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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Any of you Aspie women have a significant other? |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 07 Oct 2010, 2:07 pm
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1) Are you single or married? How do you feel about it and why? Engaged to be married. Couldn't be happier with it. 2) How many relationships you've had? A handful of short rubbish ones before this one - nothing really meaningful 3) Where did you both meet? Properly? After a concert in a train stati... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Birthday Anxiety |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 07 Oct 2010, 1:45 pm
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I know this feeling all too well. After years of trying to convince people that I can't deal with the fuss, my friends and family actually realised I meant it this year! I settled for going to my relatives for coffee one morning a few days before hand and the night before I had a meal at my house fo... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Questions about you |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 07 Oct 2010, 1:31 pm
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Location: North-west England Hobbies and Interests: Reading, Sewing, Embroidery, Historical Re-enactment, Why are you here? Trying to make a bit more sense of a lot of things that have just "clicked" into place over the past couple of years. When were you diagnosed?(skip if you don't have a disorde... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: People In Your House |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 26 Sep 2010, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 15 Views: 3,327
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Definately. It was far worse when we lived in a small flat and there was no-where for me to go if people I didn't really know came round (my partners friends and family). It puts me really on edge if anyone is in "my" space, either people I don't know that well or people that I wasn't expecting to s... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Planning a wedding with AS? |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 26 Sep 2010, 12:24 pm
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Replies: 19 Views: 2,778
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I nearly forgot, choose your bridesmaids very carefully. I had my daughter and one of my oldest friends, my sisters were really pissed off that I didn't ask them but it was the best decision I made. On the day they, my daughter and friend, dealt with every problem that came up, not me. They were in... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Planning a wedding with AS? |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 9:37 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 2,778
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Thankyou for all the responses! Severus - That is pretty much what I have wanted to do since we got engaged, I wouldn't says it's being a coward at all. Unfortunatley my fiances family would definatley fall out with us if we went and got married without telling anyone and I don't think that'd be the... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Are there any "girly" Aspies out there? |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 3:59 am
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Replies: 75 Views: 13,260
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As far as appearences go I'm not really that girly - I'm not interested in hair, or makeup or things like that. I will wear skirts and dresses when I have to but they have to be long and made out of something comfortable (linen or something similar) - I can't stand most of the synthetic stuff they s... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: list of female AS traits |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 3:43 am
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Replies: 271 Views: 65,376
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Thank you for posting this - there are possibly 4 or 5 things on the table that don't fit, but the rest is spot on! |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 3:06 am
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Replies: 9 Views: 1,020
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Thanks all  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Planning a wedding with AS? |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 2:42 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 2,778
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Hi, Me and my other half are getting married this time next year and we're at the stage now where we can start booking things and making bits and pieces that we're doing ourselves. I'm just wondering if anyone else here has dealt with planning a wedding whilst having AS. From colleagues at work, I b... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Things that I Love |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 25 Sep 2010, 2:23 am
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Replies: 19 Views: 2,672
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- My partner
- My close friends
- My family
- My re-enactment group
- Camping
- Sunrises/sunsets on the beach
- Bright colours
- Music
- My rucksack that you can seemingly keep an endless amount of stuff in!
- Home grown fruit and veg
- Thunder storms
- Coffee |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 24 Sep 2010, 3:09 pm
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Sewing/Embroidery/Costume Design.
What is your favourite musical instrument? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Hairdressers |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 24 Sep 2010, 2:32 pm
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Replies: 37 Views: 5,126
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Going to the hairdressers is something I put off for month and months at a time - I find it really difficult. Because I had to move to a town, there's only big salon style places which tend to play really loud music and have loads and loads of people with too much stuff going on. I can't cope with t... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello! |
black_swan100 |
Posted: 24 Sep 2010, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 9 Views: 1,020
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Hi Everyone,
Just a quick post to say hello from North West England here
Really not sure what else to say at this point...!  |
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