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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Strapples appreciation thread |
| Karlita |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2010, 2:57 am
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Replies: 381
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I'm new to this site, but you seem like an incredibly nice guy!  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
| Karlita |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2010, 2:50 am
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Replies: 539
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| I guess thats a bad example I dont know. I hate compliments Hey, I don't mean to give you a hard time. I'm sorry if you felt that way. I was just trying to help the guys on this site get a better idea of what women want. I might be the exception to the girls/women finding that approach good. Maybe ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Nice Guys and Love, what's your take on the issue |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2010, 10:33 pm
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| There are a lot of nice girls out there if you know what to look for. As an NT, some nice guys I'm attracted to, some I'm not. It doesn't have much to do with whether they are especially assertive or not. I hate jerks, which is why I've dated so little. I tend to be very (perhaps overly) cautious. T... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2010, 9:45 pm
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| Of course you would know they're lying. Thats the point. You said you know you're not ugly cause people tell you you're not. So why do you need another person telling you that? This isn't really about expressing 'romantic interest' cause you dont know the person that well. Its just a girl you're at... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Help! - Dilemma for new Aspie? |
| Karlita |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2010, 4:44 am
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Replies: 9
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| Your family probably has such reactions because they are ignorant of Asperger's Syndrome. Maybe giving them a book about AS might help, or like another poster said, making a list of your symptoms to show them. No one wants to believe anything they find negative about someone they love dearly, especi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: sorry, message gone |
| Karlita |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2010, 4:29 am
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Replies: 24
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| i'm pretty sure my husband is and aspie. i love him, but he's driving me nuts. His big things are he doesn't want to talk about anything upsetting, he's overly concerned with how much money i make and he won't touch me if i'm over 145 pounds-period. no discussion. i'd really like to have another ba... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: DataSage’s Alpha Male Guide to Meeting Women (JULY UPDATE!!) |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2010, 3:51 am
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| yeah, tell a girl, who has issues, that shes ugly in a playful manner and see how that goes. For NT girls, beauty is number one importance in their life, its walking on eggshells. As an NT female, I agree with your statement about telling a woman/girl that she's ugly. If someone were to tell me tha... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Questions about you |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2010, 9:55 pm
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| What is your first name? Karla Age: just turned 28 yrs old Location: in the Southern California desert, near the Mexican border Hobbies and Interests: literature, art, the humanities, fashion, music, psychology, collecting books, beauty (grooming, toiletries, make-up, etc.), international cuisine, s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT Dating Behaviors |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2010, 2:35 pm
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Replies: 27
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| What I know about Neurotypical dating: 1. They don't like Aspies partaking in it. 2. They don't tell the Aspies how it works. 3. Um... That's it. :) Good luck! It may seem that way most of the time, but I have read numerous threads by NTs who are interested in Aspies looking for tips on how to make... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT Dating Behaviors |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2010, 3:27 pm
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Replies: 27
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| I find it strange that that the majority of people don't seem to be the slightest bit grossed out by the idea of kissing someone on the lips, or even French kissing. I don't understand couple's motives when they make out in public. Shouldn't they be uncomfortable? Do they really love physical conta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT Dating Behaviors |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2010, 3:21 pm
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Replies: 27
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| I find it strange that that the majority of people don't seem to be the slightest bit grossed out by the idea of kissing someone on the lips, or even French kissing. I don't understand couple's motives when they make out in public. Shouldn't they be uncomfortable? Do they really love physical conta... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT Dating Behaviors |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2010, 12:32 am
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Replies: 27
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| Why do girls flirt with guys they don't even like? Why do both guys and girls cheat on their partners? Why is everyone expected to get married at some point? I realise the last one is not strictly on the same subject, but it's still related. I think all three of these are centered around self-estee... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: NT here |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2010, 5:34 pm
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| Hi, Jac0511! I'm also an NT interested in an undiagnosed AS person, my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years, but I have become very recently aware about his certainly of his self-diagnosis. He will be evaluated for AS soon. He says he is 95% sure he has AS. I have read several books about AS... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why do you talk about your obsessions? |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2010, 4:43 pm
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Replies: 33
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| I've read that AS people tend to focus on their special topics more when they're stressed or uncomfortable. I've noticed my boyfriend (undiagnosed AS, will get evaluation soon) does this when I bring up something in conversation that makes him stressed or uncomfortable. He tends to bring up (or purs... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Are Aspies A Fetish? |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2010, 1:12 am
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Replies: 27
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| I may be looking at it way different then many do hmm.. if that is the case, then you separate you, yourself from you your aspie qualities? I usually don’t, but in this case I will. AS is still just a personality description, not a core description of a human, so I’ll separate myself from it with r... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The autism social rule book. |
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Posted: 27 Sep 2010, 6:06 pm
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Replies: 877
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| I'm an NT who has been in a successful relationship with a man with mild Asperger's (24 yr old college student) for three years and here are some tips that seem to have remained unmentioned specifically: When someone asks you to do something, if you plan to do it, do it in a TIMELY manner, especiall... |
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