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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
| MR20 |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2019, 3:21 pm
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Replies: 29
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Necro bump!
I've been feeling kinda down lately, so it was nice to come back and see how far I've come from the person I've been in the past to who I am now.
I once again thank the posters that are still on here for offering me advice and putting up with me even when I wouldn't listen. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2018, 10:53 am
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| I'm pretty chill. I think you're misrepresenting my post(s), and are assuming things based on that. I don't think I misrepresent anything. I have read your first post and I think you overdo it, but you can keep on this way if you like it and disregard my advice. I don’t “beat myself up” about the t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2018, 7:19 pm
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| I didn't "jump to another extreme", I just stopped pitying myself and realized that the issues I have are my own and mine alone to deal with. I mean the whole "it's all my fault" and "stop placing so much important on sex and relationship" stuff. I think you are sort o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2018, 6:01 pm
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| I have sympathy for some who are "involuntarily celibate." I know the feeling pretty well LOL I don't have it, though, for those who make a political agenda out of it. Who start talking crap about women, and about themselves. And come up with all these hairbrained theories about why they ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2018, 5:10 pm
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Replies: 29
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| Thanks for your post MR20, it was very good and informative! :) I'm glad you were able to reevaluate and change yourself to a more healthy outlook, that is something that takes a lot of effort and determination. I think it's important to realize that although people who have ideas like that are tox... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2018, 3:22 pm
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Replies: 29
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| Men typically become more desirable as dating partners as they get older. This isn't true for most women. https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-advice/older-men-dating-younger-women/ Here is some data to back that up. I don't think that's true at all. :D There's a lot of desire for "Milfs"... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2018, 2:24 pm
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BTDT wrote: Congratulations! You are making good progress. Fortunately, as a guy, you do have more time to work things out.
Thanks, but I'm not sure what you meant by your last sentence? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2018, 1:45 pm
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| If I were you I'd try to put less effort on self-blame and more on improving myself. It seems to me that is exactly what he did. It took him awhile but he eventually got there. He just jumped from one extreme to the other, he should be more chill. By the way there's a difference between acknowledgi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hello everyone |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2018, 8:13 pm
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| When I came to this site 8 years ago, I was in a horrible place. I had extremely low self-esteem, I was bitter, miserable, angry, and had f****d up, incel-like ideas and thoughts about women, men, sex, and relationships. I was jealous of good-looking men who were able to date successfully. I thought... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating and Social stigmas... |
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Posted: 08 Feb 2015, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 14
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| so... this one is more on a personal level... I am one of those people who a wired that I can be attracted to some one at first glance, but not have the nerve to make an approach, or to ask someone out, I usually have to take the longer route of getting to know them through some other means before ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: #yesallwomen |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2014, 8:43 am
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Replies: 219
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| Well "the menz" don't complain about sexism/misandry when members of the opposite sex makes harmless generalizations about us. We don't play the victim or feign outrage over every harmless comment. I understand extreme comments, but some of the stuff tarantella64 was complaining about was silly. Ser... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: #yesallwomen |
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Posted: 31 May 2014, 8:55 pm
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Replies: 219
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| I guess all this madness started shortly after Elliot Rodger earned his fifteen minutes of infamy. The guy was a psychopathic dirtbag, but his motivation (his virginity and lack of a girlfriend) was the emotional equivalent of a steel-toed kick in the balls. I've had a string of failed relationship... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: #yesallwomen |
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Posted: 31 May 2014, 8:43 pm
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| I've seen a lot of feminists project his views onto other people that are/were in his situation. They're plenty of socially awkward, depressed, lonely, and virgin guys that don't think about slaughtering women en masse. In fact I'm pretty sure 99.99999999999% of them don't think this way. Are we go... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: regarding moderation |
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Posted: 31 May 2014, 11:54 am
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Replies: 101
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Persevero wrote: Don't be a sexistist, Boo.
Yes we have to be tolerant of their intolerance. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Price of Aloneness..... |
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Posted: 29 May 2014, 9:55 am
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Replies: 15
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| Wise quote from a wise woman. RIP |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A True Nice Person |
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Posted: 29 May 2014, 9:53 am
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Replies: 165
Views: 8,570
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Giftorcurse wrote: Nice Guys finish last.
hmmm I'm sure a lot of women wouldn't mind that  |
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