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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Would this annoy you? |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 30 Dec 2010, 2:13 am
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Replies: 28
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| People asking me to explain the obvious irritates me too, but I haven't dealt with that a whole lot thankfully. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Anyone from Colorado? |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2010, 5:21 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,339
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I'm from Nebraska, which I suppose is nearby. But I don't actually know if I'm on the autistic spectrum or not.
Anyway, nice to meet you. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I'm new. Don't know if I have Asperger's or not. |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2010, 5:20 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,286
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DogDaySunshine: Thanks, I may ask my therapist about it during my next appointment. One of the online tests I took said I was "somewhere on the spectrum" but wasn't specific and I don't know how accurate that was.
Yeah, I'm doing well, aside from recent stresses I suppose.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Roissy's 16 Commandments |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2010, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 142
Views: 22,066
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| The "Roissy" type is a misogynist, and no half decent, self respecting girl would ever want to be around him, let alone have sex with him or have a relationship. Being a nice guy gets you a lot of friends who are girls, and if you know what to do, this can mean you'll be a better boyfriend when you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: something casual? |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2010, 4:49 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 3,801
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I can relate to an extent. I've thought about getting married in the future when the right guy comes along, but no kids for me.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bad & awkward (though resolved) situation:is this typica |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2010, 4:46 pm
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Replies: 16
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| CMaximus: Thanks for the advice. I'll have to be careful about that. So far Rob has been the only guy who's talked about sex with me in a way that made it seem like he possibly would be okay with an experience of that kind. But I'll keep that in mind anyway: I don't want to be taken advantage of. Wh... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Interesting encounter |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2010, 2:53 pm
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Replies: 1
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| I think he might have just been trying to make conversation, from what you've said here it doesn't really sound like he was hitting on you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Here's What Happened |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2010, 2:47 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Totally agree -- I can't think of one case where it worked out in my favor. Sooner or later, friends get in the way. I would say the same for the case where it's a good-looking guy and a homelier girl with ulterior motives settles for being a friend. Eventually she's going to make a move and get re... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Could ths work?? :( |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2010, 2:35 pm
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Replies: 31
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| It's a really bad idea for you to ask your best friend to have sex with her. If she really is your girlfriend she'll only be upset by that and probably think there is something wrong with her. (That is, that she's not pretty enough or that you don't love or care about her enough to have sex with her... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bad & awkward (though resolved) situation:is this typica |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2010, 2:21 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Sionis: Don't worry, I wasn't offended. Polgara and Lene: I suppose it's possible that he actually wanted real sex and was freaked out, or else had me in the "platonic friend" category. Interesting that you brought that up, Lene, because Rob told me that I was "more like a dude than a chick" at one ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bad & awkward (though resolved) situation:is this typica |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2010, 9:30 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,857
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I forgot to add: I'm not going to try to be friends with him, in fact, I'm ignoring him completely from now on.
Thanks for the input. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Obsessiveness and AS? Could it develop into stalking? |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2010, 9:28 pm
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Replies: 54
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| I have been labeled a stalker by one person, even though I was very upfront in letters I wrote about my feelings... and I was confused and am still, in a way, confused that attempts to show you have feelings for someone can be seen as stalking, but I suppose this comes back to not being able to put... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Bad & awkward (though resolved) situation:is this typica |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2010, 9:21 pm
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Replies: 16
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| I was recently in a very uncomfortable situation, and I wonder if part of it may be due to the fact that I honestly cannot understand subtle social cues. A friend of mine directed me to this forum after hearing about this situation, and a couple of other instances, so, I figured this would be the fo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you date a man who was physically unable to have sex? |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2010, 8:15 pm
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Replies: 69
Views: 10,923
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Willard wrote: You mean you know a dude who's a eunuch and also has no tongue or fingers? 
Lol! Good point.
I answered "maybe". I'd probably prefer to be in a sexual relationship but it depends. |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I'm new. Don't know if I have Asperger's or not. |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2010, 7:06 pm
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Replies: 11
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| @DogDaySunshine: I do go to a therapist, but I haven't brought up the issue of possibly being on the Autistic spectrum. I've never had any tests done. I remember having to go to this physical therapy class briefly in elementary school because I was nervous about walking up steep sets of stairs and I... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: I'm new. Don't know if I have Asperger's or not. |
| Shehzain |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2010, 4:41 pm
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Replies: 11
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| Hello. I joined this community at the recommendation of an online friend who believes I have some characteristics of Asperger's. What she pointed out was social awkwardness (I told her all about some real life issues I've been having), mostly. She doesn't have it, herself, but several of my online f... |
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