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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I went on a reality dating show called Love at First Kiss |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2016, 3:03 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 5,338
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| I'm surprised you made out that much at the first meeting. I expected one kiss and then an introduction. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Demisexual |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2016, 9:15 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,295
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| I can't open myself up to someone I don't know and doesn't mean anything to me. I would never pursue a complete stranger. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Virginity |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2016, 4:42 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 365
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| given how considerate he sounds, i imagine he was probably sincere when he said he loved you, even if it wasn't a realistic thing for him to follow through with. He tells a lot of his friends of any gender that he loves them (although I'm pretty sure that he's straight). I also found out that I'm p... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Virginity |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2016, 2:28 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 365
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| I'm demisexual and saving it for marriage. (which is the topic of a completely different thread) My mom and grandma emphasized waiting a lot while I was growing up. I COULD have lost my virginity to my best friend when I was 25. He got drunk and tried to hook up with me after I needed to crash at hi... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Types of asexuality |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2016, 1:46 pm
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Replies: 9
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kraftiekortie wrote: Women get sexual urges starting in adolescence, just like men do.
I didn't get my first true sexual urge until my 20s. I'm still learning as a demisexual virgin! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are dating and relationships the same thing? |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2016, 12:22 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 723
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| I've always seen people in committed relationships say they're dating someone. Are those words synonyms? I've also read that the word dating means less commitment than an exclusive relationship. How can that be? They have the same definition to me! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 12 Texts Girls Send When They’re Trying To Friend Zone You |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2016, 7:18 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 3,617
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What about someone who wants to seriously commit?
All of these sound like someone who just wants to get in a woman's pants. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Age Gap |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 07 Jun 2016, 10:22 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,773
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| I was biased, because my parents are only 2 1/2 months apart. This one guy who creepily flirted with me until I ghosted him was 6 years older, and I thought that was too old for me. My best friend, the oldest guy I ever had a crush on, is 4 years older than me. The woman who beat me to his hand and ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can Men And Women Just Be Friends? |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 26 May 2016, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 186
Views: 8,875
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nurseangela wrote: Same question as I had for someone else - if he changed his mind later on, would you have jumped his bones?
Only if we were legally married. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can Men And Women Just Be Friends? |
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Posted: 25 May 2016, 10:17 pm
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Replies: 186
Views: 8,875
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| I've recently written my own threads about my situation, and I know OP and a small handful of you have already read them, but if you haven't: I'm a straight woman. My best friend is a straight dude. We rented a house together for a school year (3 guys, 1 girl). We were distant friends while we lived... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it okay to be picky when looking at the long-term? |
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Posted: 25 May 2016, 12:25 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,323
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I would think that dating just for the sake of dating with no marital interest is a "waste of time," not being picky about a wife or husband.
It's better to be picky about a partner than to be stuck in an unfulfilling relationship. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: 'right' answers to online personality tests? |
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Posted: 14 May 2016, 8:52 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,444
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| I always read that "strongly agree/ disagree" were the only right answers on those tests. I did that a couple months ago when applying for a temporary job at a store that's closing its location in my town. (it closes at the end of this month) Of course, I never got an interview, even thoug... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Allegedly, I'm "not hungry enough" and have wrong strategies |
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Posted: 14 May 2016, 8:48 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 786
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| I had an interview to be an English or writing adjunct at the local community college this week, and was rejected a few days later because of the cliche about not having enough experience. I'm ready to volunteer tutor around the area or make a little bit of money freelancing to get that experience (... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is everyone so obsessed with serious relationships? |
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Posted: 07 May 2016, 9:14 am
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Replies: 34
Views: 1,904
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| I could never date a guy I couldn't see myself marrying. Dating is an investment, and I don't want to waste romantic energy on someone I could never commit to for a lifetime. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Serious issues with L&D Forum |
| Non_Passerine |
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Posted: 07 May 2016, 9:11 am
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Replies: 472
Views: 17,344
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| I use this forum for real advice about how to understand relationship dynamics and how to handle romantic defeat. It's a lot cheaper than shelling out for a relationship counselor (I did see a counselor a few times in the wake of my latest heartbreak, but I couldn't see him too often because of the ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How do I talk to the woman my male best friend is dating? |
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Posted: 04 May 2016, 12:16 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,195
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I'm in the process of getting over that crush. I feel that getting to know her might finish the healing process.
And my best friend is friends with some of his other female friends' romantic partners. Why should I dump his friendship if he didn't dump his other female friends when they settled down? |
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