, 8:33 am
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Replies: 64
Views: 10,604
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| I tap my foot and like to rock back and forth. I try to not do the hand flap in public but I do it AlOT when I'm driving alone for some reason. I drive with my right hand up and when the music comes on, it's like I just can't help myself. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone ever call you the name of a tv character as an insult |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2010, 8:25 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 5,005
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League_Girl wrote: I was called Forrest Gump by my ex and everyone told me it was an insult.
Omg I've been called that one. I've been asked like the characters in the film ask " what are you stupid or something?" |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: "fake aspies" and self diagnosis. DISLIKE, sorry. |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 15 Jun 2010, 8:19 am
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Replies: 295
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| I would like to be formally diagnosed, but like many, I have no insurance and no money to do so. I've read lots of articles on aspergers and have been learning about it for almost 3 years now. Let me tell you, now that I know, I feel so much better. I have had problems since I was a child and growin... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Hating babies & children |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2010, 1:39 pm
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Replies: 99
Views: 9,294
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| I have never liked babies and when I tell people this, they assume I'm evil or something because I'm a woman. People think I should looooove kids and babies, but they just leave me feeling cold. I went with my boyfriend's sister to target and she was all looking at some random baby oooohing and ahhh... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: You Might be an Aspie if... |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2010, 1:28 pm
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Replies: 4,649
Views: 635,855
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| you can carry on a conversation by using nothing but movie quotes or song lyrics. I seriously do this all the time and I feel so happy to know that other people do it too!! !! !! !! !! !! !! And the funny thing is...they (the people you are talking to) don't even notice :P It's so true, I think I'v... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I Have No Social Network |
| BeautifulLoser |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2010, 7:40 pm
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Replies: 65
Views: 9,002
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| I have no friends at all. The ones I have had, I didnt really like them. I have no family except for one sister i barely talk to. Is it wrong that I dont feel lonely? I mean sometimes I do, but then I think about the friends I did have and I figure I'm better off. |
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