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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 31 Aug 2010, 3:43 pm
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If that is what you want to think, thats fine.
Thanks for your response. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 31 Aug 2010, 2:50 pm
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Thanks for all your comments EnglishLulu. No one is forcing me to be in this relationship. I am with him for almost 6 months. As I was always saying I like him so much, he is good honest guy but his behavior is little different than others. We dont talk 3 or 4 days in a row and then meet for 2 or 3 ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 31 Aug 2010, 1:24 pm
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Thanks Dilbert. If he really realizes what he is doing he should call and ask me to go with for weekend right? I clearly mentioned in the email that I being neglected, I am the one who has to call to meet etc So do you think he will change his behavior or just continue this? I still dont understand ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 31 Aug 2010, 10:53 am
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No response, but I met him yesterday and asked him whether he had read the message, he said yes and then I asked him why there is no response and he said "I dont know what to write". I did not dig alot because I was happy that he read what I am feeling about the relationship. May be next time when I... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 29 Aug 2010, 3:20 pm
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Hi All, Last night I wrote an email to my bf saying that I am being neglected, he only seem to have a little interest in me. Most of the time I am the one who has to call to see if we are meeting. Whenever we meet we does not spend much time together, the date ends quickly and so on. I did not get a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 22 Aug 2010, 8:54 pm
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It make sense Kilroy. May be that is how he is. It is very hard to change someones behavior. If he calls me this week I am planning to explain his behaviour and tell him that it bothers me. If he really wants me he will change if not what else I can do. I think emotionally it is not good for me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 22 Aug 2010, 8:19 pm
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It make sense Kilroy. Thanks for your response.
I will just wait and see how it goes. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 22 Aug 2010, 7:39 pm
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Thanks elucidation. More than I am unhappy I just feel like I am being neglected. He gives more importance to what he want and dont care to even think what I want to do. Very selfish. I noticed that when he does something which he wants automatically he thinks I am also very happy. I am thinking of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 22 Aug 2010, 7:04 pm
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Dilbert I really appreciate your time to reply me. It feels like I have someone I cant talk my pain. It is really painful. Today I think I messed up with him, after all I am also a human being. Usually I am very patient in nature, but today I lost little patience on him. At work I was told I can tak... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 22 Aug 2010, 7:12 am
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 8:31 pm
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Dilbert - Thank you so much. Your input is very helpful. With the exception of being obsessive you were right on point. What is your advice for long term relationship? If I dont break up with you he will be mine forever, which makes me happy in one way, but at the same time it is hard to think he ha... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 4:00 pm
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But on online dating site, I was the first person to email him, then he had done all arrangements to meet in the coffee shop. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 3:59 pm
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Thank you all.
We met in online website. I think fourth date he introduced me to his co-worker as his Girl Friend. I was very surprised and shocked when he did that, because until then I myself not sure what kind of place I have in his life. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 2:30 pm
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Thanks everyone. i_Am_andaJoy I even tried emailing you 2 months ago, saying that "I feel that in our relationship we need more time together both in Quality and in Quantity. If we dont talk and spend more quality time together how are we going to get to know each other better". He replied saying "W... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 1:30 pm
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Buryuntime, thanks for ur response. But please do not say I am trying to find an excuse for my abuse.
If he really has no ASD, I think I will be the first person to be happy, but if he has and if someone knows how to deal or fix the issue, I would be really helpful. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I think my boy friend has Aspergers, but not really sure. |
Anna123 |
Posted: 20 Aug 2010, 11:33 am
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My name is Anna, I am here in need of help with my boy friend. I am pretty sure he has Aspergers, because he seems to have all signs of someone who have ASD. I havent asked to confirm that. My friend who has a relative with ASD is convienced that my bf has ASD. She sees strong similarities between m... |
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