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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I get him to stop blaming himself? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2010, 10:09 pm
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Replies: 19
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 Will do, thanks for the advice.
-Biz |
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Forum: Autism Politics, Activism, and Media Representation Topic: Autism isn't fatal. Not vaccinating your child might be. |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2010, 9:41 pm
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As a psychology student, it pains me to know that people still believe that vaccinations still cause autism...It's a sad world we live in sometimes, so much bad science and so many ignorant people that just want someone to blame...
-Biz |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I get him to stop blaming himself? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2010, 9:23 pm
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I'm glad to know I'm not alone in having this issue to deal with, is there anything in particular that she does to help you not blame yourself that I might be able to try?
-Biz |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi there, my name's Biz and I'm new! |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2010, 8:26 pm
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Replies: 9
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Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome
-Biz |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I get him to stop blaming himself? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2010, 8:25 pm
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Thankyou very much for the advice and things to think about, you've been very helpful I'm going to talk to him about it next time we both have enough time for a longer conversation, wish me luck!
-Biz |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I get him to stop blaming himself? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 5:20 pm
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| I'm a pretty open and accepting individual. I'm an anarchist, and agnostic, a woman, and I identify as queer . -Biz Okay, that part kinda threw me....you're in a romantic relationship with a man but you identify as queer? I always thought queer meant gay, meaning you'd be a lesbian? Sorry, don't me... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi there, my name's Biz and I'm new! |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 8:55 am
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| Yeah, and because it's a spectrum disorder not all of the symptoms describe each individual and differences can manifest in infinite ways. Reading about the disorder helps, yeah, but just reading things that everyone on here says (problems, solutions, opinions, support for one another) reminds me of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I get him to stop blaming himself? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 8:33 am
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| It's kind of hard to do sometimes because he doesn't like to talk about his Asperger's directly. His mother (who is, in all honesty, a caring and hardworking person who only wants the best for her son) blames herself. I spent a week with his family (mom, dad, and younger sister) and they don't talk ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Weddings...how to you feel about them? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 7:39 am
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| Well, it depends on what you define marriage as. I feel no need for and state or church to sanctify my commitment to my partner. However, I would like to have a small, simple commitment ceremony for close friends and family. Because if I'm going to be monogamous with someone long term (possibly for ... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi there, my name's Biz and I'm new! |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 7:23 am
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Replies: 9
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thanks Just reading through a bunch of the threads over the last few hours has given me a lot of insight. Man, it's crazy how many things you never think about or notice when they don't affect you. Kinda makes me feel like an as*hole for being so uninformed o.O
-Biz |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I call her Cuddlebugg :) |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 7:18 am
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| I call him my Teddy Bear and he calls me Lovely XD Everyone calls me Biz and sometimes he calls me Elizabeth, my real name. We both call each other Darling and Babe or Baby and sometimes I call him my Snugglebear :-D Tbh, I've never used pet names before. I thought they were stupid and degrading...b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I get him to stop blaming himself? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 7:03 am
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| Thanks for the advice :-) In general he's a pretty upbeat person. I'm getting better at reassuring him, but it's still difficult to understand sometimes. I'm an extremely social person and I'm very, very outgoing. Because I spend so much of my time understanding people and working with people (I'm i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I get him to stop blaming himself? |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 5:45 am
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| Hey there, I'm new to the forum. I'm an NT and my boyfriend has Asperger's. We are currently in a long distance relationship. He lives a few hours away and attends a different college a few hours away from where I live and go to school. We met playing HvZ (Humans vs. Zombies) last fall and we alread... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Post a Picture of the Real You. |
| Bumblejack |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 4:56 am
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Replies: 12,718
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I'm new so the site won't let me post pictures yet 
-Biz |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hi there, my name's Biz and I'm new! |
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Posted: 26 Jun 2010, 4:29 am
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Replies: 9
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| Hey there! My name's Biz and I'm currently in college at Purdue University in Indiana majoring in Psychology and minoring in Theatre and creative writing. I'm Neurotypical and I'm a very social and outgoing person. I found Wrong Planet by doing some Wikipedia research on Asperger's because my boyfri... |
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